Love, laughter, and happily ever after; a usual representation of people when they talk about marriage. When they think of marriage, the very first thing that came into their minds is the idea of having a relationship that would last for a long time. People would somehow think that when you had reached that stage, a new chapter of life as married couple is about to begin. Nonetheless without others knowing, what marriage really is?
Marriage is a commitment of two individuals to one another and to each other’s family, affixed by holy matrimony. When both of them plans to settle things up, they think of raising a family together, dedicating their life to each other. Marriage is not something to be planned in just a short span of time, it is a serious thing that should be decided seriously and so along with prayers.
However, due to the inconsistency brought to us by the civilization: a new era that we are currently living, there are a lot of changes happened which create a huge impact on human’s way of thinking. One of the highly contentious issue in society is the “premarital sex”.
Premarital sex is something that most of the people around the globe knows about. Sarcastically saying, there are some people who proudly proclaims that they already involve in while others do it secretly. Additionally, there are also people who engage such but appealed to be ignorant or unaware. People viewed differently about this issue, some would say it is now acceptable while for some it is a sin.
Probable Reasons 🤔
Apparently, people have various reasons in engaging premarital sex .
Some people/couple might just have a problem financially; they cannot afford to have their nuptial so that is why they just set aside it and indulge to sexual intercourse.
Some could just be doing it to boast in order to build up an image in front of their friends.
The influence of media could somehow be an avenue for all the people to be in touched in premarital sex. Most of the target are the teenagers for they are more exposed to sex from television, movies, magazines, and the most triggering factor: the internet. They learn these things yet they do not know how to manage.
Closing Thoughts 💡
As a youth of today’s generation, it is just so upsetting to know that cases of premarital sex is very rampant in my country; the Philippines despite the reality that our country is said/known to be a Christian country.
Christianity and Islam are dominant religions in my country. Both put value on sex as part of a married life thus, Filipinos are conservative in nature and they put value on morality. However, it is a huge slap for us (Filipinos) that we have not given justice all of these assumptions.
We cannot deny the fact that premarital sex is an alarming issue. It has grown so fast and it is kind of shocking that people involved in it are mostly juvenile and possess little knowledge of the risks they may face. It's undeniable that everyone has various say about this matter but such reasons may be as shallow as pleasure.
We just have to put in our minds that we must not let ourselves be indulged into something that might lead us to deviance. We should be wise enough to think that everything has a corresponding consequences which means that what you have done would have a boomerang effect to you.
And since people have varied views toward sex, people should be careful also of their reactions because after all, one can only criticize the phenomena of high prevalence of premarital sex but he or she can never condemn a person because of his/her different perceptions about this matter.
How about you? What's your opinion on this issue?
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Marriage is not a thing that we can just venture into, some get into marriage just because their friends are married and they want to feel among, marriage is beyond that.
And sex after marriage is what majority of our youth are now into, which is not advisable , some will want to prove love through premarital sex , that's lust not love, it's sinful to have get involved in premarital sex , I just wish everyone will understand things this way.