Knowing he is the one

How did I know that he is the one?

My husband and I met in high school, it was in the fourth year. When I went to college, he also went in the different school. Our relationship is not that good: we seldom see each other because he is an athlete, always I training. When we went to college, we are connected through text but I cannot really understand him, I am way too serious and I don’t get his jokes and he constantly pulls prank on me.

There was at time that his friend used his phone to tell me he has been hospitalized because he drank herbicide. I called and texted back but not answer. He then texted few days after, he denied the thing. I don't know if this was true, and I did not bring the topic back since it happened a very long time ago.

He went to college too, but because he was in the cheer leadingteam, his father sent him to Manila and we don’t have a communication since. I was in the third year when I received a message in facebok from him saying he was sorry for leaving me behind. I was in a relationship back then, and I did not bother about the message and deleted it.

Three years after we departed, he went home and tried to win me back. I was hesitant at first but I gave in. Marupok eh. After I graduated and trained in the piggery farm, we got close , very close and I see him needing me the most like no one ever did before. He said he misses me just minutes after we depart and he always wish that I am near and beside him.

Whenever we were together having a date, he always say “ please be mine”, and kisses my hand. I never felt being wanted this bad before, and I fell in love with him even more.

There was a time, he was on a night shift and fell asleep while we dated. He held me close and said please be mine, he said it sincerely. I told him I am his and we kissed. When I asked him of it after he wake up, he said he had no idea of it.

You see, he needed me wake or asleep; nothing is better than this. I have never felt being loved that much before and he even loved me more as we lasted for years.

Our love has grown over the years and even strengthened by our kids. They were the ones that binded us together. We cannot afford to lose each other and makes a way to work things out for us. He changed me for better by teeing me my pride will never help us succeed on whatever our plans were. I also had come to understand him better that we can always joke around. I changed him uy convincing him to tell me everything he feels, even if he would hurt me, sometimes, I might get offended but I have grown to learn to adjust.

Over the years, our fights reduced to misunderstandings and we always talk it out. We may get angry at each other but we always make it up. We laugh at our problems now, being the two of us together with our kids and God guiding us over.

But before everything, we surrendred it all to God and we lived a happy life.

I hope every one does too. I wish you all love and happiness. Keep safe everyone and thanks for the read.

Images are mine.

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