@BreadChamp
My first boyfriend. 08|13|2021✨
Image source https://markmanson.net/long-distance-relationships/amp Hi readers! How's your Friday the 13th? I hope you're all doing great today. ***Why do lovers break up? Why end up saying goodbyes after those sleepless twilights? Why give up on someone you love for a long period or even a short period?*** ***We all have our reasons why end things. Even some of us experienced being left without receiving a valid reason.*** Earlier today, I have read a lot of writers who shared about their exes, most were about the type of exes they once had. That is why I come up with this article about the reasons why I ended my past relationships. But before we move to that subject, allow me to show you my amazing sponsors who supported me constantly. They are one of my great motivations to do better and try my best in my works. Check them out. Their articles are all worth your time to read. You will get to know them more and you you'll surely learn a bunch from them. You are the best! Saranghae 💗 Here we goooo! I had two exes. (*Hirap na hirap magka boyfriend eh kaya dalawa lang haha*) But I will share today my first. (*isa isahin muna nation mga siszzt*) My first boyfriend is a seahorse now, charoottt! he is a seaman now. (*taong dagat in tagalog haha*) ***Short background story:*** We met in high school. He was a transferee. We were classmates back then. I honestly don't like him at first. Why? He was so annoying. He never failed to disturb me every single day. He was acting like we're super close. I don't want to be friends with him. I hate sitting next to him. But the more I avoid, the more he will find a way to get close to me. And guess what, destiny played a lark on me. We ended up having a project together. That's how we become close. I never thought that he's smart. I was amazed by his level of understanding and creativity in the activity we're working on. He did all the research and even provided me some tips on how I am going to discuss my part in the class. Fast forward natin ng kaunti... He confessed to me his love through a love letter with krimstix *(ang co-corny!)* because it's my fave snack. I said **YES** to him on my birthday. He was like the happiest man on Earth that day. We hang out like best friends. We shared our nonsense laughs and other creepy stories we can share. We both love horror movies. Every 21st day of the month, we write a letter for each other in our tiny slambook/diary. After writing the message, we formed a knot like a ribbon using a krimstix. That's how celebrate our so-called '*monthsary*'. He is handsome. He is smart. He is sweet. He fears God. He loves me with all his heart. He is nearly perfect. We were together for almost 4 years. ***Reason of break up?*** I don't like *long-distance relationships*. After we graduated high school, I went to Cebu. I mentioned this one in my previous article. I told him about it. I told him also that we might break up because of this. But he didn't believe my words. (*matigas any ulo pati puso non!*) He is so certain that we will be together forever*. (kaso walang ganun uy haha)* https://read.cash/@BreadChamp/we-meet-again-d1a7210e To cut the story short, we broke up. I break up with him. He was so miserable and devastated that day. I was in Cebu na that time. I love him but I can not keep our love story if we are so malayo sa isa't isa. He said NO to break but I was so desperate that time to end it. There is no other reason of break up. It's purely because I hate the idea of being away from someone I love. I don't know exactly the reason why I hate it. I just don't like it. *(ang gulo ko no? tara suntukan nalang haha charroot)* I have no regrets after breaking up with him. We agreed to keep in touch but no more labels. We stayed friends. And yessszyyy buds, that how our story ended. He got a girlfriend now and they were together for years na din. I am so happy for him. **Fun Fact**: *He asked me first before she courted that awesome girl who is like my sissy now. He said that he's still hoping that we will be together again. He asked me one last time if we can be lovers again, and I know you know what I did. Right? haha* Thank you for reading awesome people! God bless us all. Wavvyuu! 💗
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OMgosh!! Distance caused you that awesome guy. Well, you're not to blame for the matter. Many ladies would want their lovers to stay up close to them.
Yes 🥺 I just can't imagine being away from him that time.
I also don't like LDR basta ayoko lang. Hahhaha! Sanaol sweet no may pa krim stix pa. Ako kasi chat lang with heart emoji okay na 🤣
Hahaha krimstix lang malakas 😂
Asan yung ex #2?🤣 LDR is good, you get to test each other's patience, endurance etc😊 I think it's the ultimate challenge in a relationship. Don ata nasusukat yung tibay ng relasyon.
Sa susunod na kabanata pa ate haha. Hindi kasi ako matibay ate kaya siguro ganun.
Haha, waitin' :D Or baka talagang d kayo para sa isat-isa :)
we're not meant to be talaga ate hehe
You will surely meet another that you won't let you :D
Puhon ate, maghihintay ako sa tamang tao sa tamang panahon. 💗
All the best Champ :)
Ang hirap naman kasi ng LDR ang masakit pa nun yung hindi nyo alam kung hanggang kelan kayo magkalayo... Haist
Truth! Kaya winakasan ko na bago pa magkasakitan 🥺
Love the Seahorse bit! hahahhahaha Medj sayang sis no? Pero keribels iba ang malapit.. neext!
