"I allowed Myself to be Counted too!" [#68 Published on: August 12, 2021] New Challenge? Are you ready to join? or were you able to joined already? Me? This could be a bit late, for I focused myself in writing the short story that I published in here in the previous days. `Check out amazing sponsors!❤️` `To` @tommyshelby `, thank you for being my newest sponsor. I am much pleased with your kindness and generosity.` Before anything else, I want to greet each and everyone of you, ***"Good day!"*** I hoped you are happy and in a good mood today. I just then want to apologized to you for my late responses/replies in the previous days, its because of poor Internet Connection in our place. Please do understand!🙇♀️ (Hoping for that!) What's really with this challenge thing I've mentioned? Hmmm, well, its all about this random generated questions in this site; https://www.mantelligence.com/relationship-questions/ I already read some of the other users article regarding this challenge, like the others, it got my attention and interest too. So, without any further ado, allow me to answer and share with you the random questions which I personally picked out...
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-Personally, I wanted to have a simple celebration with my partner, MGD. Though I want to make it extra special for the both of us, for me, making it simpler will allow us to make it memorable, in the sense that, we can just make out the best in it, especially when it comes to its financial matters. Now a days, I think more about being practical and I also allowed myself to be initiative. I don't think about it as a burden to him thou, but I want also to do my part in our relationship, especially when we talked about surprises. Special days, like Special Holidays, Valentines day, Monthsaries, Anniversaries, even our Birthdays, I want to spend these days with him where he can feel that he is special to me and he was truly love by me! ________________________
-In this question, well, not all the time, MGD and I were together. Having a bad day is inevitable. But, as for MGD, everytime I had my mood swings, or simply a bad day, I want him to comfort me through chats and video calls. And there also times, that I don't want to bother him, the reason why I just handle the situation by own, to the extent that I sometimes get mad at him. (I'm sorry dadhie) Controlling my temper also is a bit hard for me, but I definitely do the best that I can to be able to handle this temperament accordingly. And bottom line, either the two options will do. ________________________
-Its depends in the situation/s. Sometimes, there were instances that only our partners can understand that matter/s. As for me, if only I understand my partner, I will always say, "I understand you dhie," because I wanted him to feel that he has someone where he can rely on, and always count on. In our relationship also, I always want to build a "Give-and-Take" kind of relationship and do set some boundaries too, especially when some matters just needed us, personally to handle. ________________________
-As what it says, "Couples aren't always together 24/7." For MGD and I, its really a crucial thing in our relationship, in which we need to really have to balance the "not enough time and too much." And to really answer, both too options makes me happy in our relationship. The excitement and thrill, especially when MGD visited me at home, really gives me much happiness. I can't thank him enough for doing such efforts for me. Even though he had a work, he still give me some of his time, both in our virtual world and personal. ________________________
-Well, the moment I said "Yes" to MGD, I already considered him not just a Lover but also my best friend. Not the literal thing about being best friends thou. There where still a lot of times that I don't want to be a bother to him. Yes! He's my boyfriend, but we also have an off limits in our relationship. The mere fact that both of you should be build a solid bond for each other, being a best friends and lovers are important for you to also build a support system for each other. ________________________
-Both will do. Its not about where are you together, its about being together. I am not the type of girlfriend that forcing my partner to be in this or that place. I'd rather let him do the thing of asking me out. But, honestly, I sometimes persuaded him to go in the place which I really like to go to. And I'm very pleased and thankful, especially when he agrees with me. ________________________
-If time will come for him to propose to me, I prefer that he do it publicly. I want him to let my parents, relatives, and even my close friends to know about it, because being in that situation is one of my dreams. Lol. It was actually not necessary thou, but I want to feel that he is proud of me, being the one to be propose of. I know some of here, want to have it in private, but that's my preference. ________________________ That's all for now fellas. Actually, I want to answer more of it, because I'm having fun, but I just set my time to be this far. I don't want to bother you more, especially because you're spending much of your time for reading my piece. Bye bye for now!👋 __________**&&&&**__________ I want to challenge my cousin @Mimosa08 do this too, hope you will join us sisteret cousin.😉 __________**&&&&**__________
Thank you for reading my fam!📖 God is good, all the time!😇 "No Hate, Just Love!"❤️
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I wish I could have partner too hahaha, that's nice, it's important in relationships that there's a give and take process, don't let one you took the entire responsibilities. For an instance, your bf wanna treat you in a cinema, the one will buy the ticket and the one will buy popcorn. I wish a happy ending for both of you, were waiting for wedding and 10 kids.😆😅
ahahah.. Give and Take nga dong.. Hmmm.. Magkakaroon ka din, hintay² lang, bata ka pa naman...Explore mo muna ang ganda nang mundo at tyaka enjoy muna ang pagiging binatilyo.. Hihi.. Yung 1 bch mo ha..😅😂 Just kidding!.. grabe naman yung 10 kids haha..😂
medyo 1 year from now kayo magpakasal ate hahaha wala pa ako 1 BCH😆😆😆kelangan ko pa magsulat ng 1000 na article pra makaabot doon.😆😆
parang ganun din naman yung mangyayari kasi dong..hahaha😅 Ako din, gusto ko din makaabot dun, palaki nang palaki yung bch na..☺️
Congrats sissy sa sweet nga relasyon🥰maghuwat me sa kasal soon😊💖😍
hahaha.. Salamat sis..❤️ Hihi.. wala pa man lagi sis, naghuwat pa ko sa iyahang next nga move..😅
Sagdi lang sis adto na padung pohon😍
In God's time sis..😇😌
Ang swerte mo naman sa MGD mo, ga! Sana hindi siya magbago hihi. Totoo, hindi naman mahalaga kung nasan kayo ang mahalaga is yung masaya kayo pag magkasama kayo. Also, give and take talaga is really important in relationship. Hindi naman pwedeng give lang ng give yung isa then take ng take yung isa. Hindi magandang tingnan. Hahaha. Anyways, ang sweet niyo! 😁
Oo nga langga eh, sana nga hindi siya magbago paglipas nang maraming taon nang pagiging kami..😌 Hmm.. Tama ka dyan ga, hindi talaga siya magandang tingnan, at tyaka ayaw ko din yung ganun sa relasyon, nahihiya kasi ako pag ganun, tas di pa naman kami kasal din.. hmmm..Thank you langga..❤️😍
Nakakahiya naman nga talaga ga pag laging ganon hihi. Kailan ba kasal? Haha. You're welcome.
