20-09-2022

It was huge noise in the street last night and I wake up in hurry. Different sounds of men and women were coming at high tune and some were almost abusing her for second Marriage especially when she has five kids earlier from first husband.

I wash mouth and went out. Asked from neighborhood what happened and why you all crying at midnight. One of them told me that Asia did second marriage by herself without involving any relative nor from neighborhood. So what she did wrong? I asked . Amjad , you don't know it will be very bad effect on our daughters by such incidents. Then at last I choose three members to think on it and may be after one hour long discussion we reached on conclusions that Asia did right and the family law of the constitution allow her to do so. So people shattered around and went to their homes by talking against me that I am giving her( sin, as they were thinking) a shelter.

Asia living in my street with her kids. Her husband died six year ago due to some sickness. She did lot of sanitation work at homes , hospital and laundry for a hostel to meet the needs of her kids. Time passed and kids grow up. They need schooling and other things. No one was reading her situation as everyone is busy in his own circle of living.

Asia told to old women of the street that she wants to marry again but no one listening her voice nor gives impotence. She hurts a lot and the financial burden was increasing day by day. At last she decided to take step by her ownself. She contacted to a marriage beuro to get a suitable person for herself.

Couple of days before they contact back and shown her the needy person. She agreed and married in court. He ( her husband) oaths about her kids to take care and fullfil the needs and a premium bound filled by both Infront of family court judge. They accepted husband wife each other after Nikaah and she comes back to her house.

Now the neighborhood starts crying over it. They were not crying on act what she took , but I think they loose a cheaper servant. She washed the clothes , clean the kitchen and yards for nothing ( wage was just some rupees, leftover from food , fruit and bread and evil eyesight).

She did absolutely right and use her right of selection which our religion also allows. We should support, appreciate and respect her on her wedding. And if some one becoming responsible for her kids, she got a Caring husband , then why we are making unnecessary noise over it. That was my question to all the gathering over night. But no one has answer about it. Then they keep quiet and turned to their homes.

Conclusion:

We must support alive people first then the passed ones because they deserve more. If some one wants a honourable way of living on his own interests then we should be play supportive role. We can't decide anything from viewing one angle, we must look at other end too. We must care the feelings of others and must do justice with it. Our attitude should base on welfare of Human beings.

We must listen to her too...

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