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An Ambivalent Apropos With My Workmate `March 24, 2022 - Thursday, 10:35 PM` In life we always encounter all kinds of adversities in all types of humans we have to deal with in our day to day lives. Sometimes we can keep our temper and sometimes we lose our cool too towards them that may result as a disadvantage or a setback for us.
Now, I'll just cut this intro short for I am to thrilled to share this one to y'all chill'hustler's. Hehe...!!! A Shaky And Toxic Workmate As I started this new chapter in my life being employed full-time, I need to adjust and adopt quickly into my new work-environment. It's exactly one month today since I started working in this new institution. But, I've already seen enough of my workmates working habits which leads me to writing this special topic solely for him, which has a very toxic and childish attitude. I am currently working as a back-up manager on a poultry and livestock supply agrivet store wherein sometimes it puts me on an avoidable situation to carry sacks of feeds and dogfood, especially when the sales clerks are delivering customer orders to their houses and farms. The job is very easy with even lesser pressure than my previous work as a branch manager of a well known pawnshop here in the Philippines.
We have two sales clerk here who happens to be my boardmate's too and both of them are always scratching each others ego's in terms of working and the other one also count's the works he's already done each and everytime. This person always on a silent mode, he's not used to speaking and not good in communicating too, maybe because he's not "bisaya" but, he's already three years long staying and working here in cebu. He's Ilocano by the way and the rest four of us speaks cebuano. Last monday, early in the morning because our call 7:00 AM - 6:00 PM and the store should be open 6:50 AM in order for the workers to be ready once the roll ups are open. The first customer ordered eight (8) sacks of chicken mash pellet for his chicken layer farm and I wasn't able to help him because I was busy entertaining other customers too. So, this workmate of mine starts to act weird and then stops talking too. When they came back after delivering the feeds, the other sales clerk which is also the driver talk and reported to me that this sales clerk was murmuring about me being not able to help him load those 8 sacks of feeds. At first, after hearing that he was disappointed in me for not helping him, I just laugh soo hard but later on, but later on, it develops hate in me towards him. To be honest, I don't want to deal with him anymore even at this early stage of my job and I also felt sorry for him sometimes, because he's not learning his job obligations as an employee eventhough he's been working in the company for three years now but still doesn't take it seriously and accountable for his actions. This sales clerk I'm talking about is not that young anymore because he's a full grown man now. If time comes and he can't still develop good communication skills, he will for sure be put in the same situation always, especially his attitude of counting the work he's already did on any basis which is being paid all the time whenever he reports at work. He's also hard headed and un-approachable, if only its not us that he's working with who choose to understand him, for sure he'll be experiencing nightmares everyday at work. Good thing he's the youngest in our workplace at 25 years old and I'm the latest employee which happens also to be the oldest at 29 years old chill'hustler's, which makes it a little hard for me to show my real emotions because I need to act as the most neutral in all of us. So far, the situation been still the same even before I arrive at the company. But I'm hopeful, that someday with life experience and personal life lessons, life will teach him the hard way for him to change and learn to adopt in what environment he's in.
Closing Thoughts In my personal experience working here in the city for the last 10 years, the best asset we can have is our personality and attitude towards others. Learning to jam with the group your in or just learn to respect and treat them right the way you wanted to be treated. Always remember when put into this type of situations in the future, you should be clever in a good way and try to give respect all the time, because respect can't be earn in one night but rather through giving respect to others. Be mature enough and always try to choose the simplest way in dealing with these types of situation and the most important of all is to accept any situation no matter what will happen. Hello there Chill'hustlers!! 🙋🏽♂️ That's it for today and as always, I'm glad you reach the end again, thank y'all for always sharing your day with me, see you on the next one Chill'hustler's. Have a chill vibe month of March and stay hopeful cause better days are comin', Good vibes always, Jah bless and PEACE ✌️!!! 🙏🙇 Adieux..!!! ------------------------------------------ Title : An Ambivalent Apropos With My Workmate Author : @Carewind - 86th Article March 24, 2022 - Thursday, 10:35 PM My Previous Article https://read.cash/@Carewind/a-valentine-story-did-your-plan-worked-on-valentines-day-cdfc85ac#my-previous-articles Seven Streams of Income III
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If he needs help, why can't he just simply ask kung di man nya nakita na may ginagawa ka diba. I hate it when people don't ask if they need help tapos mambabadmouth pa. Krrrrr. Kairita.
Kaya nga lods, nagalit talaga ako pero diko nalang pinakita sa kanila kasi nga, bago ako at ako yung pinaka matanda, siya lang talaga matagal na nilang problema, parang ayaw gumalaw, dati pa daw yan. Kaya ngayon wala akung paki kung gagalaw siya o hindi, pero nakukunsinsya ako ko diko pinapansin ako patuloy magmumukhang masama.
