Monitor your children closely
"Make it a rule never to give a book you will not read to your children" - George Bernard Shaw.
It simply means monitor your children closely,I know parenting is not an easy task but there rules guiding it too. There was one of my friends that told me what made him really loose while growing up was the kind of film he watched then,he said there was this particular American movie that he watched then,it was a movie but it was full of adult doings,he said that was the first time watching it and immediately he did,it corrupted his mind, he was in jss3 then,he decided to try it out,he got a girlfriend that Same week from his class because it's a mixed school and because the girl liked him very much then she gave him what he wanted and that was how he tried it out himself.
What does it mean,it means what he watched deposited a bad idea inside him,he doesn't know how to control It because he was still young then,kids are easy to manipulate,their minds can be manipulated easily irrespective of the homes they come from, especially when they don't have good friends too, don't say you don't want to bump into their lives,if you don't whose life do you want to bump into? They are your kids and they need the proper guiding,you need to monitor all their steps, they are not old enough,ask them questions, don't be too harsh and too lenient with them, always check whatever they want to watch,the songs they listen to and all,in this present world the songs that is produce now always corrupt the mind,guide them strictly against listening to those kind of music,they should only listen to music that will edify the spirit.
Children are like time bomb,they just need a little thing to explode, and once they do it will take another extra effort to get them back on track and that's if you can get them back on the right track,there was a story then about a maid who will always watch this adult movie in front of the kids and she will make them do the same thing that was happening inside that movie until they grew up,the parents don't know,there was a day the mother came back earlier than usual,that was how she what the maid and are kids are doing,she almost fainted, but it was too late because the two kids(brother and sister) are already used to each other,the parent couldn't separate them,they sent the boy abroad and it led to the death of the girl.
That is how dangerous it is to always leave your kids with maids or uncles/aunts without looking back,when you ask this kids alot of them have episode with Uncles especially female children,I did that interview with my female friends and they all had everything to say about uncle's immorality,it's not fair, some parents are too careless, take out time to visit that child when she/he doesn't know,ask them questions, make sure you are friendly when doing that.
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La crianza y educaciĆ³n de los niƱos depende solamente de sus padres, ellos son responsables de las actitudes cada uno de ellos, los padres que tienen que dejar a sus hijos con criadas o niƱeras tienen que ver muy bien de donde vienen y buscar referencias, creo que por recomendaciones no es confiables. Sobre de la educaciĆ³n de los niƱos(a) hay que saberlos educar y no sobre protegerlos mucho, para que ellos vayan adquiriendo responsabilidades.