Potty/Toilet Training Guide for Parents

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As a parent, we've been through the challenge of training our child to use the potty. There is no right or wrong way of training but choosing the right time and knowing that they are ready makes it easier for us to train them. There is no specific age to tell you that they are ready. Every child is different so it's just right not to compare them with others.

When the children are physically ready, they can control their bowels and bladder and when they want to be dry and clean. Take note that most children can control their bowels before their bladder.

  • By age 1, most babies have stopped pooping at night

  • By age 2, some children are dry during the day, but this is still quite early

  • By age 3, they are dry most days - even then, all children have odd "accident" when they're excited or upset for example.

  • By age 4, children are reliably dry during the day

Staying dry throughout the night takes time for children to learn and sometimes, they still wet the bed at the age of 5.

When should you start?

Keep in mind that you cannot force your child to use a potty. It's a new skill for our child to use it. Learning them takes patience and we as a parent must take it slowly and go with our child's pace. Most of the children become potty trained between the ages of 2 and 3. Some are ready before they are 2 and others are not ready until after they are 3 years.

Our children are ready for potty training when these happen:

  1. THEIR BODY IS READY

If our child can control his bladder and bowel, he is ready. As children develop at different rates, it is easier to train them when they have control over their bowel and bladder actions.

  1. THEIR MIND IS READY

This is when our child knows when they've wet or soiled. Usually, the child is ready when he tugs or takes off a wet or dirty nappy. When they get to know when they're peeing and may also tell you that he needs changing. Sometimes they go hide somewhere to pee.

Common problems during potty/toilet training

Some children are easily trained and some are very challenging. Here are some common problems:

  • The child won't use the potty.

If you started potty train your child too early, this will usually happen. If the child won't use the potty, the best thing to do is to stop the training for a month or two. The child will be more likely to use it if you don't force him to sit on it.

  • The child was potty trained but has started wetting/soiling again.

This is a common problem as I had this with my daughter. She was potty trained before she was 2 and easily learned it. But when she's 3, she started wetting herself again. And from time to time have little "accidents".

Remember:

  1. Don't get upset with your child when they wet/soiled themselves even if it seems like they're doing it on purpose. We can be angry but never try to show these feelings to your child.

  2. Praise your child or give them a reward for any dry times even he is wet the rest of the day especially when he does use the potty or toilet.

  • The child is constipated.

Children vary a lot in how often they pass bowel movements. Some children go more than once a day, some go once a day, and some go once every two or three days. All these are quite normal.

If your child passes hard bowel movements once a week or less, it is likely that he is constipated. He may not want to use the potty or toilet, in case it hurts him. Make sure that he drinks a lot and eats high fibre foods such as whole-grain cereals, wholemeal bread, brown rice, beans and peas. If the problem carries on, talk to your family doctor.

I have no problem with potty training my daughters as she learned it herself. We just bought her a potty! The key in her potty training is we bought her a baby alive potty training doll that she played with. She learns to feed it and sit the doll on the potty to pee. And when she able to control her bladder, she goes to the potty and does exactly the same thing.

But when she's 3, she started wetting herself again because she waited too long to go to the toilet. At night we have to put pull-ups on her so she doesn't wet the bed. And I'm glad she stopped it herself and don't want to wear a nappy any more.

How about you, what's your potty training experience? Do you have any tips to share with other parents? Please comment down below.

THANK YOU FOR READING.

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Thank you po sa very informative article.. experience ko namn po sa mga anak ko, sa una ako po muna Ang naghuhugas, then SILa magkukuskos..😁😁😁 para unti unti SILANg matuto..

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3 years ago

I think I must advice this to my cousin... pero ang hirap tlaga mag training. Pero worth it naman po. Salamt nito ate. Now ko lang to nalaman na may ganito pala. πŸ˜‚ d kasi ako naka experience nito eh

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3 years ago

D ko alam kc hndi ako mother 🀭 At d ko pa alam bout han sa potty train term nung bata pa ako nag alaga sa mga kapatid ko 🀣🀣🀣

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3 years ago

Sosyal no? Arenola lang to satin e! πŸ™ˆπŸ™ˆπŸ™ˆπŸ™ˆ

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3 years ago

Ang gina potty train ko lang is si Sunny, my pet dog since wala akong human baby. Hahaha. Sunny is great at doing her business outside or at night, she takes a dump at the CR. Hehe

