Know your Worth and never settle for Less.

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Hello! What's up lovely people. How have you been? I hope everyone is having a great time despite all the challenges we are facing. Whatever may happened always remember that all your effort will be worth it in the end. Talking about the word worth, what comes first into your mind everytime you hear it? As for me, it comes along with the word value. And as we all know the word value also have something to do with your importance. Now why am I asking these things. There's a latest gossip in our country today that involves a certain local couple celebrity. According to the news, the boy celebrity is now in jail for allegedly beating up and detaining his girlfriend. I actually saw the pictures of the girl after she was assaulted and I was like wtf! I always believe that violence is not a solution in every relationship. First and foremost when it comes to physical strength the boy will always have the advantage. And beating a girl is never acceptable, just imagine your mother and sister are girls too.

Physical abuse is a no no.

Upon learning this story on my fb timeline, it reminds me of the story I have heard on the radio last night while we were on our way home. According to the letter sender, his partner has been fooling her for a long time and what is worst was that her group of friends knows about it. Her friends by the way didn't even bother to tell her about it. And it was only confirmed when she confronted them. The disc jockey then tell her, that she is one of the kind. The best in her circle of friends however she needs to change them because she doesn't deserved friends like that. She should know her value and importance. I agree with the dj because no one deserves to be deceived while in a relationship. If you have a change of heart then be honest with your feelings. It is much better than continue fooling your partner and yourself.

Going back to the first story, I am glad that the boy is now arrested. I know there's always three sides of the story, his side, her side and the truth. I know in the end truth will always prevail but I hope the victim of assault will find her justice and to the perpetrator may he serve the right punishment for his actions.

To all the girls and boys out there, may we always know our worth. If you think something is wrong in your relationship don't hesitate to let go. Don't let your partner ever hurt you physically because if he/she truly loves you they will never hurt you. Although most of the times we heard stories that girls had been beatin up but I know this is applicable to guys as well.

Love is a beautiful thing that everyone should experience. But always keep in mind love and violence shall never exist in the same relationship. As well as being deceived or being fooled in a relationship should never happened. For goodness sake, your importance mattered. Always know your worth and never ever settle for for less because you always deserve the best.

That's it for today. Thanks for dropping by and spending your time reading my blog for today. See you next time.

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Nakita ko din sis, kaya di talaga minsan kapanipaniwala ang sobrang mga pakeme sa social media. Yung iba sobrang showy kuno pero sa totoong buhay nagaaway pala palagi or worst nanakit yung partner. Kaya sa first few months pa lang ng relationship, or days basta may red flags dapat tapusin na agad yung relationship.

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2 years ago

I see so many cheatings in today's relationships. If anyone is cheating you, confront them and leave them don't cling to them. A cheater always cheats, so why to destroy your life. It's so hard to leave him/her? Oh yes so you have no self respect or do you think apart from this person there's isn't anyone who can treat you better in a world filled with so many people , should I tell you how many are there. Then there's something wrong in you, try to open your eyes and see the world. It's a lot bigger than you think. A cheating relationship never succeeds, just 1% from what I have seen in teenage relationships, don't know about the married ones. I hope that we youth understand the value of people and feelings soon, too many cheats in relationships are going on.

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2 years ago

Sadly we have a lot of people in the world today who don't know their worth and will always settle for less, they end up getting abused by their partner who already knows they can't leave the relationship for one reason or the other. I guess part of the reason for that is having low self-esteem, those people just don't see themselves getting someone better than their current partner, so they rather just remain in the toxic relationship

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2 years ago

I know right. Here in our country we have a law that protect women against any abuse however, some were afraid to come out in that kind of toxic relationship. Number one reason is to protect their children. They don't want to have a broken family so they'll just suffer and choose to stay which is really not good.

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2 years ago

I had watched it sis, trending sa FB eh That is why ayaw ko ng malalaking lalaki. I might be beaten black and blue😂

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2 years ago

Naku sis kahit kurot lang gawin sakin ayawan na, hahaha!

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2 years ago

Ako.din, kapag ako sinaktan ng aasawa ko wag siya matulog sa tabi ko😂.

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2 years ago

tsk tsk tsk.. i have seen the girls photos too.. violence us always never the answer

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2 years ago

Grabe nga sis, I hope she would get the justice she deserves.

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2 years ago

yes sis.. i hope so... ang amo pa naman mukha ni guy noh?

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2 years ago

Indeed ate yhane we are all worthy to be love and we don't deserve to be slave by someone.

