My Boyfriend and I almost broke up Yesterday
Konbanwa minna san wa!!! Phew, how was your Sunday? Hope y'all doing fine.
I was feeling under the weather lately because the weather changes so much (init sa umaga ulan sa hapon). I took a medicine immediately to ease my headache that I've been struggling since the and the other day but now I am right as rain. Anyways, were not blabbering about sickness today so let's aside that first.
Aside from a painful headache, I also got a heartache. Yeah, I was supposed to enjoy the whole weekend joyfully and peacefully but then I expect nothing but misunderstandings and mere sulking.
To make the long story short, my boyfriend and I had an argument since Saturday night. He was working the whole week with his father in the nearby city, and he told me that he would pick me up after his duty because we have a practice at the church every Saturday night for the service the next day (we're both part of the music team). He doesn't want me to commute because it's quite dangerous at night and the church is a bit far from our place. Unfortunately, a heavy rain seems to gave me a hard time to join the practice.
He messaged me via messenger that he already arrived and hindi muna kami aattend ng practice because he is so damn tired from working all day long. I really understood his situation and I don't want to bother him so I just took an umbrella and told him that I will just ride a tricycle instead. After a minute he replied me that I'll give him a second because he will pick me up since the rain has stopped already. So I waited him in the highway and when he arrived he was wearing a mopey face. I was afraid to approach him so I just let him be. I apologized to him (through messenger) afterwards but then he just responded "it's fine, go to sleep already" without mentioning our endearment, but I know deep inside he is mad at me for being too stubborn lol.
Sunday morning, I didn't asked him to fetch me like he always did because he may not have woken up early. Actually, It's fine with me that he won't pick me up . But he's been so consistent since we've met.
Anyways, let's move on.
He ignored me as if he mean it up until the end of the church service. I really hate that part of him because he usually does that when he is mad at me. Since yesterday was the first sunday of the week we always have this monthly fellowship or youth bonding. I grabbed that opportunity to make up with him but I was totally wrong he still don't give a d*mn on me. What a prideful brat! So I did the same thing too but then again I can't bear the feeling of being ignored by him so I set aside my ego and did the first move. I asked him , what was wrong, and fortunately he open up with me and said..
"Ang tigas kasi ng ulo mo, alam mong pagod na pagod ako kahapon mas pinili mo paring pumunta sa simbahan kahit alam mong gabi na at umuulan pa, tapos magcocommute kapa!"
I talked back with him, and told him not to get mad with me anymore and accept my apology instead. Jeez, I thought were fine now but still his mood hasn't changed at all. My patience was running out and uttered some words that triggered his fury even more.
"Nakakapagod kang intindihin alam mo ba yun? Okay lang naman magalit basta huwag lang masyadong OA, tsk."
He replied,
"Okay! Kung hindi mo matiis ang ugali ko edi maghanap ka ng iba!".
And I said OKAY!
Arrrrrghhh, those words really pisses me off! As a result, I went home early and said goodbye to my co-youth members because I also have to run some errands after the bonding. I thought he would take me home already yet he took me somewhere else and guess what we stopped by at a snackhouse. I told him why did you bring me here with a teary eyes, I thought you were mad at me. He just held my hands and laughed at me. The what?!!!! I cried for nothing? Geez, by the way we just ordered a couple of burgers and halo-halo. While waiting for our order, we just laughed out loud from our petty argument, he teased me for being a cry baby and it's been a while since we argue like this lol. Parang mga bata lang hahaha.
That was easy though lol. We head home afterwards and gone back to normal. He apologized eventually, and he just missed me so bad. Thrice a month nlng kasi siyang bumibisita saamin since he started working in the city.
Ang OA nu sarap sapakin,Hahaha I just can't help but laugh from our KAOAHAN.
My apology for this nonsence article of mine lol. Anyways, thanks for dropping by!
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Ayeeeiii, kamingaw ra d i to maong nagsuko-suko siya sis,hahahah relate much... Tuga-tuga ug suko dli mn d i kaantus... Stay strong po sa relationship niyo. God bless and more powers.😊