No Longer Young

Characteristics of age to understand the wisdom behind any incident that befalls and may Allah guide us to be able to respond to any incident with our best attitude. No longer young begins with Old where the ability to restrain oneself in everything has changed and decreased. People who are no longer young can be seen from their attitude and ability to control everything, are more patient, talk less, keep quiet, prefer silence.

Not all who are no longer young also behave like that, but at least most do. In contrast to being young and can be seen from a small child where his mouth is very often ringing, everything is commented on, when he sees something he will definitely comment, ask more questions, and be more energetic in his existence.

Usually, young is no longer synonymous with someone whose personality is mature and is said to be mature because it can be seen from his comments, and the more controlled his attitude is and can be said to be more mature.

The next characteristic of maturity can be seen from Empathy. Children are usually not able to feel other people's feelings, people who get older but can't feel other people's feelings mean they can't be called adults.

A person's maturity can be seen from the courage to see and feel the feelings of others. A mature and wise leader can be seen from his attitude towards his workers, namely not arbitrarily ordering, even though he feels he is paying him but that doesn't mean he is in power, doesn't he want to be paid overtime in the office? but overtime workers no overtime? The more people only care about their feelings, the more unwise it will be.

The more people can feel the suffering of others, God willing, the wiser they will be. So it can be said that people who live only think about their own feelings.

People who are no longer young are usually more careful in their actions. People who are no longer young really count not only from things but from time, every second, every word, they don't want to have to suffer because they take the wrong attitude. Young children or teenagers are usually very careless in speaking and making decisions. So that people who are no longer young and have a careful attitude or personality can be seen in being careful in choosing words, making decisions, taking attitudes, tending to be careless, and usually said to be mature and attached to the word mature.

People who are no longer young will usually be seen in their patient attitude, in any difficult situation they can master their own existence to be more calm, steady, stable, trustworthy, and responsible. More thinking, and not easy to make a decision just like that.

No longer young nor does it necessarily mean old. Because the word old can be seen in terms of physical existence and self-existence as usually happens in the phase of human life. No longer young, there is an expression of remembering the existence of increasing age as well as being aware of one's existence for the changes that occur in order to better understand life and want to start changing all old perspectives to new perspectives according to the passage of time.

And one thing to note is that every second-time ticks forward whose existence never ticks in the opposite direction. Progress means increasing not decreasing and increasing means in a direction that continues to get older. No longer young, it seems that it will continue to happen where the seconds of time is still ticking. If it stops maybe it's time.

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