"When Love and Hate Collide!"

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They say, "We deserve to love and be loved." Well then, are you willing to love someone even if you become his/her the other one? What if it came to the point that you are the one who will provide for his/her family? Are you willing to become martyr because of that love you felt for him/her? Or will you choose to let go of that love even if it will be hard for you to do so, and accept that kind of love can't work out anymore?

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Hello there my read.cash family!β˜ΊοΈπŸ‘‹How are you doin'? How's life in the midst of pandemic? How about your health and financial statuses? I hope you still make your days productive as it is despite the situation.

Yay! Its Friday again! Friday night-out again! (Ohh, "Sanaol" may friday flyday night-out.HeheXD) What are your plans for today fellas? Hmm...Just don't forget to take good care of yourselves, huh! Anyways, for today's article, let me share a story based on a radio drama I've heard recently. Well, you know, in times like this, I don't have a particular topic to write on about my personal life, so as for today, this piece will be worked out of personal thoughts regarding the issues currently happened in the society.

Did you experienced to become an ex-girlfriend or ex-boyfriend? Or do you have it? To make it clearer, let me tell you the story...

--->(I renamed the characters of this story!!! Riza is the letter sender.)<---

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Riza is currently working as an OFW in Qatar. She is a single mom. And the reason why she decided to work abroad is because of her two daughter. As what she said, she wants them to have a good future, that is why, even it is hard to be far away from them, she will endured it. So, she left her daughters in the care of her mother.

Riza had a long time ex-boyfriend but now married and have his own family. He's name is Cesar. Riza and Cesar still have a communication thru skype or video calls. As for Cesar, he is working as an office staff.

Every now and then, both of them had a talk, especially during break times, even at night. As for Cesar's wife, they had a conflict, that is why, as what Cesar said in their video call, his wife went to their province temporarily to have a peace of mind.

Unknowingly, Riza said that she still have a feelings for Cesar. Cesar was shocked to know the truth coming from her ex-girlfriend before, that was Riza. He also said to Riza that he still love her. (Hay naku! May mauuto na naman!) And after that revelations, they began to have a relationship. Let me say, "A Forbidden Relationship!"

Riza decided to have a two-months vacation in the Philippines. Given the fact that she missed her daughters so much, this is also the chance for her and Cesar to meet each other again. So, Riza and Cesar really met each other. They exchanges hi-hello and eat together and spent the night together, even though it was not right. Riza became Cesar's mistress. But as for Riza, at that time, she thought that it was right, as long as, no one could discover it, especially their both families. They met each other secretly.

After two months of vacation, Riza went back to Qatar and had signed a new contract. Months later, she noticed that she didn't have her monthly visit.(Period. Lol.XD) And with that, she then thought that she was pregnant. At first, she didn't informed Cesar about her situation. But Cesar did noticed that something was wrong because everytime he asked for a photo of Riza, she just sent to him a half-body picture. Cesar forced her to tell the truth. So Riza did.

One time, as what Riza stated, she sent Cesar some money because Cesar asked her. She sent Php 15, 000 without informing her family about it. She even gave Cesar a monthly allowance. (May T-A-N-G-A na naman) Riza has a co-worker named Letty. As a good friend, Letty forced her to stop doing it because she noticed that Cesar was just using her. She even let Riza looked at their Cesar's Facebook posts with a caption, "feeling blessed" and with a photo of his family went on shopping. But Riza insisted that Cesar's wife kept his ATM card.

One time, Riza asked Cesar to planned about their upcoming baby. She asked if Cesar could take care of it, because she want to sent the baby in the Philippines after she give birth. Cesar on his side, planned that they should just let his Uncle who was in Dumaguete at that to take care of it, and let him be his father, as is, so that they can avoid any conflict in both families because of the issue. Cesar's Uncle agreed to it, as long as they will provide for the needs of the child. But it turns out that Riza was just given a high hopes. She expected that everything was already settled.

Riza asked Cesar about it, but it feels like Cesar doesn't care anymore. One time, she confronted Cesar and they came to the point that they have a very serious conflict by exchanging hurtful words.

Riza:

"That's the only thing I've been asking for you Cesar but you can't do it."

"I gave everything you want and everything you need."

"I even provided for your family because I understand your situation, but why you can't do this thing that I've been asking for you?"

Cesar:

"So now, you are counting all the things you have done for me, huh?"

"Don't worry, I will paid everything you have given to me! Every cents!"

Riza:

"Its not what you think Cesar!"

"This is our child!"

"And I thought, I could lend on you for this, but it turns out, I can't!"

"You are just letting me handle the situation."

"And you know what, let me clear to you, from this day onward, I will never ever let you be part of my life."

