16-12-2022

Human made friends due to many reasons but most common is company. We want a companion to whom we can share , talk and support. True friendship always prestigious and with strong bounds it becomes more worthy. We can't share everything to everyone except one or two close people including some good friends because they never advise us which is not good.

Yesterday I read the article of @Coolmidwestguy about questions for friends in friends questions part 2. Which is actually a sequel of his article a month ago friends questions. You can go through his articles by these links.

Let's go through the questions he generate in that questionnaire.

Do you value Physical friend over a virtual friend?

Well , both has great importance in our current life with specific characteristics and traits. Both has separate role in our life and we should not mess up both in same slot. Physical friends are permanent, closer and more reliable because we know their nature, personality and family background. We have access to them anytime.

virtual friends are honourable, significant and valuable but we didn't know their true face ( in most of cases). Then the access is limited, dependent and base on availability. We can't share everything with them . A unknown wall of hesitation always remains in the middle. So yes I value more to my physical friends.

Have you had someone refer to you as a friend but you can't consider as them?

It is true that most of people who are in social media Face this reality that a virtual best of mine can't prove exactly same to any other. Each person has special interests, priority and level of thinking.

May be a very good virtual friend of you can't response to me what I am expecting from my virtual friend. My virtual friends refer someone to me but most of cases we loose interaction due to different mind set.

Better to search for new friends or just let it happen naturally.

We can't ( at least for me ) search virtual friends, in most of cases it happens naturally, accidentally and suddenly. I tried to meet some people, try to interact them ( because I want friendship to them) but they showed freezing behaviour.

But which virtual friends I have now , all becomes my allies naturally. Just couple of them are still with me even i left out the certain media platform, change the ID , jump to other venture etc.

Have you ever met your virtual friend in real life?

A big YES , I met three to four times my virtual friend in my real life. Two were my national and one non national. The latest virtual friend I met is a famous social media person with User name Hunter Swati .

I am grateful to him always because he travelled around 1100 KM journey to meet me. He came to my home with his parents. It was so great moments for me to host a virtual friend.

Do you spend more time with your virtual friends or physical friends?

I have three ventures , one a grocery store, second some agricultural land, third working as property connector. I found very less time to interact my friends. My physical friends also mostly complain , scolded me on this point that I call them very less or not gives them enough time. Mostly they came to see me , talk to me , sit in my drawing room etc.

Same with virtual friends, I call , text , DM very less . Oftenly they call me and ask the mutual respect things. Honestly, I am a careless person in this regards.

I am thankful to Mr. Bob for creating this fabulous opportunity to say something about my friends. I apologize to all of them who mostly are angry to me due to my responses.

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