I Think Men Are Like That.

If you read my articles a lot, you will realize that I would love to travel to so many countries. Traveling is one of my hobbies but it is quite unfortunate that I don't have enough funds to do so. There is a friend of mine whom I met on blurt. He is so rich and he loves to travel too. I have seen pictures of what various places looked like because he shared them with his audiences on his blog. Also, I am a very friendly person. I wish to meet various people from various parts of the world. There are a lot of friends that I have not set my eyes on but we always talk like we are with each other. Why am I being kind? It's in me, naturally. I won't be kind to you because I need something from you. That's just like trying to extort you stylishly. I'm also being kind because I want to know you more, I want to share my experiences with you and also make you share yours with me. There are other advantages to being kind to people but that's a talk for another day.

One thing I noticed about men is that men switch up easily. I mentioned earlier that I wish to visit as many countries as I can. I wish to know men from other countries. I wish to meet with them. I wish to know if they have the same behavior as the men that I have met here and that's why I said I love to share experiences with different kinds of people. I think that's cool. Men switch up easily. Let's take heartbreak as an example. A lady may continue to cry or still think about it for a long time while a man will get over it in a short period. Why? Is this how every man is? If you are observant of your man, you will realize that it's not every day he uses those sweet words for you. I'm talking of baby, honey, and those sorts of words. Sometimes, the man may just call you the name that common people call you. This thing makes me mad!! Sometimes, they will talk to you like you guys are just friends and nothing else. I guess this makes a lot of ladies think that their man is cheating. The gentleman may not be cheating. He may just be thinking of how to make some money and that's why women are always quarreling with their men. My man calling me the normal name outsiders call me is weird. He does not call me that and we may get talking sometimes and he will call me that name. I think a lady should understand that it may be normal or the man may not be in the right frame of mind but most ladies will quarrel with their man as I will do too 😅. I got no chill bro😅😅.

Let's talk about cheating. Is it every man who cheats? I have made my research and realized that not every man cheats but a lot of them cheat. I have dated two guys before now and they both cheated on me. My female friends are always complaining about this too. I dislike cheating. I will cry!! I'm a very jealous person and I so much dislike it when I am sharing my man with someone else. I can't cheat because the moment I cheat on my man, I will begin to like the other man, and there are high chances of me leaving my man so I won't cheat. I always believe that if my man cheats, he feels something for the other lady too and this will make me feel insecure. I don't like cheating😭. A lot of us believe that all men cheat. I got talking to a friend on this platform two days ago and he said no matter how things are in his relationship, he will never cheat. Isn't he a man too? Why am I always meeting guys who cheat? At the end of the day, I still concluded that every man cheats but if you ask them about this same thing, they will tell you they don't cheat and they will still go behind you to do so. I may be wrong here but I'm talking based on my experience and based on what I have seen happen to my friends.

It's quite unfortunate that I can't remember the general things that men do. Who else can remind me? What else?