Walang sayang sis haha, di talaga kami meant to be 😁
I guess LDR is one of the most difficult challenges in the relationship. Uhm yeah, LDR is complicated (I've been there) because you can't see each other personally. You can't be with him when you miss him. You are not sure what is he doing. But it is fine as long as you have ***trust*** in each other and still have proper ***communication.*** It is not about the distance, it is about how you love each other. Also, it's a matter of how do both of you handle the situation. Don't get mad at me ha, haha. I understand why you don't like LDR. Maybe because you are afraid to be cheated? Who didn't? Waiting for boyfriend no.2 haha.
Yan din sabi ng classmates ko before, bakit diko daw pinaglaban. Ah weaksh*tt ako eh hahaha. And for my second exxxx, mamaya siguro haha
Well, what is done is done and you have no regrets naman so it's okay. Maybe hindi nga lang din talaga kayo meant to be. That's life parang buhay hahaha. Okaaaay, aabangan!!! 😆
Hahaha abangaaan ang susunod na kabanataaa 😂
Naiinip ako. Charot 🤣
Hahaha mamaya ita-tag pa kitaaa haha
Ayy sige sige para mas makita ko agad hahaha
Hahaha sgeeee
Hoy 😳😳 haha same lets wait for the 2nd! Haha hindi niya ata gusto talaga si guy 1!"🤣
Hindi talaga sis hehe
Hahaha hindi nga raw Meyzee 🤣
Pede pala yon! Jowain kahit hindi mo mahal. 😳😳
Ewan ko riiin hahaha. Baka naman minahal pero hindi yung sobra na willing siya mag take ng risk na to the point na she will do everything. May limit ba ganon.
Mahal naman kaso di lang siguro nag work.
Hirap ng LDR din, ako di ko bet LDR hahaha kaya nga pag malayo kami sa isat isa ng partner d maiiwasan ang away din kasi of some misunderstandings sa chats. I guess your ex were so gentleman for asking you about having another gf and asking you the for the last time.
Napakabait po niya ate sobraaa kaso di talaga e, diko sya feel nong panahon na yun.
Walang spark ba? Hehe
Meron naman, kinilig din naman. Kaso di sguro ako na develop or nahulog ng bonggang bongga kaya ganun hehe.
Siguro ganon na nga, baka may hinahanap ka nun na wala mo nakita sa kanya kaya't hindi ka na hooked sa kanya ng todo
Siguro ate kasi di talaga ako nanghinayang eh
Yes feel ko nga hehehe He’s really not meants for you langga
Ateng BC tara suntukan tayoooo, hahaahahha naawa ako kay boy, Mahal ka po siguro not siguro mahal ka talaga nun. But yeahhh, walang sisihan ganun tlaga ang lifeee. Live long live happy. Pag ayaw ayaw talaga hahaha. GoodMorningg po
Trueee, pag ayaw , ayaw talaga. Haha
Opooo, parehas lang kayo mahihirapan at masasaktan. So better be early Kung ganun din ending
Tama ka jan, Snail 🤗
I can sense na true love talaga yung binigay sa'yo ng ex mo, and very rare nalang ngayon yung ganiyang behavior na tatanungin ka pa before manligaw sa ibang babae. Napaka-ideal, but there's much better man na nakalaan para sa'yo, in God's perfect time.
Yes super love ako ng ex ko na yun, minahal ko din yon kasi di lang talaga kami para sa isat isa.
Ang sakit naman. Ang hirap din kasi ng LDR eh, tho never ko pa naranasan, based on my friend's experience lang.
mahirap talaga, walang kasiguraduhan kung magtatagal ba
Hindi mo din po kasi alam if anong ginagawa niya doon, kung may ibang babae ba o ano, or meron din yung iba na nafall-out of love or nagsawa nalang bigla ket wala namang third party. Nakakaparanoid daw yun, but still depends naman sa couple.
Basta ako walang third party, naka advanced sguro young mindset ko sa mga possibilities kay habang maaga, pinutol ko na .
Sabagay, it's your instinct na din siguro na maaaring masaktan ka lalo if tinuloy mo pa yun.
Yesss, true. Yan yung nasa isip ko that time.
Do you know what? Long distance relationship shouldn't be a reason for break ups. The best is to know how to cope with each other and come in agreement days or months you want to be seeing each other. To me, I prefer long distance relationship so we don't keep seeing each other everyday and you know what? There won't be respect or value much in seeing each other everyday. But since you have moved on and you don't want such, that's fine.
That's what my friends told me that time too. But the younger me failed to keep the love story. But yes, we both moved on. We're both happy now 💗
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