I Will Never Do It!!

Good day everyone. Today is Monday and some of my friends call it money day. In a typical African Society, we believe that Monday is a day that you should make so much money because it is the first weekday and you should make money on the first weekday instead of doing other things. How many of us have made money today? As for me, I've made something tangible but it's still not enough to serve me for a whole day. I need to make more. Everyone wants to make money!!

I make money online as I am doing on this platform. If I don't want to get bored I will visit my social media platforms and still come back to my earning platforms so that I would not get bored so quickly. I go on and off on my social media platforms and my earning platform too. We all know that social media is very interesting and we can even get some topics to write about when we see some things on social media. I talked about different ideas that you can use to get a topic to write about and I mentioned social media as one of the major ways that you can get something to write about because you will see a lot of news on social media and you may want to dwell on one of them.

While checking my social media page I came across news which was between a girlfriend and her boyfriend. The lady complained that her boyfriend beat her all the time. I am not a chief judge and I can't judge the matter because I don't know what would have transpired between them and I don't know who is at fault so I can't blame anybody. I will only blame the guy for raising his hand to beat his girlfriend. It's uncalled for.

They interviewed the lady and she made it known to everybody that she has been living with the guy for a few months now and the parents don't even know if she is staying with her boyfriend or not. In a nutshell, her parents don't know where their child is. I will talk about three observations of mine but first I will start with bad parenting. One thing I have always told people is that if you are not ready to be a parent do not have a child. If you have a child you must be responsible for almost all of their actions as kids, you need to train them and also have time for them. If you won't have time for your child, don't give birth. How will a parent not have an idea of where his or her child is living? It's very bad. Parents should never make that mistake. You need to know where the child lives, his or her friends, and his or her attitude. I'm not saying you should intrude on the child's private life but know something about the child. You should be able to say something about your child!

The second observation that I have is that a lot of ladies live with their boyfriends these days. I will never tell you if it is good or not for one thing I know is that I will never do it. I can sleep over at my guy's place and then go back the next day or the third day but I will never think of living there because he has not gotten married to me. I believe that most ladies lose their worth when they begin to live with a guy who is not their husband yet. I guess most ladies are blinded by love. Lining with their boyfriends has raised a lot of cases of domestic violence. If you're observant enough, you will realize that most cases of domestic violence is happening between boyfriend and girlfriend. In an African land, a woman should begin to live with her husband on the day of their wedding and not before the day. Things have changed. The world has changed but some morals will never change about me. It will remain intact.

I believe that if you live with a guy, it's very hard for you two not to have something together. We're human beings and things like that are bound to happen. If you keep having sex with such a guy every day, a day will come that he will get tired of you and he will tell you that he is no longer interested. By then, the lady would have aborted up to six pregnancies for the guy, hoping that he will get married to her and at the end of the day, he will surprise her the other way round.

Home training matters a lot too. If you train your child well, you don't need to tell her not to live with a man who has not gotten married to her. She will know. The way we train our children matters a lot. Train your child in a way that he or she will pray for you whenever he remembers you.

Let me say this again, I won't live with a guy who has not gotten married to me! I may not have an elaborate wedding but I want to make sure that we are legally married before I move in. That's my wish.

Man proposes, God, disposes. I pray it happens the way I want it to be🙏.