Long Lasting Relationship; How to Have it?

Published on: 01|25|2022-6:55PM

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Its been a while since the last time that I published an article regarding my status. I mean, my relationship status. Some of you here, already knew that I was currently engaged to MGD. Its almost four months then, when he proposed to me in my 23rd Birthday Celebration. I still can't believe that I came to this part of my life, where I experienced something like this. Well, obviously, I expected that sooner or later he will then do this thing, because we are in a relationship for six years and four months already.

"How did we make it?" And, "how to have it?"

In my previous articles, I already shared some parts of our love story. ("Sana-all ba?") I shared the things we've been through, from our arguments, our sweet moments together, our dates, almost all about us. So, what's the point of writing this one? Hmm, "Wala lang, trip ko lang." Kidding Aside. Well, actually, I just realized that I was changed. What I mean is that, the thing of getting tired in a relationship, especially when I experience betrayals and heartaches before I met MGD in college. Not to brag, MGD is the 9th boyfriend I've got. "Hindi pa kasama yung mga ka-flirt ko ha." Hehe. Don't judge me. Hmm.. The thing was that, whenever I'm in a relationship before MGD, I easily get bored or tired and in addition to that, I have this kind of attitude that I easily get jealous. Before him, I just chose to end up my relationships instead of hurting myself and allowing myself to be suffocated with that kind of feeling. And more than that, I realized, "some people that came to our lives, are not meant to stay for long, they will just stay for a while and give us a lesson."

After all the heartaches I've got before MGD came into my life, I promised myself that when someone will be sent by God to me, he should be the last. Honestly, I never expected that our relationship will come this far, because as for some of you here, you know that I somewhat like cheated on him. He does the same, but up until now, he kept on denying that. ("Matagal naman na yun.") We also decided to end our relationship, but at the days gone by, we eventually make it work again.

Did I get tired?

Yes! Of course. I'm just a human being. I came to the point that I just want to end this. "Yung wala na talagang balikan." But I also think about all the things we've been through. Relationship is not just about sweet embraces and happy moments. Intentional or not, all I can say is that, "part na sa isang relasyon yung hindi pagkakaintindihan, selosan, bangayan, o ano pa mang klaseng misunderstandings. At ito yung magiging paraan para tumatag pa lalo ang isang relasyon. Only if you two will make it work though. I mean, you became partners. And as partners, you should face the trials together. Don't just let your partner face the problems in your relationship, alone. Well, let me ask, "why did you really get tired?" Dahil ba may kulang? Or Is it because, you are not contented anymore?

Being contented has also a big role to have a long lasting relationship. Kasi kung hindi ka makukuntento, mananatili ka pa ba sa relasyon niyo? Same goes with patience. If you don't have the patience towards your partner, why just set yourself free. Don't suffocate yourself. Another thing, "Don't change the person for the sake of self-convenience." In some cases, I also have an issue regarding this one.

I used to wear shorts. Some people mistakenly identified me as a "Tomboy" or "Tibo". Well, I don't care, it makes me comfortable. And when MGD became my boyfriend, he didn't allowed me to wear shorts anymore, especially when going outside. At first, I really got mad at him. But eventually, I learned and used to wear pants or joggers. I rarely wear shorts now. I then realized why he did that. But, "if you love the person, don't change him/her, let him/her changed for you." MGD may do thing/things to change what I used to do, I then see to it that its for the betterment of myself, and not to the point that I will just become a so-called, "Sunod-sunoran." (Ano siya sinuswerte? Haha.XD)

If you will ask if there is a secret. I bet, no. Nothing! "Its up to you." The decision and choice is yours. Whether you want to end it or work for it and fight for it to make it last.

That's it for this blog my read.cash fam. Thank you for spending your time today. I probably make an entry too early for Valentines, but I just don't have other topics to write on. Hehe..

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