"You can never be the father of this child Cesar!"

"You don't deserve to be!"

Riza blocked him on all of her social media accounts, and even in her contacts. As for Cesar, as what Letty said to her, he asked about Riza's contact informations but Letty was asked by Riza not to give it to him. So as for Letty, she just followed Riza's request.

Riza decided to informed her family about the situation and unfortunately, she was accepted and forgiven, especially with her two daughters. And then, at last, Riza realized that she don't need a man in her life. That she can go on with life even without it. She have her family to lend on, and support her all throughout.

The end...

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Well, Riza did her best to let go of that love. Provided the fact that she was eaten by her hate and anger because of what Cesar did to her, I must say, it the right choice and I am proud to her that even if she was then tempted by becoming a mistress, but at the end, she found her way out and see the brighter side of life. She has a reason to strive in life now, her FAMILY. Her children, that soon to be three. ^_^

I just realized that, Love really requires a lot of patience too. "Aigoo! Ang dami talagang nagiging marupok pagdating sa Love, noh?" How about you fellas? What will you do if you will be in a situation the same as Riza's? Would you mind sharing it in the comment section?

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I think we can all make mistakes and sometimes choose badly, but Riza realized her mistake and that she doesn't need a man to get ahead

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2 years ago

Yes dear.. I am glad to know also that at the end, Riza had realized her mistake and decided to go on with her life even without a man to rely on.

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2 years ago

Nagmahal lang sya pero s amaling tao pa aigooo. But well, maganda na rin ang nangyari. Nay 2 daughter na sya di naman na siguro nya need ng lalaki sa buhay.

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2 years ago

May 2 daughters na, may paparating pa'ng isa pa. At yun yung bunga nang pagmamahalan daw nila ni Cesar sa maling panahon at pagkakataon marengs.. Hehe

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2 years ago

Wa jud lagi'y maayung padulngan kung mahimong kabit mamsh no? Kay kung magkinaunsa wa man juy dag-anan. Then ang mas sakit pa jud kaayu kay ang mag-antus ang mga bata. Mabully man jud sila.

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2 years ago

Lagi mamsh.. Lisod jud na kaajo, especially na sa part sa bata kay sila jud ang magrabehan pag-abot sa panahon...

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2 years ago

There is a saying that says "Hate is also a kind of love and love is also a kind of hate" these things confuse me lol.. am glad She realized her mistakes at the end

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2 years ago

I am confused with that saying too my friend..Heheh.. But yeah, gladly, Riza did realized what she did was all wrong.

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2 years ago

Hay!naaawa ako kay Riza at the same time may blessings din naman sa kanya yung naging tatlo yung anak niya , at sa ngayon dapat mag fucos nalang siya sa anak huwag na muna lovelife kasi parang hindi pa dumating yung para sa kanya talaga.

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2 years ago

Oo sis. Kahit ganun pa ang nangyari, at least ngayon may rason pa rin siya para ipagpatuloy ang buhay niya. At yun ang mga anak niya..

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2 years ago

Hay naku, samoka jud anang mag ex. Basta ex gani ex na dapat di na ibalik ang kagahapon nga feelings πŸ€žπŸ™ŠAy sorry sis, nadala lang ko sa storya

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2 years ago

Hahaha.. Okay lang yan sis. I feel you..πŸ˜…

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2 years ago

Kaya maraming nagpapatulfo na mag ex eh..hahaha... yung padala ngnpadala yung isa habang hindi naman pala seryoso sa kanya yung isa..in short, ginagamit at pineperahan lang sya..

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2 years ago

Jusmiyo sis. Korek.. Ang nakaloka pa is, hindi talaga natigil pangangwarta hangga't dili pa mauubosan yung tagabigay.. Hehe

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2 years ago

Korek..mga walang konsensya ay

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2 years ago

Nahh.. Sinabi mo pa...

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2 years ago

Daebak. Pang novel title plng haha.

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2 years ago

Nayss...Hehe, Thank you Ms. Jane.❀️

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2 years ago

Owwww... Ex is ex na kasi πŸ˜‚. Coward man as I should say. I hate man who let his own child and mother of the child suffers.. hmm wait parang nagiging marites kana Teacher huh. Hahahaha

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2 years ago

Hahaha.. Inaamin ko naman yun sir Eunoia..πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚ Wala lang ako'ng maisip na isulat kasi..

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2 years ago

Martyr to be called. Well sometimes we cannot blame riza because she might be poisoned by her feelings. Remember, feelings is dangerous walang pinipili yan eh

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2 years ago

Korek sis.. Kaya talaga, mag-ingat kasi, nakakalito na nakakabobo yung feelings..πŸ˜‚

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2 years ago

Very true sisπŸ˜‚ Minsan na rin akong naloko sa feelings na yan which is nging martyr. Pro thankful ghpn ky it makes me a better person today. Naa jd time nga e test sa sitwasyon. Charrr ahhaha btw tinuod jd na.

