Hello everyone, Hope everybody on this site also had a great day! I want to share with you today some of my worst feelings that leave me alone in the world. I don't know if you will have the patience to read all my words.
Do we spend every day in the same way? I know it's never possible .The day we spend happily is the day we get a very comfortable sleep at night. But the day we have to spend with worst feelings or loneliness is annoying.
I know that a lot of you have been there. You're just going about your day, and then suddenly the world feels like it has fallen out from under you. The realization that nothing will ever get better creeps in, and all you want to do is curl up into a ball on your bed and never come back out again. I've been there too many times to count. I'm not talking about depression here. I'm talking about loneliness and Some of my worst feelings that leave me alone in the world.
The meaning of being alone in the world can be different for everyone. You wake up in the morning to find yourself all alone. You have no family, no friends and you are just another person on this world. What does it mean to be alone? To be vulnerable? To feel like you don't matter at all?
We all have a sense of what it means to be alone. To some being alone is being without friends, family or loved ones. For others it's not having anything they enjoy doing or any hobbies that can help them relax and find peace from the chaos in their life. But for many people loneliness is different than just being by yourself. It's a feeling of disconnection from others and the world around you, as if there isn't anyone out there who truly understands you or cares about you at all. And this sense of isolation is taking an enormous toll on our mental health because we're human beings with inherent needs to connect with other people - something which makes us feel complete inside and happy overall - But when those connections are denied we find our own existence.
Why do people feel like they are alone in the world :
We all have a tendency to feel alone. Some of us worse than others, but we all feel it at some point or another. Why is this? One reason might be because we are so used to being around people and their souls that when they disappear from our lives, we don't know how to function without them! We need those connections in order to thrive as individuals. Another possibility is that deep down inside, there's a part of you that feels empty and incomplete even if you're surrounded by people who love you unconditionally.
I know I feel this way sometimes. I’ll wake up feeling like the world has passed me by, not realizing that it is just my perspective. The little things in life are what really matter, so why do we get so caught up with the bigger things? It’s important to take a step back every once in awhile and be grateful for all of the good stuff that surrounds us. We can't control everything but we can try to make our lives better one decision at a time - don't you think?
My worst feelings
I used to feel very lonely as a child, when my mother could not give me much time. Because I have another older sister. My sister is older than me. I almost thought then that there is no one to listen to me I am alone in the world even my mother does not understand me .
In fact, this is not the case. All children are equal to their parents. We think like this when we feel that we are not getting enough response from our parents. But as time went on I saw that my idea was wrong, because my mother used to give me a lot of time when I went from school to college. Mom wanted to know what I was doing every day. In a word, my mother was my best friend. I used to share everything with my mother because my mother never showed me strict parental rules. That's why I never needed to hide anything from her . But when my mother died I felt alone in this world .How everything changed in an instant. I gave up hope of surviving because I thought I would die in a few days because I could not accept the pain .At that time it seemed that death was the only easy solution for me rather than living alone on earth. But where? Death did not come to me! Time passed and the wounds gradually healed. I realized that time changes people a lot.
Everything in the world is not what we want it to be. There are some things that are predetermined. Created before the Creator and we must continue to do so. But there are some things that we can change in our actions and our efforts.
I still feel lonely sometimes when I get neglected from someone very dear.
When a lot of problems in life come together and attack me and I can't find any solution to these problems. When I can't talk to anyone about my problems .Then I feel very alone.
When a hand of dependence does not come forward towards me but I am very dependent on it, I feel very unlucky which leaves me alone.
I feel very alone when everyone around me pretends to be my very own people and they play the role of the most unfamiliar people in my need.
When my children crave something from me and I am unable to give it to them, I feel helpless which makes me feel alone in the world.
I know we are all alone in the world and we have to fight our own struggles but still a hand of trust a shoulder of trust we all expect.
I don't know how to get rid of that "I alone" inside me ?But we have to fight it, that's the reality, and the sooner we accept these realities, the easier life will be .Although easy to say but difficult to implement.
But life does not stop. Whether you like it or not, loneliness will be like a shadow with us and we have to accept it. But the point is, to make life meaningful, you must live in a meaningful way.
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Original content by @sj0820
First of all: all children are NOT equal to their parents either are they to teachers, grandparents, neighbours. As a child, I experienced that and as a (foster)parent too. Children are individuals and have different needs. Parents are not able to fulfil every child's needs, wishes, to care in the same way.
As you said yourself loneliness comes if we feel not connected to others. In which way doesn't matter. Some are fine with a chat with a stranger, others need more. Children growing up with social media and a smartphone attached in their hand will do better than those who grew up without internet, computer and phone.
The worst loneliness is felt if you are surrounded by people, family, friends and there's no connection. Many feel this loneliness and family and friends can do nothing about it.