Who's your crush?

What if your spouse/partner will ask this one day? What will you say?

hello, dear read.cash friends, how are you all?

Two nights ago, m husband asked me this question(I've been keepingthis on my drafts because I don't know how to finish this article, and I forgot when this happened). I don't know where he got it but he just questioned it to me a little later aftre we arrived at our home ad we were busy preparing for dinner.

I just laughed at him and told him he was silly and continued on with our work but when I put the kids to bed, he lied down beside me and he continued asking his question.

I felt awkward but was never offended. we have been together for 8 years( ooh, matagal na pala kami ) and we had gotten comfortable with each other since we decided to be open.

Since the was insisting, I told him that I had a lot of crushes but he was worried and asked:

Karon? (that's now?)

And I told him, no, when in high school. I don't have time for crushes now, I'm busy making money online and you can see it. . ad I can feel his breath exhausting a breath of relief. Haha.

He was relieved by what I said and I started to enumerate my crushes. I am a secretive kind of a girl when I was younger and I don't tell anybody about my crush because they will only tease me about him. But I cannot deny the fact that I was curious about relationships during the high school stage. Back then I was afraid to have one because my parents might get angry with me. But I do have a lot of male friends though since males and females are states simultaneously.

Here are my crushes and the reasons why I was attracted to them.

• Barry- we were in our second year in high school. I like him because he was intelligent and nice. We used to b in a group project once. When I was son college we saw each other on a bus and I was very shocked to see him there. I made a loud sound and everyone looked at us. We talked about school and departed after going down the bus

• Roger- I liked him while in my second year in high school. He is good-looking and had a fair complexion but is vertically challenged. He has many girls tailing him

• Carlo- we were in the third year and I like him for his talent. He was very good at drawing. The husband even asked me:

  so that is why you are drawing now?

  Then I said no. that's not it. I was drawing so I could teach my daughter a skill and develop it into a talent plus I saw art as a source of money when one is good at it.

• Erland- he was a nice guy, I like his skin completion because the is fair-skinned. I am morena and sunburnt.

• Elvin- his body build was good. He courted me before my husband did but we have not been into a relationship.

• Ton2x - this is my husband now. I liked him since my fourth year in high school. He has lovely eyes and a very nice pair of eyebrows. At that time, I didn't know that he was into amateur boxing and he is very nice to me. I kept asking him where he'd been during the days when he is absent. Turns out he was on a trip or a practice.

  During the last months of high school, our teacher brought us both with them in a survey. Ton and I had a talk along the way and that was when he held my hand for the very first time.

Husband's crushes

After I told my husband about my crushes, he teased me but told me about his too.

When he was still a kid

He said he has a crush when he was still small. The neighbors are teasing them together. They are the only ones who are of the same age at that time(too bad he forgot about the name of the girl, mother in law forgot her name too). He said he could remember the girl going to their house very early in the mornings so they could play together, and what's funny is that the girl was still in her PJs and smells like bed still.

After a few months, the girl's family moved away and they saw each other since then.

On an athletic meet

On one of the athletic meets that my husband had been into; the game was held on one of the campuses and they stayed for a few days. We were still in high school at that time. He saw a pretty lady watching a lone tennis game. The girl playing the lone tennis though Tonton was watching her and kept glancing n him too.

The pretty girl waved and he thought she was waving at him bu the was waving at the man behind him. He said he was lucky he didn't wave back because if he did, he'll be embarrassed.

When the game ended, the winner came to my Tonton and asked him if her play was good and he said yes. The lady then invited him to see the next game. He kept saying yes but his eyes were on that pretty girl's focus. And kept in his mind that he will be asking the girl her name.

The next day, it was Ton's turn to pay and he won. The girl was cheering for him and he was teased by his teammates. They went for a stroll, the girl invited her to but he only said yes so he could have a chance to see that pretty girl. Too bad he didn't see her again

The remembrance

On the last night of the palaro, they made a bonfire, and that Tennis girl came to my husband and gave him her 2x2 ID picture saying " ampingi ni ha"(take care of this). She didn't even catch her name thinking of that Pretty girl! He was thinking to himself " what should I do with this? How can I remember her when I don't know her name?"

In the morning, they all packed their hin sup and went home. Their story ended for they did not see each other again.

So that's how our conversation went. I was very happy and my story(mine and my husband excluded) did not have a happy ending before. Kids in the high school stage are curious about having relationships and when they give their all, they might go astray and have a family before even finishing school.

I am very glad we had that conversation too! we just talked to know each other even better, with no judgment at all. In the morning he kept teasing me that I have lots of crushes and I teased him back that girls are chasing him off.

Past relationships are often hard to talk with our partners in life in the fear that they might get offended or we might hurt them but opening up about it at the right place and right time, and especially the right emotions will strengthen the relationship.

So have you asked your partner who his/her crushes were back then? Or are you ready to ask them that question?

That will be all for now. Thank you for stopping by and have a great day