What phycological manipulation looks like.

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Most of us may not be familiar with the term "phycological manipulation " so let me clarify what it means for those who are unfamiliar with it.

Phycological manipulation is described as when a manipulative individual seeks to obtain control over another person by being dishonest and looking for ways to gain it from them.

Phycological manipulation, often known as "emotional manipulation " is the practice of adopting tactics to gain control over others.

Let's have a look at physiological manipulation in action.

  • Making you feel guilty for speaking up or setting boundaries.

  • When you refuse to do what they say, they issue ultimatums or threaten you.

  • Using phrases like "If you truly cared about me, you would ".

  • Rentless in their pursuit of their goals without regard for the consequences.

  • Instead of taking blame for their actions, they make sure you take responsibility for your own.

These are examples of physiological manipulation in action; let me go over each one individually for a better understanding.

1.Making you feel guilty for speaking up or setting boundaries; They look for ways to control you and make sure they do, then make you feel guilty for any activities you take; such people are considered to manipulate our emotions.

2.When you refuse to do what they say, they issue ultimatums or threaten you; They threaten you if you don't do what they say, and they give us ultimatums; an example of an ultimatum is when a boy proposes to his girlfriend and says, "Marry me or I'm gone".

3.Using phrases like "If you truly cared about me, you would "; They use lines like "if you actually cared about me, you would____" to try to coerce us into activities we may not be interested in. Such sentences drive people up the wall and force them to do things they don't want to do, resulting in emotional manipulation.

4.Rentless in their pursuit of their goals without regard for the consequences; They make sure they get what they want at any cost, regardless of who gets hurt or the consequences; they set a goal that they want to reach and look for ways to achieve it, regardless of the consequences or the suffering it would cause the other person.

5.Instead of getting blamed for their actions, they make sure you take responsibility for your own; They try to avoid taking responsibility for their acts by making sure you take responsibility for yours. Instead of sorting out theirs, they find ways to transfer your duty on you and blame you for your actions without first working out their own.

In conclusion.

We must try to distance ourselves from those that manipulate us since they cause us more harm than good. They tend to influence our behavior by pressuring us to do things we don't want to do.

What good would it do us to have someone who manipulates our lives and wants to take control of it? They try to threaten us, which isn't a wise thing to do because it will negatively affect us.

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Comments

Those manipulators know how to twist your emotions to make you feel bad even for what they did.."If you truly care about me..." I sometimes tell them back and say, "If you truly care about me too, you won't put me in that position to do this." Two can play that game.

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1 year ago

Yea two can play the game, they just do manipulate our feelings with threatening, it's advisable we separate ourselves from them.

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1 year ago

That's the best way.

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1 year ago

Psychological manipulation is sometimes experienced by us as children. In our homes or schools. So we are always exposed to it. I think it also influences the upbringing of children, to be able to take it on. In addition to this, we must always have communication with our children.

Excellent article.

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1 year ago

You're right, we need to have a good communication with our children as they experience it more than adults and it affect them more.

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1 year ago

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1 year ago

I love dealing with those people that feel they are manipulative, they don't know that there are levels when it comes to mind games and me I am very good at it πŸ˜†

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1 year ago

I can't deal with such people as they tend to push me to the wall which i don't like what I'd do is just to separate myself from such people.

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1 year ago

I'm always far away from people using psychological manipulation on people and they tend to act as if it's normal... Imagine using intense emotional connection to control another person's behavior and also playing on someone's insecurities, how are those normal?

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1 year ago

It isn't normal, that is why we need to be careful with people we take as friends most of them just want to control our life.

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1 year ago

πŸ˜… anyone can google that French u wrote and do the same πŸ˜…

They are more to emotion manipulations, especially the ones that would want you to trust them, but they won't tell you anything about themselves

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1 year ago

I know anyone can do that but that was what I was taught in school that I can recollect, by the way we need to be careful with those manipulators .

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1 year ago