Love, Hate and accusations
March 21, 2022 12:55pm
Lastnight before I hit the sack, I scroll my facebook account and I saw the MYDAY of my former co-worker/friend when I was in taiwan and she was here in philippines too, her post "MyDay was the chat of her partner and stated there the guys spitting bad words against her, as in P.I, so I leave a comment and telling her thats too much(grabe naman yan bakit ka minumura), then I went to bed.
Then this morning I saw her reply, oo nie then she forwarded some convo of her and her partner who works at taiwan until now, and upon reading the convo, wow grabe as in nagmumurahan talaga silang dalawa.
Actually they just met online in facebook wayback 2015 or 2016,the guy(bert) added gara(my friend) in facebook account and starts chatting her and courting her, until the Bert decided to worked in taiwan also, right before Bert landed in taiwan they had a fight over the phone, Gara share us what happened, why they had argument, kasi daw may girlfriend na si Bert at inaayaw sya) but when Gara confronted Bert he said she was single, so Gara believed with Bert.
When Bert landed in Taiwan Gara flew right away to the destination of Bert, she help Bert bought the things needed in his dormitory and everything and even they spend the night together by the way Gara is separated with her husband and they have one kid and Bert knew her past already.
Then thier love story goes even they far from each other. One day somebody chatted Gara and telling her to keep away from Bert coz she is the real girlfriend of Bert and they were about to get married. But Gara nevermind the girl, until one time the girl sent pictures of her and Bert together, so Gara cried and get angry with Bert, but Bert is really good with girls as she wins back the heart and trust of Gara. Their loves story was always like these for a year I think.
Then they even rent a room near our dormitory, so every day off Bert went there and they sleep together. Until the day came Gara get pregnant and went back to philippines to gave birth and they stay with the parents of Bert somewhere in Isabela I think, and even they lived together they are still fighting with the same issues and Bert even hurt Gara physically one time because of that issue.
After giving birth Bert went back to taiwan,and Gara also but different companies again, and I don't know whats with them why they always fight about the third parties. But after how many days they are back to each other arms again.
Until now that thier baby was already 3years old, there issues were the same, Gara always caught Bert with other girls but she still forgive her.
Actually I always ignore the post of Gara in facebook coz I know that kunting lambing lng ni Bert, he will be forgiven. Not until lastnight after seeing those post of P. I, I reacted again and DM her, Gara is trying to call me this morning but since I was busy I did not receiver her call, maybe she will open up with me.
If I were to ask you, if you are in the situation like Gara who always been accused of having an affair with other guy but the reality is Bert is the one who have an affair with other girls and been caught many times, will you still forgive Bert?
And when the situation worsen like what Bert is doing with Gara where he threw bad words( P-----g I-- mo!)against you will you still decide to be with these kind of man forever?
Coz for me, if ever this situation happened with me, I will end up my relationship with Bert coz if this will be continued its like living in the hell.
I will just make an arrangement for the financial support with our kid, no more strings attached between the two of us, just purely conversation about the kid, if I need a lawyer just to make this all possible I will rather than spending my life in the darkness because of Him.
Whats your reaction with my article? I will be honored reading your reactions on my comment section.
My answer to your question would be a resounding NO. I'd choose to leave him or let him go rather than keeping the relationship but being broken within. I feel sorry for your friend but it's her choice...