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3 years ago

Mas nakakabilib turuan ang aso huh, pano nila naiintindhan yun? πŸ˜…

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3 years ago

After meal niya, talagang derecho kami sa labas to do her business para sa susunod, alam na nya na sa labas ang CR niya. πŸ€­πŸ˜…

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3 years ago

Ang anak ko po bago lamang siya natuto at natutuwa ako kasi SIYA mismo ang nagprisinta hindi na siya nagsusuot ng diaper 2 years old na po siya pero minsan di pa ein maiwasan na makaihi Pag gabi pero at least minsan lang naman at hindi palagi kasi lagi kong sinasabi sa kanya na kapag naiihi na siya sabihin niya lang at bago matulog dapat umihi muna siya at kapag day time naman alam n niyang ibaba ang sarili niyang salawal at siya na ang umiihi mag isa, ngayon ang gusto kong matutunan niya ay ang pag tae sa cr mismo ngayon takot pa kasi siya

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3 years ago

Hello tired_momma! Thank you for the encouragement. :)

I have a little knowledge about a child's development/psychosocial stages of development. I must say, you nailed this one. You narrated it like you're really a hands-on, tired yet amazing momma. I am a fan of mommas that's why my first article here on read.cash is a dedication to all the women/mother. If you have some time momma, I would love to recommend the video.

I'll end it this way. Thank you. You take care always! πŸ’—

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Thank you for your nice words dear and I'm a full-time mom so it's me and them all the time, no day off. What video is that? Can you send me the link?

Thank you again and you too, take care. ❀

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3 years ago

Here's the link to the video. :)

The Impossible Dream: https://youtu.be/t2JBPBIFR2Y

Thank you as well! You are such an inspiring momma. Hope to read more of your articles ma'am! πŸ’—

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Thank you, I will watch that. ❀

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3 years ago

When we were buying a potty for our daughter,we chose one with expressive colors and made especiallly for baby girls.So,when we brought it home,the daughter immediately noticed the potty and was very curious what it is and why it is used for.We showed her and she was thrilled.She wanted sitting in potty more and more.And,so she got used her potty.

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3 years ago

Haha, same as Tia! 🀩 As long it's pink, it's hers lol. Colour also does the job to help them with easy potty training. How old is your daughter when she stops wetting herself?

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3 years ago

11 months

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3 years ago

I'm too young to be learning about potty training πŸ˜…πŸ˜…πŸ˜… i potty trained my dogs when they were 6 months old though so does that count?

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3 years ago

Hanz, pati pala aso pinapotty train? πŸ˜… I wonder if the dog is easily trained than children lol.

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3 years ago

yiss, tinuturuan na mag potty on certain places lang, they don't use the toilet but they just do their business where there's grass at least

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My son will be turning two this May, he was potty trained at a very early age at maaga din xa nagsalita kya nasasabi nya ang booboo for pee at poopoo for poo. Ksi nagkaka-UTI pag parati xang nkadiaper. Kya what I did is to train him while he's 9 months old, ung pinapaihi xa pag bagong gising at kung nawiwiwi din aq, napapansin q naiihi din xa kya sinasama q sa cr at pinapaihi muna xa. Ayun, trained na xa.. sa poo nman nya, pag napapansin q na mejo nagtatago xa at umiire dinadala q na agad sa cr.. need lng ntin sila tutukan pag napansin nting ready na sila sa potty training pra tuloy tuloy ang progress

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3 years ago

Tia also used to hide when pooping especially if she's constipated. And sobrang nakakaawa kapag constipated ramdam mo yung sakit. Nakakatuwa, nice to meet you mommy.

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3 years ago

True, kwawa tlga sila pag constipated,. Matotrauma din sila at ayaw n umire dhil sasabihin nila it hurts.. Same hre momsh

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3 years ago

Thank god I'm boy and at least I don't have to read this whole article hehe

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Are you? I thought you're a woman lol. I'm sorry for that. But still you gotta to help the future Mrs lol

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3 years ago

Hehe profile issues I'm deciding to change it🀣 I don't think so I've to help her with this thing😬 technology at that time will help for sure

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Haha, oh my! Go change that I thought you're a girl πŸ’

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