Tame the hate.

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" Throughout life people will make you mad, disrespect you and treat you bad. Let God deal with the things they do, cause hate in your heart will consume you too.”- Will Smith

Life is cruel but even in it cruelty we find love, affections, kindness and are met with good people.

Life isn't meant to be fair and it would never will no matter how we pray towards it.

Life isn't balance no matter how we'd wish for it to be, heck! Algebra using balance equation does not even stand a chance.

Why worry so much when time wait not?

Why brood when a lot could be achieved in that moment.

Why regret when a lot of happy memories can be done to fill the space?

Tame the hate in your heart because life is too short .

It is too short to cry all day without getting your tears cleaned.

It is too short to mope around all day without walking out to do something tangible with the time given.

It is too short to just sleep on the bed without having the urge to stand and face reality.

Life is too short because death can come knocking at anytime.

It is too short to keep a lot of pain in your heart towards someone.

It is too short to let hate eat you up,taking every bit of happiness from you.

It is hard to let go of the hate that burns deep and hurt like the heart is placed in a furnace.

The excruciating pain is highly unbearable and can break even the strongest heart to shambles.

But yet why find solace in the midst of fires?

Tame your hate so that your heart can be free.

Free from the pain of seeing the person.

Free from the heart breathing fast in a melancholic way at the presence of that person.

Free from having sleepless night because of the thought of that person.

Just like the above quote says people will always make you mad, disrespect you,call you names,bring unquenchable angers your way but still ,do not be moved by all these because hate in your heart will consume you.

Instead of hating, do these:

Be in peace with yourself.

Give your heart peace.

Let your soul feel the peace.

Let your mind think in peace.

Let your day be peaceful and full of laughter.

Forgive but don't forget.

Life isn't fair and it'll continue to bring pain our way.

Death is sure but it calling time is unknown.

No one know when it might come.

How it will come.

Where it might meet us, maybe at the road,party, during enjoyment, at the sea, hospital,in a bus or at the solace of our home.

Those in hospital didn't plan to be there.

If we were being told of where death will meet with us,no one will go there no matter how we long we lived.

So live , breathe and tame your hate.

Because even Buddha said, "hatred does not cease by hatred, but only by love as this is eternal rule. "

Conclusion.

Hate is a disease that eat our heart,soul, mind and leave us alone with nothing to hold on to because we were busy hating.

Hate is unhealthy and doctors do not prescribe it because of how dangerous it is.

All hate won't be felt when death comes.

Live your life with no hate and be at peace.

Remember, you only live once. You are not a cat..

This article is not written to criticize anyone but to encourage us all to live all hate behind. No one is perfect.

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Writer: Balikis

Date: 4 April 2022.

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You are right my friend at first seeing how you analyse the word hates makes me stay far from it " Hate is a disease that eat our heart,soul, mind and leave us alone with nothing " hate is a disease so therefore let tame it nice meeting you and looking ahead to read more of your lovely articles

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2 years ago

Thanksgiving, I'm glad you loved the first entry. I'll keep on writing always. Thanks for your words friend.

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2 years ago

You've pinned it down already. We've missed out on happiness because we've decided to cleave unto hatred for another. As for me; I just started freeing my heart and it has really yielded great rewards.

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2 years ago

Thank God you freed it, I'm on way there too and gladly it would be free from all hatred and be filled with love.

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2 years ago

Hatred is such a counterproductive emotion. It harms the offended and hater, while the offender goes about their life. It's a poisonous emotion that can take away one's peace of mind and joy

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2 years ago

I do agree it is a counter to every productive activities in one's life. It takes and continue taking away all positive vibes. Thanks for stopping by friend.

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2 years ago

Indeed, life is too short, spend it wisely. We don't get anything from hating someone. If they did something wrong with us, forgive, but be wiser now.

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2 years ago

Yes be wiser by learning from what they've done and build up ones mind towards loving every soul. It not an easy task but it is possible. Thanks for taking time to read dear.

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2 years ago

Exactly dear, there are far too many things to do on earth than inculcating an habit of hatred. Interesting write up

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2 years ago

Yes they are far many things to do on earth. Thanks for reading .

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2 years ago

I thought it was forgive and forget babe, but its true, forgive but don't forget, once a trust is broken, it always hard to get it back, no time for hate.

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2 years ago

Don't forget the lesson it taught you.. we are humans no matter how we try we can't forget things that shape us. No time for hate dear.. we should all embrace the spirit of love.. thanks for always stopping by

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You're welcome ma

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