Can I learn to say "No"?

Hello my beautiful read cash family!

How was everyone here?I hope you are all doing great today .Election in the Philippines is nearly coming .Lets all pray that we will having a peaceful election.And for all the Filipinos ,we will vote wisely ,it is a six years of service ,we will have to vote the candidates who are truly loves the country .

Anyways ,today is the delivery of the materials we bought yesterday from the two hardwares.Since we are a little bit far from the barangay road ,we need to get the materials going to our place.My husband decided that his the one who will gather those materials coz we don't have enough budget ,even if he is tired from his night shift duty ,he will have to transfered those materials .

He came home at 8 in the morning ,after taking his breakfast he started getting the 15bags of cement ,then when he finished getting the cement ,we asked his nephew to help him ,his nephew will the one who put the sand at the sack and my husband will also get those sacks of sands going to the area where we planning to build our house.My husband decided to asked our neighbor to gathered the hollowblocks , good thing that our neighbor did'nt demand huge amount for labor.

It was 10am ,when one of our neighbor saw them busy transfering those materials from the road going to our place and asked my husband to help but I told my husband that we don't have enough budget for a labor but this neighbor asked my husband coz he really needs money to buy rice and my husband felt pity for him ,he is not asking a huge amount anywy ,he told my husband even if we will pay him 1.50pesos each hollowblocks.I felt guilty if I say no ,I know how much he needs it.

I told them that were giving them a free lunch and snacks .It was 2pm when they finished transfering the materials.And we spend 800pesos for transfering those materials.

Can I say "No"?

Our neighbor who is selling personal collection products offer some products to me but I decided not get some products from her ,although I felt pity but she is the daughter of our theif neighbor who stole the molave tree I know she's not the one who stole it but she tolerate his father's mistake ,sila pa yung galit even if they knew how liar their father is ,I know that as a daughter they will protect their father but my point is I don't want her to tolerate her father's mistake and worst thing I learned from our nieghbor that they are planning na magreklamo sa barangay ,talaga?baliktarin nila yung nangyari ,jusko naman ginawa nilang masama si brother in law ko kasi daw walang ebidensya eh yung papa na nga nila ang umamin dito sa amin but pagdating sa barangay ay nag deny naman.Sigh!so ayun I did'nt buy her products nalang.

Here's our another neighbor who are selling snacks ,but I did'nt bought some of her tinda kasi nagtitipid ako but my husband told me to buy kahit kunti lang para naman kahit papano mabawasan yung tinda niya.Diba ang bait ni husband.

Its a big "Yes" and not a " No"

Kuya Jose our neighbor na binayaran ni husband to transfer the materials asking me to be one of the godparent of their newly born baby girl ,of course its a big yes for me .I am happy that they trusted me as the second parents of their baby and I did'nt think any seconds and said yes quickly.This coming May 15 is the baptism of their baby .

I remember when we are planning to get some god parents for my eldest son ,one of my husband's friend offered himself but when the baptsim is nearly coming ,he said that that he find someone who will replace him as a godparent for my son but they said its not good na mag back out kasi angel yan so ayun ,natuloy yung pagiging ninong niya.

And thats it for today ,anyway my apology of not renewing my sponsorships to some users here coz I really need money now but soon when everything is fine ,I'm going to renew all my sponsorships🤗

Thank you for your time ,God bless🙏