When Should You Get Married

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4 years ago

It's just some random thoughts for I can see youths of today having the fun of their lives without the worries of the world.

Here in the Philippines,you support your child in terms of education until they're independent enough after landing a job or opening up a business.After reading,share your thoughts also at the comment box😄.

Lets try to make a calculation of your age.Get marry at age 30 and have a baby emmidiately at 31.When your child is at 10 years of age,a 4th grader you would be at 42 already. When you reach your 50th birthday then your child would be 18 years old,just graduated in senior high.Another 4 years in college,what about when he'll be taking up a 5 or 6 years college degree.How old would you be?Its ok if you've only 1 child.What about when you've got 3 children with 3-5 years age gap?surely you still have a kid on elementary at age 50.When you reach 60,you're already a retiree and still have a highsclooler your pension will be spend with their schooling rather than investing it on some stuffs like something to help them build a house of their own.

Marry right after you landed a job and when you have found your ideal man/woman,that would be on your early to mid 20's.Grow with your kids and when you're old enough,you can go travel and enjoy the world.

Well,it's still your choice as we have different status in life.Whilst poor people like me would like to pursue a career first and the better off would do the same or not.Or maybe the other way around or both..Seems messy?😁😂Do what you think is best.

What do you think?share your thoughts down comment box.

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4 years ago

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Being economically strong is important before you get married, but what should people like me do, who are eager to marry ASAP. Seriously man, I need a girl in my life😂

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4 years ago

😂😂take your time to look for the woman..join those dating sites,you never know you'll find your better half in there.😁.well,the article is just for others to reflect on,they're economically strong as you say it,enjoying touring around needless to say that when they reach 40,they marry and have a child.so come on,as long as you're financially stable,found your girl then marry her.

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4 years ago

True brother. I will focus on being economically stable then

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4 years ago

don't you like to have a family of your own whom you can spend your well earned money?

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4 years ago

Nope. I have been alone so far in my life. Not planning on having a family

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4 years ago

My dear..most people planned.. But unfortunately for them

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4 years ago

yep,leaving them crashed.. kindly subscribe,thanks

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4 years ago

Easy to think but hard to do and accomplish. May kasabihan nga po tayong mga Pilipino na ang pag aasawa ay hindi mainit na kanin na basta mo na lang isusubo, at kapag napaso basta mo na lang iluluwa. I respect your idea, but for me, marriage should be plan out well, don't make rush decision like your on a deadline. It may ruin your life if it failed.

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4 years ago

absolutely right..kaya nasabi ko na pag may magandang trabaho at nhanap na si mr right o kya si miss right e d why not..😀 peace yow

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4 years ago

Yeah! 😁

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4 years ago

pasubscribe back po

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4 years ago

Done na po

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4 years ago

In my opinion, Marriage is not just about having kids or becoming a mom and dad. Yes, kids are God's blessing but consider it as a gift or reward.

Marriage is about mutual understanding. It is also about living a fulfilled life and gain emotional stability with your partner.

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4 years ago

absolutely right..than getting into marriage life and leaving a wrecked home,one must consider that to lead a harmonious,happy family.. pls subscribe back

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4 years ago

True. Love should be the first thing to consider before marriage. Better off stay single than be in a toxic relationship. ☺️

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4 years ago

pano pag after marriage nawala na yung spark.?they still have to bring that spark back db,nowadays ksi konting away iwanan na.prang drama sa telenobela n lng

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4 years ago

Then that simply means you're not meant for each other. Love is a compromise. Both of you must meet halfway to discuss your differences.

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4 years ago

then war started.

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4 years ago

oh no...we have to live in peace😊..nobody's pushing anybody in that relationship when somebody doesn't know something like commitment,so stay away from it and enjoy single blessedness😁

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4 years ago

the ideal would be that one has 1 to 2 children maximum, how old should it be after 30 years, is more responsible at this age, and would already have a more stable life.

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4 years ago

right.given the worlds facing now a days.one should consider everything possible before settling

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There's a point but i believe that marrying is not just about the age, it's also about the person you'll marry and your current status. Some can marry at the age of 20's because they found the one but some are still waiting, so i think marrying at the age of 30 is okay

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thats the point😊..taking into consideration the responsibilities one carries in a married life. pls subscribe back

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4 years ago

Hahah ok i will, thanks for the sub❤

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Pardon me, but the question we should be asking first is do you understand the implications of such decision on your life?

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4 years ago

This sums everything up!

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We need to take into consideration the financial stability of the parents when raising a child in their 20's. The child, sooner or later will be burdened to pay the amount of debt when the parents haven't actually thought of planning it through; I bet it would be a total cluster fuck. I guess it depends on the factors that are required for raising a family if both partners are suitable enough to raise one.

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Entering a new chapter of your life with another person whom you think is the best person who compliments your well-being is a big adjustment. That is why getting married needs preparation.

For me there is no right age when to get married. The best thing for me is to prepare our hearts and minds for the new challenges in life

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I'm actually pretty detailed about what I want in the future including when I want to get married. Before, I want it to be when I'm 24 so I wont have problems when I get pregnant. But as I grew older I realized that I wouldn't be financially ready at that age. There are A LOT of things you should consider when getting married. So my advice for you is to reconsider your choices in life.

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yes it must be well planned considering whom to marry so time and efforts adding the love would not go to waste..

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Should? Lol. Not everyone is built for marriage regardless of where one was brought up. The decision to move in with a completely different being and share life together shouldn't be taken as lightly. It also shouldn't be coerced or demanded. One should get married when they are sure they can handle the weight that it comes with.

Parenting is a whole different ballgame.

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4 years ago

exactly..as Im not good in putting everything to words,these comments helps

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