Tife's Love Story.

Tife is a twenty-three-year-old lady who hardly does things without her mum. Her mum is over protective and this made her lack experiences with other people. Tife cannot do anything without her mum. If she wants to register for something, her mum needs to be with her. She has no experience with outsiders because she's that mummy's girl. She's also bad at cooking. In a nutshell, she's over-pampered by her mum. At the age of twenty-three, it's normal for a lady to have a boyfriend. Her boyfriend complains a lot about her cooking ability. So, whenever she's going to see him, her mum helps her to cook so she will pretend to her boyfriend she made the food. It continued like that for a few months.

Unfortunately, Tife lost her mum. Imagine losing your mum when you can't do anything without her. Her boyfriend couldn't cope with her attitude because it became obvious that it was her mum who was covering up for her. At some point, the guy began to beat and maltreat her. For me, if you truly love someone, no matter what happens, you will help the person to learn. You'll stand by the person when she needs you. The guy maltreated her and told her that he does not want to have anything to do with her.

Tife cried for some days and decided to move on. After then, she met other guys who treated her less than human. It was getting too much. She decided to learn how to cook, personal hygiene, and almost everything a woman needs to possess. Since she believes that is what was making her boyfriend detest her, she learnt them. She took a break from the relationship again. After a few months, she met another guy. This guy was so perfect. He's every woman's dream. Since they were deeply in love with each other, they decided to get married. Fortunately, she got pregnant before the marriage. She got married in July and gave birth in October. After three weeks of childbirth, she lost her husband.

She was devastated. Imagine losing someone who does almost everything for you. Someone who came like your mum in form of a man. It's sad!!! At some point, she told her friends about it, and they believed it wasn't natural. They gave her two options. They said it's either because she finds it hard to do things without her mum or it is a spiritual problem.She took to the pastor's place and it was revealed that she has a spiritual husband. It was explained to her that if someone has a spiritual husband, the person wouldn't have a stable relationship. The person is likely to have so many failed relationships. She prayed and fasted for days. Imagine a new mother fasting coupled with breastfeeding a child. It isn't easy, right? She prayed and fasted for seven days. On the last day of the prayer, the pastor prayed for her and God answered her prayer. After a few weeks, the ex-boyfriend who used to beat her came back begging.

He pleaded that he didn't know what he was doing. She chased him away because she vowed not to ever accept a man who beats her. She told her pastor about it and he prayed for her. The pastor said she can go on with the relationship. The reason the guy used to beat her was because of the hatred the spiritual husband caused from guys toward her. The boyfriend also pledged to cater to all the baby's responsibilities.

At the end of the day, they became happily married.