Never Give Up; Your effort might be accumulating and not yet visible
There is a saying that a loser constantly makes excuses while a winner succeeds, and this is true because winners can be identified virtually by their unending perseverance ability, endurance, and Never ever give up attitude, whereas losers are easily identified by their repetitive excuses once a minor setback or hindrance surfaces in their affairs.
To succeed in this life, we do not need a weak mind or a lazy idea; rather, we must straighten up our mind as a goal getter and be prepared to confront any hurdles or trials that may arise along the way. it's not so easy to overcome some element of distraction that one cannot control, but when these sort of challenges occur along the way, one need to maneuver their way and make a game out of it.
In life, challenges are pretty much inevitable, no matter how minor, whether you are looking for a job or trying to get a position in an office, or aspiring to get admitted into a college/university, or possibly, saving to build a house/buy a car, or most importantly, when you desire a husband or a wife, or striving to build a happy family or living a good life, and so on. When you face adversity, all you have to do is strengthen your determination and tell yourself, "I will never give up until it gets better."
At that point, you will feel some energy which could drives you forward, and if you keep going, you have defeated negative energies that can undermines your resolve.
If you try to give up your goal, you will always have no excuse, unless it is one of your flaws. Your efforts may be accumulating but are not yet visible.
I heard a story about a farmer who planted a pawpaw tree for around two years but it did not sprout throughout that time. This farmer marked the location where he planted the pawpaw seeds and continued to irrigate it for many years. He keeps watering even though the pawpaw tree hasn't sprouted a leaf, and he hasn't ever considered that his efforts are a waste of time.
The second year occurred, and the farmer woke up on a faithful morning only to wet the site as usual, so he discovered that the pawpaw tree started sprouting, he was very glad to see the leaf coming out, then went ahead to water it, and the tree grew and started yielding fruit within three weeks.
In a nutshell, it is not the watering he conducts after the plant has begun to grow that causes it to grow faster and bear fruit, but rather what he has done over the years. If he had stopped pouring water, the plant would not have grown as vigorously and might have died eventually.
I was astounded to hear that story, but I'm still wondering if I can practice it the way it was narrated. I doubt it, and in my mind, I resolved that it is a matter of patience, as well as strong hope and commitment. Your efforts may not be visible right away, but they do count.
Afterwards, whenever I start pursuing something new, Initially i will never consider what it would yield. Although the end result may be the primary motive for my pursuit, I will instead strive to improve. As a result, the end result will be worth the effort; perhaps what is worth doing is worth doing better.
To this end,i can categoritically concludes that what matters most is making right decision, have better knowledge about what you desire, hope high, spice it with a little patient and be determined.
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There's no such loser for those who never give up. Our failures don't teach us to lose hope but to learn how to manage things that challenged us.