Why do women face fear and hesitation in balancing their family, children and career?

When we talk about women empowerment, most of the time we mark it as making money .As a result we create extra burden and low self-esteem of those who are playing an important role as mothers in our society. Maybe the mother is educated or uneducated, it doesn't matter .There are many who are very highly educated who have many great degrees but still they give up their careers for their motherhood. And they have chosen the profession of being a housewife with desire and joy. Thinking from this point of view, we can't talk about women's emancipation for all women because whenever we are referring to emancipation of women, it is turning around and making money. And this is the only reason why many females are seen to suffer from low self-esteem in their personal lives.

The current situation of women in society :

Women have a long and difficult history in society. "Women- what are they good for?  Sitting at home, being quiet, obeying their husbands.  Right?" Wrong! Women have been fighting the fight to break out of this mold for a long time now and it's about time that we recognize them as equals in society. It is not our place to tell someone how to live their life but it is our responsibility to educate ourselves on the lives of others so that we can be more accepting and less judgmental.

You can leverage your skills as an ally or mentor to show other women that they too have the right to pursue their dreams regardless of gender.  The best part? It doesn't require a big commitment from you- all it takes is a few minutes every day! So read on...

the reasons why women are hesitant to balance their work-life :

It's not an easy decision for any woman to make. The fear and hesitation that comes with balancing family, children or career can lead them down the path of self-doubt when there is no need at all!

She should take into account her own personal feelings on how much time apart would affect herself emotionally in order determine what will work best long term link.

In a recent survey, nearly 75% of working mothers said they felt guilty about not being able to balance their work-life. In the same study, only 34% of fathers felt that way. The reason for this imbalance is as follows: Women are typically expected to take on more household responsibilities than men and have less time to spend at work due to their obligations at home.

sometimes women are hesitant to try because they don't want to be seen as selfish. There's this whole idea of being a "good girl" who does everything for everyone else without ever taking care of themselves. And the worst part about it is that we're often not even aware of how much time we spend working on our jobs or doing errands or volunteering because it's just become so ingrained in our daily routine. But if you start thinking about what you could do differently, you might find yourself with more time to focus on your kids and your relationships--not only will those things thrive from the attention, but so will your career! So take some time today to yourself.

I'm sure you've heard the saying "you can't have it all." It's an adage that is repeated every time women want to pursue their career, start a family, or both. The idea that women are supposed to choose one or the other has been around since before feminism came into play. But times are changing and now there are more ways than ever for women to have it all-whether they're starting a family later in life or just looking for balance between work and family so they can be present with their children. Find out some strategies on how you can find your way back to balance without feeling overwhelmed by the pressures of being a woman in today's society.

You may have heard that you should "lean in" to your career, but what about leaning out? Women are often hesitant to balance their work-life. Working moms feel guilty and women without children fear the judgment of others and negative consequences. But there are many ways for women to overcome these fears and be successful at both balancing their personal life with a demanding career.

Here are some tips on how you can do it:

1- Be honest - Tell people why you aren't as available as before or that you need help from other family members or friends. This will make them more understanding of your situation.

2- Take care of yourself first - Make sure that if you're going to go through this tough time, then don't.

You need your family, friends, colleagues and even your boss to help you achieve balance in all aspects of life. But sometimes women are so focused on their career that they forget about everything else! You need balancing professional success with personal happiness .

3-Don't be too hard on yourself if you can't do it all - just try to do what makes sense given your circumstances at this time in your life

4-Do something every day that brings joy into your life - anything from watching TV to reading a book or taking care of the kids

5-Try not to compare yourself with others because everyone has different priorities when they have priorities.

The period of 25 to 35 years is a time of various changes in the life of a female because it is during this period that girls get married and later she has to take charge of a family and the process of family growth such as childbirth and motherhood.

Again this is the most suitable time to form a human career between the ages of 25 to 35 years. So first of all we have to understand that it is very difficult to balance these two aspects when it comes to females. So never take extra pressure, just make sure that nothing in the world is perfect and there is no possibility of being perfect in this case.

Ask yourself three questions whenever you are in doubt about your family, your career, and your child.

1-What is the priority list in my life? That is, what am I doing to please anyone? How happy am I with my own work?

2-The second is to have a crystal clear idea of ​​who the support system is behind me . Every human being has a support system behind their success like someone's husband is very supportive or someone's mother-in-law or someone's own parents but not everyone gets the same support in life. So be aware and have a clear idea about this. If you look at someone else your age who is doing a lot of things in life then you will only get frustrated. But if you think what you are doing for your life is right and the gap you are taking for your child or family is perfectly OK then you will be fine.

3-And last, the way we look at life. We usually see a career setup as a challenge because a career set means a life like a rocket. Everything in life is fine and smooth and everything will go perfectly as per my plan but this is not the case for everyone.

Author's message

I would say there is nothing to be disappointed about if your career falls as a woman because opportunities are never tied to a specific time. Opportunity can come at any time in your life. You just have to know how to grab that opportunity and if you can't build a career, I think raising a child is a big responsibility because you are building a nation and an ideal mother can build an ideal child. You need to define who or what your priority list is. Never let it define society. If you are 100% satisfied with taking care of your family and your child, then you must enjoy it. Never keep any guilt in yourself that I have not been able to do anything in my life. My studies have been ruined and my certificates have been useless. And if you are very optimistic about your career, you must try to achieve it and I think every family and society should give that opportunity to women who want to build their own careers and support them.

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