July 03, 2021
Not all the time that in a relationship, you are just happy, there were also times that you will get hurt. But choosing to stay happy despite the struggles, will eventually healed up every little wounds in your heart.
Good day my read.fam!👋
Its renren16 again, for another story of life, love, and experiences. So for today, I would like to share some of the things I and MGD did to make our relationship to last.
Disclaimer: I am not a love expert, I am just sharing some of my thoughts about this topic.
So here it is...
Recently, our LDR (Long Distance Relationship) status gave us a bit more struggle for both of us. Todays pandemic adds more to it. When he visited me the last time, we only have 24 hours to be together. Struggle is real! But we chose to faced and fought it.
Things we commonly do to stay together as couple;
We make time for each other
~Time management was the solution. Upon working, we see to it that we give time for each other to communicate even just in chats or video calls. I took MGD's working schedules so that, I can adjust my time also while working at the house. At first it was a bit hard for me, because there were times that he had a vacant time but I wasn't able to have mine, especially if was late in the evening. And also because, we have a poor signal in our place and I was not permitted to go outside anymore, especially in the evening.
We try to understand each other's side
~ Not all the time, we both happy in love. Sometimes, we face challenges in our relationship. I would say, MGD had a lot patience than I. Especially, if I had a mood swings. I also had patience but not as much as his. There was one time that we had a fight, we almost came to the point of breaking it up, but at the end, we both set aside ou pride and chose to stay in our relationship together.
We avoid our partner to get jealous
~I must say, jealousy was the most crucial part in our relationship. I can honestly say, I easily get jealous when I felt that MGD was a bit close to some other girls. He does also. So, as a solution, we keep some distance from the people whom we get jealous of. I already told him about it. I'm just hoping that he's not doing something ugly. ("Tamang-Hinala"😅)
We tell each other's story
~ My MGD was currently facing some problems regarding his family. It was personal tho, so that's the only thing I want to let you know about. As his girlfriend, I see to it that I gave an extra time for him to talk about it. I do some ways to made him still comfortable and felt more loved by me, so that he can opened up more of it. I not saying, I wanted to know all of it, I am just curious about what happened. And vice versa.
We treasured every little moments
~The less time we spent together, the moments we've have together were more treasured. LDR status is not that easy. I was just lucky and thankful to have MGD because he exerted a lot of efforts to come visit me even he's place was farther to mine.
We made some surprises
~ I must say, I only have little surprises than him. Most of the time, MGD gave much surprises to me, especially when he visited me.
That's all for now fellas!☺️
There's a lot more to tell anyway, but as of now, I can't spoiled it out.🙈 I'm just too excited that he will probably visit me again today. hihi😁
All in all, just be happy in love!
Its not that easy tho, but the Choice is yours.💚
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