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2 years ago

Exactly, unfortunately madaming mga cases ng physical abuse satin yung iba lang takot magsumbong

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2 years ago

I saw that post too sis. Grabe no? Kung titingnan mo parang ang sweet nila at mapapaniwala ka talaga na mahal nila ang isa't isa. Pero biglang may ganyan. I would never tolerate a person or a guy na nananakit ng babae. Very minus talaga yan para sa'kin.

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2 years ago

Pareho tayo sis, major turn off ang lalaking nananakit. Ako naman di ko talaga sila kilala masyado, more on korean stars talaga ako. Dumaan lang sa tl ko kahapon kaya nacurious ako. Saklap talaga.

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2 years ago

Thankful ako sa partner ko,kasi so far,sa 5 yrs na mag live-in kami never nya akong nasaktan o napagbuhatan ng kamay kahit na super mabunganga ako, Trending talaga siya ngayon sa soc.media, deserve lang na makulong,feeling nya kasi siya na yung pinaka poging lalaki,

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2 years ago

Happy for you momshe😍

Feeler naman si guy, di ko nga sya kilala eh. Ok lang di naman din nya ako kilala.hahaha! Pero walang may karapatang manakit lalo kung babae yun. Talong talo, nakita mo pic ng girl. Although gagaling ang mga pasa pero yung trauma na nakuha nya dun eh matagal nawala.

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2 years ago

Thank you🥰 Yes sissy super naawa ako,grabe no,?buti nalang na rescue siya, di talaga maglalaho ang trauma, sana lang maging ok na si girl.

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2 years ago

Yong ang saya saya nila sa picture pero di natin alam may nakatago palang lihim sa nga mata nya. Nakaka lungkot ang ganito ee. Kaya ang hirap na din mag tiwala tsk. Buti wala akong juwa. Baka matapat ako sa ganito naku, baka mah ala Pacman at Mayweather kami HAHAHAHA

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2 years ago

Hahaha naku mare tingin ko naman di ka papayag na maagrabyado, jusko nakita mo si Kit di ba ang laking tao nya. Basta on my part kapag may something bad na sa relasyon let go na kahit masakit, ayoko ng dumating sa bugbugan part. Double kill yun mare, masakit sa puso at pati katawan.

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2 years ago

Kaya dapat maging maingat sa mga desisyon sa buhay be responsible sa mga maaring mangyari dahil natin Alam Ang mga magigiing resulta.

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2 years ago

True, in my opinyon talaga kapag may bugbugan ng pangyayari ayawan na. Sabihan mo na ako ng masasakit na salita pero saktan ako physically ah thats a big no.

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2 years ago

Nakita ko tong news na to,kawawa yong babae,kahit sabihin pa ng lalake kung ani ano wala pa rin siyang karapatan na manakot. Tama talaga ang mga points mo diyan sis,bakit pa manatili sa relasyon na ganon.

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2 years ago

Naku sis bugbog sarado yung babae eh napakalaking tao nung guy. Sana inisip na lang nya may nanay din sya. Well, abangan natin ang susunod na kabanata ng kaso nila.

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2 years ago

Nku sis maraming situation ang ganito sis. Nakakaawa din naman kapag ganito ang mga panyayari sa buhay.

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2 years ago

Oo sis, marami talaga lalo na kung mag asawa at involve na ang anak, kawawa lang kasi ang hirap ng kumalas at mas iisiping magstay for the sake of the kids.

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2 years ago

Kapag maltreated na, alis na talaga sa poder. Kasi kapag nag stay pa ng subra ka ng malulugmok. Tama ka sis na don't settle for less. Worthy tayo sa worthy.

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2 years ago

Korek na korek, pag hinayaan kasi uulit ng uulit yan, honestly mas ok sakin yung masasakit na salita although I know traumatic din minsan pero mas nakakatrauma ang mabugbog. Ang pasa at pilat nawawala pero ung alala nun forever na tatatak sa isip.

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2 years ago

We deserve to enjoy the best and be treated well so we shouldn't allow anyone to disvalue us or maltreat us at all

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2 years ago

I definitely agree, no one deserves to be maltreated. I feel sorry for those people who got to experience this kind of relationship.

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2 years ago

Tama sis know your worth ito talaga ang dapat natin tandaan , walang sinumang may karapatang pagbuhatan tayo ng kamay sa mga magiging ka partner natin.

Trending nga tong insidenti nato sis, grabe bug bug inabot nong girlfriend niya.

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2 years ago

True ka jan sis, nakakapangilabot itsura ni girl ano, jowa pa lang sila pano pag naging mag asawa na. Mabuti habang maaga pa eh nakakalas na sya.

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