Do Not Give Up On Love
I was checking my friends WhatsApp status yesterday and one guy posted a screenshot of his WhatsApp friend telling him women are trash. I just laughed and passed by. After few minutes, he posted again where a lady defended herself and she said she wasn't t trash. She made it known that she was speaking for herself. It's kinda cool to speak for yourself right? Yeah😊. Always defend yourself. Later, he posted where the guy that brought the notion replied that lady and called her trash again. And he made it known that if the only way she can accept that she's trash is if he insults his mother and he did so. He said "my mama nah trash" which means his mother is trash 😂😂. Funny right? Yes, I know 😂. Then he began to ruin curses on the girl and her family. Why? It's what we all know that she only defended herself that she isn't trash.
I think one thing you should know about me is that, I'm an overthinker. I think and rethink things again. This happened fifteen hours ago and I promised myself to think about it. After my observation, I feel like that guy is pained and bitter. I'm sure girls must have shown him hell for him to just conclude that they are trash. It's one thing to be able to forget your past and not everyone has that gift. I'm sure he's living in his past and that's why he has concluded on a general knowledge that girls are trash.
You tend to see some ladies too. They'll come out to tell you that "men are scum". There are so many people that have gone through hell to keep their man happy but at the end of the day, it didn't end well. I'm one of them😊. I know I'm pained and bitter but I still do not have to conclude that all men are scum. I've not met everybody. I've not met every man and I cannot conclude on that notion. Previous relationships have damaged a lot of people. You may begin to wonder why your friend that likes men changed suddenly and began to talk bad about men. This is it!!! This is one of the major reasons.
The fact that you were hit by a car doesn't mean that you'll never enter a car again in your life. Also, the fact that your favourable good got poisoned doesn't mean you shouldn't eat your favourite food again. It's just one thing we need. Do you know the thing we all need? Carefulness!!! It's the key!! You gotta watch every step of your partner. Sit back and observe every red flag he or she is showing you. Do not fall in love too much so that you won't cry again. I know we're humans. It may be hard to control your love for someone but try!!!
Do not give up on love❤️
Love is a beautiful thing ❤️
Thanks for reading ❤️❤️❤️
Though the heartbreaks and pains are much, but giving up on love will be the last thing on my mind