Loser

11 495
Avatar for Alther
Written by
3 years ago

For me, someone who fits the words stated in the title is a human being who has a man's gender but never wants to be responsible for himself, or alone the people who live around him (especially his family).

Losers may often be pinned to someone who is a Coward. He only speaks boldly behind other people he doesn't like, or does have a cowardly nature, or hides behind other people, or can only take advantage of other people..

A loser is also not like a human being who only has a physical weakness. But it can also apply to someone who has a good physique but a bad soul or character.

Indeed, the word Loser is more often attached to Man. Rarely pinned on a female figure. What exists even if it is often pinned to a female figure is the word toughness.

Why is that? Because from the problem of nature alone, it is clearly inappropriate. When women are responsible and men are just relaxing. Women who sweat, then men who make up. So it is appropriate to put the word Loser for a man who does not have a sense of responsibility and empathy for his own family. Especially to himself.

Many examples of cases in life to find this kind of man. Those who violate nature cannot accept the existence of their identity or bad behavior who feel that they have power and instead abuse their power. The abundance of parasites on a shady tree can secretly kill the main tree that protects it.

Losers are like parasites for me personally. And it feels like when I say this word, thousands of feelings of anger come out considering how in my personal life I want to teach a lesson that is quite painful for people like that around my life.

There are thousands of hatreds present for the behavior of a man if he is confronted in front of me who behaves like this. It can be said that if I am not afraid of problems with religious law or the state, I would like to kill a man like this.

Maybe this is born from a trauma, or pain from what has been suffered or shown in the past. Where a woman who I respect and love (Mother) should not be used as a breadwinner or as family support. But journeys and life stories like that become a valuable message and whip for me personally as a man. Makes me have to be able to stand on my own feet and will always try my best for my own family.

If you are a man, realize your nature as a man. Remember that the burden on your family and yourself is in your own hands, not in the hands of a woman who holds the title of mother, sister, wife, or child.

Being a man is a nature that must be said to be heavy that a man can carry. The words strength, leadership, the main character in the family, and other things that are violent have clearly been created to characterize the physical and mental characteristics of a man. Able to protect, nurture, and provide warmth and maintain security and harmony in a family. Do not let go, easily discouraged, let alone take advantage of other people.

But he doesn't have to be arrogant with the strength he has, he also has to be gentle so he doesn't look stiff or have empathy for the circumstances that apply in the end.

28
$ 30.08
$ 29.41 from @TheRandomRewarder
$ 0.15 from @Omar
$ 0.10 from @gertu13
+ 13
Sponsors of Alther
empty
empty
empty
Avatar for Alther
Written by
3 years ago

Comments

Men's should see theirselves as the breadwinner of the family and also the one who would cater for everything the family needs...have fun and enjoy your day.

$ 0.02
3 years ago

When I read this article I started to think about that what is loser for me. In my opinion loser is man or woman who doesn't take care of their family, who doesn't know to appreciate people aroud them and who exploits people for their own interests...

$ 0.02
3 years ago

Well, being a loser isn't a thing of gender. It is rather the state of mind of an individual. A woman who would not conform to normal human etiquette can be tagged as a lover. Likewise a man.

Many people have the lackadaisical attitude towards things and life generally. Those people posses the loser mentality. Thanks for sharing your thoughts on this subject matter. It was worthwhile.

$ 0.02
3 years ago

Agreed with it. Losing & the burden of life can only be submitted to them. No one can be accused for that.

$ 0.02
3 years ago

To be A man is not easy. But then to whom more is given, much is expected. Being A man there is a lot of responsibility placed on your head. When you do not meet up with these responsibilities, you have failed as a man.

$ 0.02
3 years ago

I want to say that the loser is someone who is not lucky in life.And the one whom you described in the article, this is most likely an egoist.A person who does not pay attention to their families and loved ones.Unfortunately there are such people.And change them very hard.

$ 0.02
3 years ago

We only loose when believe it. In a game there is a looser and a inner. But you can never be a looser if you learn when you loose.

$ 0.02
3 years ago

No one can destroy metal but it is own rust. Indeed, we became loser if our mindset is a loser. That's why we should perform our purpose to avoid to lose.

$ 0.02
3 years ago

Regardless of the gender, individuals that continue living without being accountable for their actions are losers. Those who never uses their brain before doing something stupid that might ruin someones life forever.

$ 0.02
3 years ago

I had a good read from this. Being a loser is for the people who have no sense of responsibility within a family, community and in our environment.

$ 0.02
3 years ago

i like your article. there are many aspects that make a person a loser, what you said is true about man, they are the main responsible for their families not their wife it should be the two of them. nice one

$ 0.02
3 years ago