The heart wants what it wants

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Aloha beautiful ones! Today is Wednesday and finally on the next day my mind will be free from thinking about my kids modules because I passed it this afternoon. Anyway before I went to the school earlier I was watching my favorite segment on the noontime show here in our local country. I love watching it because they have interesting topic every now and then. Since it is the love month their topic is about people who married single parents.

What I like about this segment is the story they tell on the national television without any hesitations. Though sometimes there are sensitive topic but they have professional guests to assess or to give awareness most specially if their topic is about mental health. Since February is a love month most of their topic have something to do with it. This past few days I am having a lss (last song syndrome) on Selena Gomez song " The heart wants what it wants" This is actually one of my favorite song of her and the video itself makes me cry for some reason. Maybe because I am a Jelena fan. Maybe you already knew the on and off relationship of Justin B. and Selena G. and according to some fans this song is written by Selena for Justin. If it's true, I don't know either, but personally I really love the song. If you want to hear it, I am going to share the official music video and may you also experience the last song syndrome I am feeling at the moment. Just kidding guys.

In my own interpretation of the song, the girl is inlove with her man even though they are in a toxic relationship. She is willing to take all the pain just as long as her heart is happy, because that is what her heart wants. Quite martyr right? But in reality there are many people who are like that when it comes to love. We don't have to judge them because it's their choice and we have to respect it.

Talking about choices, the topic earlier which I had just mentioned is about the love story of couples who are married to their partners who had children from their past lovers. Our country is known for being a conservative country because of our religion. So if you marry someone who had another child from their previous relationship, you can't prevent other people from saying things against that kind of relationship. Some are narrow minded and this could be one of the reasons that your relationship won't work. Among the 5 couples that has been interviewed, the story of the second couple is my favorite. The guy met the girl at work. He was attracted at the girl and asked help from her friend so he can make a move. The friend asked him if he is ready to be a father, then found out later that the girl he liked has a child. At first he was a little hesitant but his attraction for the girl just grew as time goes by. He pursued the girl even though they have different religion as well. Right now they are together and you can feel the love they have for each other. The other couples story are also interesting. One thing for sure with this kind of love story their hearts wants what it wants. No amount of judgements can separate them and no matter how many struggles they've been into they will stick with each other.

Thanks for reaching this far. Valentine's day is coming near, do you have any plans about it? Just remember let's continue spreading love everyday. ❤️❤️

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Basta tumibok ang puso mo sa isang tao tapos kahit marami kang naririnig na ganito ganiyan, mawawalan kana ng pake dun kasi mas mahalaga na ung nararamdaman mo at susundin mo talaga yang sinisigaw ng puso mo. Diko pa to naranasan sa totoo lang yung iba nga diba susuwayin ang lahat basta makasama lang ang mahal. Diko pa tu naranasan at ayaw kong maranasan, parang sobrang intense kasi ns you will really do anything just to be with someone. It's a beautiful love pero what if di pala kayo ang end game, for sure sobrang sakit non. Luhh napahaba na, wala naman akong pinaglalaban dito ee HAHAHA

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2 years ago

Hahaha! Salamat sa madamdaming talumpati mare, pero sabi nga nila kung ano ang nasa puso mo sundin mo, get, get, get get awww!

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2 years ago

True yan sis. Kapag may anak ka na iba ang iisipin ng tap lalo na mga kapamilya ng magiging second partner mo. Dapat din na whole tatanggapin talaga at pag isipan mabuti kasi baka maging mitsa lang ng relasyon nyo, ganern.

Pero yun nga choice at decision na kailangan pag isipan. Tsaka kunti na lang matitino now na kaya tanggapin na may anak na sa una. Nakakatakot din pumasok sa relasyon ulit kapag may anak ka na kasi baka isumbat.

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2 years ago

Oo sis, kawawa kapag girl kasi nahuhusgahan sila, di naman nila kasalanan, pag lalaki kasi parang ok lang.

Hays pero at least ngayon mejo lumalawak na pag iisip ng mga tao sa paligid natin:)

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2 years ago

I have been judged as a single mom sis and I got one failed relationship because the guy didn't want to have my kid. I am proud that I went through the struggles during pregnancies until my eldest grew up and then I met my partner and his family who accepted me and my kid. My relationship with them is not perfect but I am thankful :)

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2 years ago

I am so happy for you sis:) Natutuwa ako everytime you share how much your current partner accepted your child like his own, bibihira kasi ang ganyan sa ngayon.

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2 years ago

Oo nga sis :) Salamat :)

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2 years ago

Ang daming judgemental na tao sis kapag ganyan grabe sasabihin ng mga tao. Iba tingin nila sayo lalo na yung mga single moms sis. Sa amin ganyan sis. Di ko alam kung bakit may mga taong ganun. Kung ano makikita may sasabihin agad.

Pag love mo talaga ang tao sis. Pag deeply inlove ka talaga. Hindi talaga i-mind yung background kundi tanggapin mo siya kung sino siya. Yung tawag talaga sa ganun true love.

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2 years ago

Kaya nga sis, hay daming taong mapaghusga kahit di naman nila alam ang kwento ng tao, ang masakit pa jan kung sino pa ung may mataas na pinag aralan sila pa ang mapaghusga, though di naman lahat.

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2 years ago

Oo sis mostly ganun. Sobrang nakakalungkot isipin. Sa lugar namin sis sobrang dami. Parang kahit saan sis andyan talaga.

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2 years ago

Di talaga nawawala ang mga ganuong tao dahil nga sa religion natin pero at least kahit papano natatanggap na sya.

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2 years ago

Oo sis. Respect each other at they deserve to be love, support and care.

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2 years ago

Uy Jelena fan din ako huhu! Grabe kala ko walang nakakaintindi ng pain na dinulot ng break up ni Justin at Selena katulad ko hahaha Ayan, nadamay na ako sa nararamdaman mo sis.

Kapag inlove nga talaga, feeling mo kaya mong masurpass lahat, kahit ano pang judgment.

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2 years ago

Hays, I really love young love, pero dahil cguro bata pa sila pareho kaya di rin nagprosper. Hanggang throwback na lang sis.

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2 years ago

Love is blind So it can lead us anywhere, people shouldn't get mad when they figure out their sibling or friend is dating someone that already has a child... Its by choice and decision, they decided to keep on dating coz they love one another so people shouldn't go against this

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2 years ago

True that my dear:) just that some people here in my country aren't open with that kind of relationship, they think that having a wife or husband who has a child from past relationship is a burden. But not at all though only few maybe because of our culture.

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2 years ago

Indeed sis, in all Honestly sis, until now my family has no idea that my partner has already have children, I can't tell them for I know they will be against with our relationship, I actually have a plan to tell that to them before, kaso may nakialam Kaya ayon lalo akong natakot sabihin sa knila na ganun na nga may anak na siya. But I still wanted to let them know, humahanap lang ako ng time.

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2 years ago

They will understand for sure sis, cguro sa una lang pero later on matatanggap nila yan kasi at the end of the day family pa din kayo. 😍

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