Sandra's wrongdoing

May9, 2022 03:00 in the morning.

Now I am wide awake already! At am, I was waken by a call from my husband's phone. It was his sister and is looking for her daughter. My husband reported for duty on Sunday and they have to render 24 hours of work and she thought that her daughter is with his uncle in the barangay Hall which has a covered court beside it. But my husband was on the elementary school busy preparing for today's big event, the elections.

Out of concern, I called my husband who was already having thier portion of sleep, and told him that Sandra had been missing since 10pm. Her mother said she told her younger sister she is going out to their comfort room at that time but has never returned since. She and her youngest daughter even went to the covered court to check. She even had a hard time finding the number of the sim inserted on the phone that she brought with her.

My husband, who had grown worried, took the barangay owned vehicle to search for her only to find out hat she went to the neighbour's wifi station.

Finally her mother sent me her number. She asked me to call her because she cannot call numbers that belongs to other networks. I called her number and was picked on the fourth attempt, she knew it was me and said she is washing her feet and had already went home. I interrogated her where she had really gone why there is a neded to wash her feet when the wifi station is only few metres away.

What angered me most is that it is already past 1 am and she went alone, she's a lady, for pete's sake!

A lady should not go out of the house at that time of day! If she wanted to connect on WiFi she should have done it during day time. She is not being careful despite the dangers that could have happened to her.

her clothing

She wears crop tops and a very short shorts all the time and it made me more worried of her. To be Frank, she dresses like a whore and her mother did not say anything about it. I told my husband to tell her but he said I should let her be, he says.

they tolerated it!

Nanay and her mother let's her and her cousins to roam around until very late at night. I strongly oppose to it but what can I do? And Sandra, hmmm,I never heard Nanay mke a comment of her clothes. What I did not like most is that what they do is seen by my kids. To them it may look normal and there is a great chance for them to copy the cousins. Last week, I already shared that I scolded my daughter for being out late, that was still 6 pm and she was not able to go home with me when I took her younger siblings. Now I don't want to tolerate such behaviour. I also have seen that my second born wants to dress like Sandra: she wore her blouse and rolled it down like an off shoulder blouse with her cousin's help.

I as mother, would like to dress my kids modestly: I don't know if what you guys think but this is what I think is best for my kids. And just like how my parents disciplined me,I would to my children that they should be home before dark especially whe there is nothing important to do outside. Better be safe than sorry for we cannot know what might happen to them. It's also my responsibility to keep them safe.

Just now, my husband and I texted about what happened earlier, he said her sister slapped his neice for her wrong doing. I hope Sandra will learn from her mistake.

When I called my husband that Sandra is home already, I never thought he had the phone in loudspeaker; he said Sandra is with the and her mother. I ranted about her being tolerated to go out on the evenings and her way of clothing. My sister in law heard it and my husband told me she cried upon hearing it. I may have hurt her but it was the truth: I would rather hurt her with my words and make them change thier ways than give them flowery words than would lead them to harm. I heard my sister law said that they will not be allowed to go out after I said it. Maybe sis did not realise letting them go out in the night is wrong?

Closing thoughts

We may see that the trend looks good and sexy but that does not mean it is good like God will be pleased when we do it. Also, was parents, it is our responsibility to discipline our kids, be a stalker to them on what they do, where they go, what they wear, what they say in their social media accounts and who they are with. Life has no rewinds, no undos. When it's done it's done and what is lost will be forever lost, be it life, health, dignity and innocence.

Kids might want to be set free but we grown ups knew what is good for them and what is not. Best be vigilant and keep on the safe side.

Wow it took me an hour to write this article, it's now 03:57 am and I wonder if I can get any sleep later.

Keep safe this election day. We were only allowed to have a half day lea e for the elections today so I might go to work in the morning and vote in the afternoon. Praying what is best for the country. May God bless us all.

Thank you for reading, keep safe!

Images are mine.

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