Learning To Speak Nicer

Atmosphere most times isn't determined by the climate change, sometimes it's how the conversation between two people are going, how smooth or how rough. Many times there are tensions rising from an intending meeting with someone, before you get there you were nervous, but as soon as the person spoke to you, the mode and manner at which he received you, you'll notice how all the fear suddenly left. Its not that you can build your confidence, rather its in the fact that words and create its own environment., if you want someone afraid, sad, happy, proud, you can simply do it via your words coupled with corresponding actions. Words indeed are life and they can make alive.

I have always believed the scriptural verses that says out of the fullness of the heart the mouth speaks, so most times how people relate to you and how they speak to you directly goes a long way to show their reception towards you, whether you're accepted or you're not. I'm one to care about the tone of your voice, the way it projects out and to crown it all, the facial expressions, all these tells you what you need to take home from a meeting with someone else, if maybe you'll be expecting to see more from them or you better be running far away from them.

Some people are so impolite, their words sends so much hate to the world at large, and they feel its okay. Formerly I feel they haven't meant someone who was bold enough to face them and give them a fair share of their does, but later found out that wasn't the case, infact they are very aware of what they are and what they are doing. Some has built up this attitude as a defense mechanism, a way to keep others off them from preying on them. They appear all strict and wicked to people so that they fear and think twice before trying anything funny with them, until you see how polite they are with few people whom they have accepted.

Its not enough to know how to speak or having a clearer voice to communicate better, it's still not enough to know how to speak a language fluently, one aspect we should see to, would be the area of speaking nicely and politely to another person. Some people we see don't care how the words comes out of their mouth and they also don't care how you recieve the words, if you got hurt by it or was matured enough to let it slide, or be bold enough to confront the speaker about your disapproval of such words, all that doesn't matter, in fact they can't care any less, and this should be an issue.

That has been a claim I guess, cause no one would naturally be impolite to someone who is in a position to help them. Those who they speak so harshly to are those who they feel can offer them nothing at all. But how wrong can you be? We could have judged and sized someone especially from the first appearance, so typical of we humans as though we never learn that even the wealthiest still maintain a simple lifestyle, however we are waiting for the glamorous and elegantly dressed before we can greet and act all nice. This is so wrong, being polite should come naturally, it should be an habit.

What can be gained from speaking badly to another, maybe when someone who has gone way off limit and need to put in check, then it can be understood why such actions would be necessary. But for the regular day to day activity and it's just your habit to insult and abuse, you may be funny but trust me when I say you're missing out. Maybe some people you've met in time past has prompted such habit, but then there should be a better alternative of minding how you open up to people on first time, until you are familiar and knows they are work your niceness, but being so impolite generally, is so bad and places one with a bad name, amidst shifting people far away from them.

Humans are social beings and interactions are basically part of our survival mode. We need to communicate, more reason why we still feel incomplete when we dont have a human to human interaction, that form of boredom can be so agonizing. So for a lifestyle we all must communicate, but when your communication is going to be an issue, then you're personally taking yourself to a secluded island, one void of people, people tend to drift away from such person. It may not look like it not, but that is more of an inevitable result should such crazy attitude persist. Talk nicely to people at least until you know they don't deserve it.

The need for knowing how to speak calmly cannot be fully exhausted, just a nice word could have solved most of the worlds greatest crises till date. You begin to see how everyone is quicky adapting these mood of impolite behavior as though it helps boost the status quo, its pride and nothing less. Speaking politely generally gets people happy and closer to you, from which you can benefit a lot from, be it for business sake, be it to foster a relationship, be it for peace to reing, be it for people to adapt, be it for sake of future needs or opportunities.

Actually what annoys me most is how people want to spread that negative energy, when they're sad they want others to be sad, yet when they are excited they don't care about making others excited. Speaking politely doesn't cost money so it shouldn't pain when people are not receptive to it, you dont stop being good over the little few bad eggs, how about the many good. Focus on the many good and see more reason to stay good. Stop hurting people with your words, stop deriving joy from speaking impolite to another. Learn right, you indeed stand much more benefit naturally and heavenly when you can brighten someone's day with your polite manner of approach and speaking. That good morning with a smile could be all someone need to see good in today and stay happy throughout, you too are being blessed for it.

Thanks for reading, stay loved and blessed, spread love not hate.