What phycological manipulation looks like.
Most of us may not be familiar with the term "phycological manipulation " so let me clarify what it means for those who are unfamiliar with it.
Phycological manipulation is described as when a manipulative individual seeks to obtain control over another person by being dishonest and looking for ways to gain it from them.
Phycological manipulation, often known as "emotional manipulation " is the practice of adopting tactics to gain control over others.
Let's have a look at physiological manipulation in action.
Making you feel guilty for speaking up or setting boundaries.
When you refuse to do what they say, they issue ultimatums or threaten you.
Using phrases like "If you truly cared about me, you would ".
Rentless in their pursuit of their goals without regard for the consequences.
Instead of taking blame for their actions, they make sure you take responsibility for your own.
These are examples of physiological manipulation in action; let me go over each one individually for a better understanding.
1.Making you feel guilty for speaking up or setting boundaries; They look for ways to control you and make sure they do, then make you feel guilty for any activities you take; such people are considered to manipulate our emotions.
2.When you refuse to do what they say, they issue ultimatums or threaten you; They threaten you if you don't do what they say, and they give us ultimatums; an example of an ultimatum is when a boy proposes to his girlfriend and says, "Marry me or I'm gone".
3.Using phrases like "If you truly cared about me, you would "; They use lines like "if you actually cared about me, you would____" to try to coerce us into activities we may not be interested in. Such sentences drive people up the wall and force them to do things they don't want to do, resulting in emotional manipulation.
4.Rentless in their pursuit of their goals without regard for the consequences; They make sure they get what they want at any cost, regardless of who gets hurt or the consequences; they set a goal that they want to reach and look for ways to achieve it, regardless of the consequences or the suffering it would cause the other person.
5.Instead of getting blamed for their actions, they make sure you take responsibility for your own; They try to avoid taking responsibility for their acts by making sure you take responsibility for yours. Instead of sorting out theirs, they find ways to transfer your duty on you and blame you for your actions without first working out their own.
In conclusion.
We must try to distance ourselves from those that manipulate us since they cause us more harm than good. They tend to influence our behavior by pressuring us to do things we don't want to do.
What good would it do us to have someone who manipulates our lives and wants to take control of it? They try to threaten us, which isn't a wise thing to do because it will negatively affect us.
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Those manipulators know how to twist your emotions to make you feel bad even for what they did.."If you truly care about me..." I sometimes tell them back and say, "If you truly care about me too, you won't put me in that position to do this." Two can play that game.