I am a mom too and I know how it feels to hurt your kids.
I know the pain after hitting them.
and when you realize what you did is wrong we are in denial.
deep inside they are questioning what you did.
they have these feelings of being unloved or unworthy even if theyre just kids
they understand yet they can express nor tell what they really feel.
they will just have this "sama ng loob" towards you.it's hard to avoid not hitting them even if we know that hitting kids won't make them stop from what they want to do. I got these 3 yrs old boy that is energetic you'll be tired playing with him around and you'll the first to surrender in the game. he does whatever he pleased because he is a kid.
Yes, he can understand small commands and follow them. but he will never understand why he needs to stop playing. he got this question in his mind" why do I need to stop ?" can we explain why he needs to stop? and can he understand?. we may say "you're tired" and he will say "no I am not" or we may say "stop already" but he won't listen because the question in his head is "why do I need to stop?".
even if we say stop or I will hit you. they will laugh together and continue playing. a kid's mind can understand small commands but not what we really mean. they will only stop when they felt at sleep.
I am a mother but I still hate noise sometimes especially when I am working. to avoid them being hate I give them to their grandparents and pick them up when I am done to my work and play with them. I hate hatting them as much as possible I don't and I let them be kids play all along.
when they laugh it makes me smile. yes, they relieve my stress they do anything and they laugh in small things watching them make me laugh also. and I am a mother of these two playful kids and I do my best to take care of them to avoid accidents or being sick because, in the end, I am going crazy seeing them at that state.
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