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2 years ago

At least naman may natutunan na lesson/s, dahil dun..

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2 years ago

Oo thankful dn nmn sis

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2 years ago

Kapag Kasi Alam ng Mali wag na ipilit Kasi kahit kelan hindi magiging Tama Yung Mali. Naranasan ko ng parang maging kabit before kaya alam ko feeling 🀣

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2 years ago

Hehehe.. Buti na lang "parang" lang yun Ms Yen at hindi naging totoo.. Pero yung iba din naman, di natin masisisi din, love nga daw eh' sabi nila..

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2 years ago

Ang rupok ni Riza mura sigurog Piolo ug nawng si Cesar hahaha pero atleast nakarealize na siya sa iyang actions.

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2 years ago

Hahaha.. Basi sa iyahang description sa hitsura ni Cesar, gwapo gyud daw siya. Ay dahh, mag-unsa man lagi nang ka-gwapo ug way prubitso dong. Dili man na makabuhi nang hitsura, gawas na laman kung model..HAHAHA..

Hmm..Mao lagi, maju ra jud nga naka-realized ra pud sija sa kauwahian kay ug wa pa, nahh, dili na gyud ko maminaw ug love story sa radio.. HAHAHA

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2 years ago

That's a deep story. Love wins in the end. But sometimes you need to accept some harsh truth too.

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2 years ago

Yes mate. And that's the reality of love. Not all the time, love is happiness, but there are really times that love also bound to give you hardships..

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2 years ago

I'm glad that Riza realized her mistakes. In the first place, dapat wala gayud niya patuli kay sa una palang mistress na siya. Dakong sala gayud. Pero love is blind baya mamsh basta gugmahan ka wala nakay time maghuna-huna kung sakto ba o dili.

Naa gayud mga tendencies nga mga inana mamsh nuh. Dili mawala. Depende nalang gayud nas tawo. Both of them naay mistakes mamsh. Pero happy ko kay nag change na si Riza then narealize niya ang tanan.

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2 years ago

Mao lagi mamsh.. As in, gihuman gyud nako ug paminaw iyahang story kay, giganahan jud ko sa flow pud ba. Then wa gyud masayang pud ahung time kay nindot jud pud ang ending.

Despite sa sala nga nabuhat ni Riza, God bless her pa gihapon ug sa kauwahian natagaan pa jud gihapon sija ug way para maputol na ang sayop ug ipadayon ang kinabuhi bisan pa man, nawa na ang gugma nga iyahang gitipigan para ni Cesar..

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2 years ago

Oo mamsh nindot sad iya ending kay na realize niya ang then nag change na siya. Naa gayud lesson makuha. Mao gayud mamsh. Bisan mag kinaunsa dili gayud mu give up. Learn, change and continue to life parin.

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2 years ago

Ana man jud lagi dapat mamsh.. Pero parat lang jud nga suwayan jud ta's kinabuhi. Well, at the end, way kumo sa paghangyo sa Ginoo ug tabang, unsa pa na kalisod, andam jud na Siya sa kanunay, makita lang Niya ang sincerity ug effort.

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2 years ago

Yes mamsh. The words sincerity and effort mamsh mao gayud na dapat I apply sa atong self. Kung naa ta ana wala gayud imposible kay God.πŸ™

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2 years ago

Sakto mamsh..☺️☺️☺️

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2 years ago

Importante gayud kaayo mamsh...

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2 years ago

Kahit anung galit, mas mananaig padin ang love yeahhhh!

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2 years ago

Yun nga. Di na nga lang para sa kanilang dalawa. Nahanap ni Riza yung pagmamahal na best para sa kanya through her family, na laging nakasuporta sa kaniya..

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2 years ago

Love always win!

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2 years ago

Yes Ma'am..❀️❀️❀️

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2 years ago

My friend, you have discussed a beautiful thing, but love and hate, whatever it is, there is a little bit of love between them, because if love is to be fulfilled, all kinds of things have to be kept there. But yes, love is not fulfilled. Love must be more. There is very little place for hatred. Whatever you say about quarreling, it will remain. Because it is a means of expressing love.

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2 years ago

You said it right my friend. Even though Riza and Cesar have their right love, but sad to say, its in the wrong time. But, at the end, Riza did realized her mistakes and found her way out of it. She was indeed blessed even if she was once a mistress. The love of her family for her, fulfilled the love that she lost with Cesar.

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