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It's okay to say no. There are many reasons why we should say no sometimes, and there are just as many reasons why we don't – and suffer for not doing so. Read the steps below to understand why it's hard to say no, and how you can learn to do it without feeling guilty...
Here I'm sharing few more ideas with u, regarding this important topic...
6.Don't offer an 'Explanation'..
Offering an excuse may seem like the polite way to decline a request but it sets you up for an awkward situation. The problem with offering an excuse is it gives people the opportunity to change their request so that your excuse doesn’t justify your no.
No matter what excuse you offer, people who are determined to get you to say yes can come up with a way to invalidate it. By simply thanking people for their request and telling them that you can’t agree to it, you prevent them from arguing with u...
7.If need be, use 'because'..
Research has shown that using the word 'because' makes people agree with u (even if the reason you give them is absolute rubbish). So instead of just saying, ‘Unfortunately I won’t be able to help you plan our team building event’, try adding a reason (however trivial) to help your refusal go down more easily.
8.Just smile and shake your hand...
You can do this as you walk away, too. This works especially well for people giving out flyers or trying to guilt you into signing up for something.
9.Underatand that saying NO is not "CRUEL "
saying no isn't rude, mean, or uncaring. We attach those qualities to it when we speak in a rude, mean, or uncaring way while telling someone no. There's no reason you can't firmly decline and still be pleasant and polite; therefore, there's no reason to fear making a poor impression because you say no, as long as you're mindful of how you say it..
10.Don't be afraid to say it twice...
Sometimes people don’t respect boundaries, or are used to people caving if they ask again. Just because someone is persistent, doesn’t mean you have to give in. Smile politely, and say no a second time, just more firmly than the first.
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