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God created us in his image and representation. No one has any right to mock another's body frame or size. Why on earth would you make someone feel bad about their physique when it doesn't bother you at all. Because your anatomy is very different from theirs doesn't make you better than them.

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Using awful names like fatty, skinny, shorty to describe a person when you aware it would hurt is very insentivity and irresponsible. Well, its no news that such body shaming affect the self-esteem and confidence of a lot of folks especially the females who are more emotional and easily broken.

For a long time, I have always known that when people enjoy making a mockery of someone for absolutely no justifiable reason at all, then there must be something great about that person that is yet to be discovered. Rather than succumb to such travesties, they should serve as nothing short of motivation for the rapid growth and development of the individual .

Sometimes ago, I was watching an interview of a highly successful model on BBC. This young lady revealed that when she was in high school, she suffered from a lot of physical and psycological bully from her mates because of her skinny nature. Almost everyone in class ( including the newcomers) would want to pick on her or disrespect her because of her small stature.

She would always find comfort and solace in a teacher who was friendly with her since she was quite a brilliant kid. Her teacher encouraged her to consider the positives of her physique instead. He told her that she had the rare previledge of eating every food in the whole world without getting fat, and this ofcourse made her laugh. He also made her realize that she wouldn't age as fast as the rest of her mates. "Because of your tiny stature, you would still be looking twenty even when you are over thirty". Her teacher continued to inspire her till she discovered her talent. Today she's one of the most successful supermodels in the world and far more fortunate than all the girls who once mocked her.

The taller basketball players all laughed at muggsy bogues. They all thought they were better than him because of his extreme shortness. But muggsy had a burning desire to play basketball at championship level and he was determined never to listen to the cristicism and noise of the people that didn't matter. As a matter of fact muggsy was the shortest player ever to play in the NBA. But he never saw this as a handicap but a source of strength. His quickness and intelligence enabled him to swiftly snatch the ball from much more taller players who underrated him to the amusement of the crowd. Needless to say, muggsy's admirers and fans grew rapidly over the years. During his career,he had more impressive stats than hundreds of taller NBA players and he commanded more respect.

There's this girl I have known for a longtime now. The first thing that strikes you when you see her is the enormous body fat. She wears a sad look which always tell that she's definitely not comfortable with her build. She's mostly sitting or walking alone most of the since other girls would want to make fun of her figure. Later on, she was involved in a terrible accident which she miraculously survived. The doctor revealed that her body fats shielded her vital organs by absorbing most of the trauma at the time of the accident. The doctor was Quite sure that if it were any other person, death would be inevitable.

This young lady is now happily married with a kid. During her years of being single, she was always under the impression that men would find her gross weight repulsive. She forgot that one man's poison is another man's meat. Lol .

CONCLUSION

We should never compromise ourselves just because others dont like the look of us. No Matter what you look like, look into the mirror morning and tell the person you see there that you are the best personin the sight of God. You are much more good looking than any other created being. Never compromise yourself. You are all that you have got, everyone else is already taken. If you fail to love yourself who will?

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I really hate those people who make laugh about other's body, it's not easy. I've been comfortable about myself until others are making fun of it, now I have insecurities :(

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4 months ago

You don't have to develop such insecurities my dear. As you grow more, you would come to realize that those people didn't matter. They never did!

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4 months ago

I guess everyone have been a victim of body shamming at one point of their life or another, including me. I used to be a fat kid and I got laughed at a lot back then in highschool, but then puberty happened and I lost those weight and used the momentum to grow taller 😆 body shamming someone makes them to always be in their shell and will likely reduced their self-confidence, it may even lead to depression on the long run

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Some young people even slip into depression due to bodyshammin by people on all front of their lives. Recently I heard of a teenager in the US who committed suicide because of his physique. Even his own family members also laughed at him!.…... So you were once fat, Lol. Reminds me of a classmate in Jss1 who we called biggie. When we returned to school after the long session break, he lost more than half of his weight and we were all shocked. Weather it was natural, drugs or juju, na only God know 😂

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4 months ago

😂 that was also how mine went, we got back from holiday and everyone was shocked to see my new physique 😆 e be like juju

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4 months ago

We all have insecurities and it is up to us if we will allow people to destroy us by calling us names. I am told to be skinny, fat, not attractive. We cannot control people's mouths but we are the ones who can control our feelings and rationality. I choose to be happy. 😁

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4 months ago

And happiness is free 😁

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4 months ago

Love and accept the flaws of yourself, so whatever people thought about you it wouldn't bother you.

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4 months ago

The story about the basketball player and the skinny girl who became a successful model is so wonderful. Despite the challenges they faced they didn't give up.

Everyone has their spec because one fat or short or tall doesn't mean they won't find people who love them.

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4 months ago

exactly, sir

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4 months ago

We never created ourselves or dialogue to choose one. It's so sad that these shaming is now rampant, which should not be so.

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4 months ago

I am at that point in life where I don't care anymore what people think of me :)

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4 months ago

I will always tell my close friends that "other people opinions of you doesn't matter and you alone know yourself and what you are". If you care about what people say about you, you end up being who they want you to be and not what you want to be

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4 months ago

It very unfortunate that a pt of young people fail to realize this from the onset.

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4 months ago

The diversity in body - shape and sizes only serves to show who beautiful we are in our diversity.

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4 months ago

Exactly, doctor

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4 months ago

Some people body size, give them issues.... mostly ladies when it comes for marriage.....

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But it doesn't have to be so. She should be loved for who she is

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It's so bad how people bully others for their stature. I'm a very slim guy and I was bullied slot during my secondary school days, but I get to accept my stature and live with it and this has made me not to talk bad about people nature. Ladies are mostly fond of this body shaming and it's very wrong. My work place I'm surrounded by 10ladies and you need to see how they talk of customers when a customer is going out after their purchase. There's one day they were talking about a lady I considered beautiful and I had to step in to tell that the lady they're talking about is more beautiful than all them and they shut their mouth. One man's food is another man's poison

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4 months ago

Talk about " crab in a bucket" syndrome .

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4 months ago

We do have insecurities, but let us always bear on mind that we are fearfully and wonderfully made by him

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Never mind what other might say or do about your physique, it's not your problem but their. You are always beautiful.

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4 months ago

Yea. Everyone is sure, every woman is

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