It's You, Over And Over Again

It's funny how we don't get to believe that we are responsible for anything that happens to us, good or bad.

The truth is, whatever we allow happening to us, will happen to us without any regrets at all. This life of ours is our full responsibility. We have what it takes to shape the way things will happen, the way people see us, we have what it takes to achieve those goals and dreams we have already planned all out.

Be rest assured that once you decide to take your life seriously, a lot of discouragements will come following it. Sometimes, apart from being a natural write-off from people, this is one of the core reasons we get public discouragements.

Why do we get public discouragements?

You keep asking yourself why people don't believe in your, or your vision.

Who believes in someone or something who doesn't believe in himself either?

Your self disbelieves, brought about your public disbelieve and discouragement.

Even if you are yielding little or no results yet., There is a way you will carry yourself, with so much confidence, that people around you would want to believe whatever you've got to showcase. Even if it ain't visible yet.

Now., you really don't need their encouragement if you have built your self-confidence. Whether or not they believe in you, it will be both an advantage. Because their disbelieve would bring about more reasons to keep pushing vehemently.(That's if you are determined notwithstanding.) And their belief would be more grease to your elbows.

If a few of your problems are based on the fact that people don't believe in you, your abilities, your vision, your dreams, and whatever you've got to offer., This is for you!

Firstly, this shouldn't be your problem as humans decide what to believe, and what not to believe. But in order to win their belief over to your side, and shove their disbelieve to someone or something else.,

This is what you must do:

✓First, believe in yourself that you CAN., And you WILL.

✓Carry yourself with value, and healthy self-esteem. However way you treat or carry yourself, there's every possibility of you being addressed as such too.

✓Be a little more persistent, hardworking, determined, prayerful, than the usual you've put in previously.

✓Even when not where you ought to be, always and always; celebrate your little wins. Be glad about how much you've achieved, and how little you are progressing. These are your little beginnings. Be proud of the YOU, you are becoming.

All of these virtues, work hand in hand.

The beautiful truth is,

When they get to see how unwavering, persistent, and determined you are., Despite all the discouragements from all and sundry... They would respect you, your little ACHIEVEMENTS, and the YOU, you are becoming.

In whatever decision take., So long as it is good. Just know people may never get to understand you the way you ought to be understood.

Stop trying to always prove a point to people, who see/saw the actual facts and didn't act on it.

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This is the more reason why till tomorrow., I don't do arguments.. if they don't believe the truth you say, despite your all sincerity., Don't stress. They are allowed to believe anything they wish to.

But!

Don't waste unnecessary energy trying to prove and prove and prove.

God will vindicate you!

Time would vindicate you!

So long as you are being truthful and real.

Please, don't stress!

So if public disbelieve and discouragements from friends and family is what troubles you.,

Worry not!

Be Intentional about your self-development.

Forget about them for now.

Build your self-confidence. That's all you need, God inclusive to thrive.

How about you be more Intentional and persistent?

And watch them follow up behind like they always did., Even when we know they never did so.

Relax and think out ways of doing your thing.

Success ain't far from you no more.

Thanks for reading, I love you specially

20 Dec.2021, A CandyBOy Publishments

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