Intindihin mo nala g lods, may ganyan talaga na di madevelop ung communication skills nila 🤣
Kaya nga lods, subrang loading pa kausap haha pinapabayaan ko nalang if hihinginsiya ng tulong tumutulong naman ako. Hehe
Unting pasensiya pa sa kanya lods, if di magbago pwese niyo nman na sigurong kausapin regarding sa attitude niya sa work.
Yun nga problema lods, ayaw magpasabi nun, akalain mo dati daw pinagsabihan ng manager na maghakot ng saku2 dahil may deliver nagalit daw dahil di tumulong yung manager, gago talaga na bata, manager pinagsisilusan pa dahil ayaw gumalaw. Haha
It seems that his just making things harder bro. As I read the work Is not hard so why do he needs to put those pressured on. But anyways maturity is not on the aged but from how you can handle situations and you really suit yourself there. Parang ikaw pa yung magtatama sa mga mali nila ehh
Kaya nga lods, kasalanan ng dati nila manager kaya tumigas ang mga ka trabaho ko lods, nasanay kasi na manager nila walang pakialam sa kanila basta sumahod lang lods.
Naku Kaya Malay Mo nman sis ehh ikaw po makapag Bago saknila Kailangan din po nilang umyos ehh para Sa ikakabuti Ng lahat
Ako lang palagi nasa gitna lods chill lang ng chill. Hehe, di ako magpapa stress. Hehe
Ayan na naman tayo bhe sa vocabulary mong di ko mareach...hahaha. Pagpasensyahan mo na bhe pero alam ko magkatulad tayo, hindi tayo katulad ni Ahrciel na mahaba ang pasensya...hahaha Pero I know you can do it, isipin mo na lang yung sinabi ko kapag medyo asar ka na...hahaha
Haha na tawa ako dun bhe ahh, sa di tayo katulad ni buddy, naalala ko tuloy mga ka short temperan natin dati especially sa mga nababadshot tayo na mga proseso haha
oh di ba, sabi ko naman sayo hahaha... pero tiis lang kaya mo yan bhe
Aie oo naman bhe, mema sulat lang yan bhe ehh, haha na absent kasi ng one day. Haha
absent din ako kahapon bhe, brownout kase
Aie dalawa pala tayo bhe, haha pero okay yun isa mo malaki na bhe, sulat lang ng sulat.
oo nga bhe, may nabubudol din kahit na waley na waley 🤣
Haha okay na yan, congrats nga pala sa 10K na viewers bhe, naol, akin 5K palang haha
salamat bhe...mauunahan mo pa ako nyan hehe
Walang chance bhe, haha dami mo close dito ako mabibilang lang. Hehe
hala sya dami.mo kayang subs akin konti lang
Di naman yan ganun bhe,. Tulog na iba nyan, views ko nga di aabot ng 30 minsan haha
Hindi lahat ng magiging kaworkmate natin is magiging kaibigan natin. Nandyan kasi yung inggit, selos, at iba pa na nagiging barrier para mas mapaganda pa yung samahan
Kaibigan ko siya lods, kasi boardmate ko nga nang mapunta ako dito naging workmate kona, dito lang nagka gaguhan ng kunti dahil nga tinira nya ako pero wala naman yun sakin, pinapabayaan ko nalang pero yun nga di maiwasan na magbago treatment ko sa kanya.
Ang hirap pkisamahan ng ganyang tao , magkakaroon talag lage ng someting sa trabaho nyo kapag ganyan sya..Dedmahin mo na lang sya at gawin yun trabaho mo ng maayos
Kaya nga lods, napalahirap talaga, siya pa matapang kung pagsasabihan, kung di lang kami naawa, sarap e report, bahala nalang ang mga superior namin kung ano siya, dahil pag napalitan manager dito, di talaga to papasa.
tama yan, for sure naman napapansin na ng mga superior nyo yun behaviour nya. Pra iwas na din sa gulo
Yun nalang talaga lods, nakaka konsensya kasi kung kami na mismo magsabi di owd ang attitude nya as a worker.
Tama jud ka lods.lisud man pakisamahan ang mga ing ana nga klase sa tao pero pasensya nalang jud ang atong mahimo.Glad I work alone sa akong giworkan.ako rang angay pakitunguhan ang mga nagkalain lain nga batasan sa akong mga customer.
Swerte jud ka ana lods, lisud lage makisama, makalagot pajud usahay bisag di natu tuyuon kay mag mug ot raman gud ma bwesit tag samot. Haha
Ayaw nalang paapektar Ana lods Para good mood ka sa work
Mao lage lods, saon wala may laing choice lage kay mukaon patag bugas lods. Hehe
Mao gyud Mao ng agwanta nalang
Gani lods, style naku di nalang naku tagdun bahalag babag sa akung bupt kay maluoy kp nya pods. Haha
Nakooo nakaka drain yung ganyang tao lods. Wag mo nlang pansinin siguro. Ang hirap paksiamahan ng ganyan eh.
Kaya nga lods, kami nalang umiintindi kasi kawawa kung papatulan, na swerte siya lahat kami naawa sa kanya dahil kung hindi malamang, matatanggal talaga sa trabaho.