This behavior has been natural to other people. They can start a gossip without confirming your side. They say a lot of words before they ask first. This people who criticize you not knowing your side and you've been through.
Such Judgemental they talk trash, because they are bored. They find something on social media or about you and start a small talk. A small talk that can hear by ears a large as elephant and spread them In a wrong way as they put some words of there own version.
There is a show that has a segment: Don't be Judgemental. They made the segment of that show not to judge but make other realize. What this kind of people is facing.
In some part of the show. You will feel the sadness and vain of that person opening up to the public, opening up the paid he been through. That will make you cry. It's not like everyone can be as brave as them. Us they may know that they might be judge deep down by those who Watch them . Let's be honest in everything we got a SAY. We always say something in everything even a food that your mother does for you. If it's salty you'll " it's too salty mother" even may see worst than that. I'll leave that there because I can say A lot of things about that kind of behavior.
And Yes this is True. Don't deny it. We tend to judge something that we are as well. Is it call a self defense mechanism or a mental health. This is will be another article.
So Don't Judge as both side has it's own test and own pain. The best way is too ask them " How are you " "How was your day" and other as you may help someone who may face this called depression.
true we must not judge others especially on his or her outward appearance. beauty is in the eye of our Creator who is God.