baka sa susunod na taon pa langga.. Hindi ko alam eh' pero yun yung napag-usapan namin..hihi😅 di pa din naman sure yun.
Ay nalalapit na rin pala ga, kahit di pa sure.
hihi.. Mas maganda talaga din na before yun mangyari, eh' pasok na ako sa DepEd para stable na kumbaga ba langga..☺️
Ayan mas better din. Para makapag ipon muna para sa future babies. 😁
babies talaga langga..hihi😅 Pwede na sa'kin kahit isa lang..☺️
One of the secrets to build a strong relationship is to consider each one as your bestfriend and know that you are each other's support. Di kay mangitag laing bestfriend mamshy no? Ja baji pa jod. Haha arang ka wrong na para naho
hahaha.. Nahh.. kinsa ba'y ingnon nimo mamsh uie, sauna nga suod jud baja si MGD sa laing mga baje, maong muandar pud ag pagkaselosa ni madam..hahaha.. Sungot sa buot, arang ka very wrong jud mamshy..😂😅
Mao lge oy. Sungot bija mamsh no? Bisan pag ingnon na arang suora na nila daan usa nagka kamo. Wa naman kha ron?
nahh.. sungot mulang.. Kalami gajud sabunutan sa baje uie, samut na'g pilingon pud..hahaha 😅😂
Hahaha korek naa jod bitaw pod mga baji ingana bisan kahibaw nag naay uyab di mo distansya
Lami.a jud tuk.on nang ing ana bitaw mamsh.. hahaha Kung eskandalosa pa lang jud, ahw.. Mauwawan jud ming duha..😅😂
You two look good together :)
Thank you Ma'am..❤️😍 hihi..
you're welcome, ren
Ang bait niyo po talaga sa'kin Ma'am..hihi 😍❤️
Xoxoxo
Hmmm..😍❤️🥰 lablab..❤️❤️❤️
The best gyud nga makakita tag both frienship and love sa isa ka tawo ay. 💗 Stay strong mo mamsh! 😉
Bitaw mamsh uie.. hihi.. Thankful ug feeling blessed kaayo ko nga naa ko'y ing.ana, bisan dili pud mi permi mag-uban ug naa pu'y mga instances nga mag-away mi..
Bagay po kayo ng MGD mo☺️ Sana kami din ng bf ko pwede na gumala ng walang nagagalit. 1 month nalang 5 years na kami pero pinapagalitan pa din kapag gumala ng kami lang. I'm already 22 and 25 na siya sa December. It's ironic right?! Parang mga bata lang kung tratuhin.
hihi.. Salamat sis.. Yung parents ko naman, strict sila, pero ina.allowed naman kami gumala, minsan nga ginagabi na kami umuwi..😅 mag 23 naman ako ngayong October din siya 24 na.. Hmm.. Baka naman kasi nag-aalala lang din sila para sa inyo..
Siguro kung andito pa parents ko papayagan kami gumala dalawa pero iba na kase kapag nasa grandparent ka. You know sis, iba pananaw nila.
Sana all nllng ako.. Pro kamukha mo yung visor namin sa second job ko
hihi.. Baka kakambal ko yun Ms.Jane ..😅 Pero ang sabi daw may 7 tayo na kamukha sa mundo.. Hindi ko alam kung totoo ba yun..
Sana ol may dadhie....happy for you sis,keep the love on fire...
hihi.. Maraming salamat sis..❤️😍
Yeeey! Sumali na din ang peyborit kong couple. Snaol 🤗. Bagay na bagay eh.
haha.. Favorite jud sis.. Pero bitaw, Thank kaayo sis.. ❤️😍 lablab..
ung num 22 ate samee HAHAHAH dikosya finoforce,basta kung san nya gusto o san sya komportable go lang sya
hihi..ayaw na mamili basta kung ano yung trip be..😅
Nice po, you look good together. Stay strong both and long live!
Thank you be..❤️🥰
I hope that kind of relationship will last long ☺️
Sana nga po..😌 Well, si Lord lang nakakaalam nun sis..😇
I also prefer simple celebration para practical. Mao raman gihapon importante kamong duha man. Yieeee
Gajud Manoy.. Unya na nang mga bongga² ug daghan na'y ikagasto, mao ra gihapon.. After sa laag² ug kaon² sa mahalon nga kan.anan, maghuna.huna ra's gastos..hahah😂
I will definitely go out for a date 🐱
You don't have to worry about it naman sir Cine. You do have enough money and all to go out for a date..😁
public proposal it is indeed! i am glad that you are balancing out your time together! keep the love burning!
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