She's Not Just Broken-Hearted
Have someone broken your heart really bad that you think you won't be able to live the next day? Have you ever dealt with betrayal? Have you been cheated before?
We all wonder why she loses so much weight. Her eyes don't twinkle anymore. She got no energy to spare. We thought it was because her Mom just passed away last year that she's still coping. But little did we know she's going through more added pain than losing a mother.
She posted a picture of her with the kids on Facebook telling them that they still got each other. She got two young girls. And she posted a throwback picture of her looking so gorgeous with a caption,
"I'll bring you back, self."
I know that line. I've said it before. I've been there before. Something is going on and thanks to my sister for sharing what's the reason behind it. Her partner (not married) got a new woman behind her back.
And she find it out when the woman posted a video of them together. And upon her asking the woman she said,
"He told me that you are already separated."
And yes, they have never separated only the man works far and doesn't live with them. And she didn't know that they are separated if that's the case. It hurts. Just knowing that, it hurts. When you've been through such pain you know how it feels and you feel what other feels and she's our family so it hurts even more.
She just lost her Mom. Now her partner. The father of her children. She's not just brokenhearted. Now she has a broken family. Now she questions herself day and night about what's wrong with her. And I'm sure she blames herself for that. She loves too much, who woman doesn't?
But how to fight for a man who doesn't want to choose you and your family? Who never thinks of the kids? And I know they are not married and he is free. But not as a father.
And no matter how you interchange the word 'betrayal', it won't be okay.
Cheating is not okay no matter what stage of the relationship you are on.
I know she's strong. I know she will make it. I know she will heal herself. We are warriors. And one day she will love again and will never hurt like before. I wish her all the best, a big hug and prayers to God that her tears will stop flowing in her eyes and her face will be filled with smiles again. In time.
It's trending in the news about the alleged cheating of Adam Levine on her Victoria's Secret Angel wife Behati Prinsloo after the model, Sumner Stroh shared it on social media. Even thought of naming their 3rd child after the mistress is just unforgivable. I wish it was not true. Who really knows if it is or not, but it's possible.
Just like others would say, you could be a Victoria's Secret Angel, have a beautiful face and sexy body, have plenty of money or independent, have a good character and attitude, gave your husband beautiful children and still, it won't be enough.
Men, I don't know what to say to you but be a man. Be man enough not to hurt the one who loves you so much. Protect your family at all costs. If you choose to break her heart I hope you had a good reason for doing so. If there is.
And women, if your heart gets broken, if your trust is gone in vain..
Held your head up. Cry. Cry your heart out but remember that it's not the end. That's not your happy ending. Until you are not happy that's not the end.
Big power hug to all the strong women just like you and me! 💪
And cheers to all the man who knows how to be one!
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😔 it's so heartbreaking to hear of such. I could only think of "why men do crazy things to break a woman not only her heart but her being and not to mention their family?"
Malalagpasan din nya, in time. Always be there for her until she could pick herself up again, she needs you now the most