Being Silent Is What I Do

Blog #323

August 05, 2022

Have you come to the point that you get tired of arguments with someone?

As I come to this point of my age, I began to hate arguments as it gives me stress thinking about it. Though it can't be avoided but I'm trying my best not to have it or if it occurs, what I only did was keep silent ang just let hours pass until both our minds and feelings cool down.

Hating arguments or misunderstandings, is it a sign of maturity? If it is, then I'm thankful because I value my peace more than those things that gives me negative feelings. I'm grateful to have come to this level because I rather have to keep silent to have at peace than arguing until both of us throw hurtful words to each other. As we all know, words hurt so much especially when it comes from someone whom we treasured so much.

I once remembered the advice of my grandma that when one is on fire, the other party must be a water because if both are fire, then most likely it will only cause so much destruction with each other, it can be physically or emotionally. So, I prefer to be silent than making arguments with someone.

In life, it can't be avoided to have someone who will make an issue to us. It can be true or not, they will make stories just to destroy someone or just because they are expert in that kind of field. In short, they are the "Marites" who is like a CCTV who minds others business or life.

So whenever I hear someone who makes gossips about me, what I only did was just keep quiet for I know time will come that they will get tired of it. I just ignored those because I don't want to step on their level who knows nothing except making false stories about someone's life. I guess that's their happiness seeing someone getting affected with the words that they said. So staying silent is the best thing to do rather than letting them feel that I'm getting affected with it.

Anyways, this will be for my short blog today. Thank you for dropping by this article today. Have a blessed Friday to all!

Before ending this blog, let me flex my Hive Blog for today. Here's the link to it. Thank you in advance!

To my sponsors, upvoters 💰 , commenters 📝, readers 📖, and likers 👍 thank you so much, guys. You always make me motivated and inspired every day.

This is me, 🧕BCH_LOVER 🧕once again. Thank you for your time today.

God bless and Keep safe you all!

Before leaving, please hit the 👍button. Thank you so much!