Sympathy Doesn't Mean Love

Everyone has an impression on others in various ways that make the heart fascinated by the admiration that other people have or do, sweet impressions will always be remembered and bring the heart to the beat with the heartbeat and a person's attitude changes like following the rhythm of music.

The impression that makes people sympathetic often occurs in terms of love, but sympathy is not the basis for someone to love but rather leads to respect.

Sympathy is often misunderstood so that many people are trapped and suffer from excessive expectations when receiving sympathy from someone.

When you send photos or posts on social media, of course, your followers will like and comment on them, maybe in your mind that they might like you because every time you share something interesting there is always a vote from him.

Then from here arises the feeling from you that he likes you, the longer the same case is repeated, the more distant the feelings of love that arise in you. This feeling will keep you trapped and you will sink into the rush of a broken heart.

Why i say this is a trap, because actually when someone sympathizes it doesn't necessarily mean that person likes it, because sympathy has its own purpose, contextually sympathy occurs for several reasons including.

• Someone who sees a shared post is attractive and pleasing to the eye.

• The post shared is of a general and non-specific character.

• Posts that are shared according to hobbies or preferences by someone who sees it, examples such as music, films, life style, sports etc.

• The posts that are shared are very unattractive, so there is compassion for voting or commenting.

• Reply to the kindness of the sender because they often comment and like their posts.

Of the above factors that are not taken into account by someone, so the heart that has fallen in love is only considered a good friend.

Don't assume more when someone sympathizes with you because he doesn't necessarily like you. because sympathy is not love but respect.

Sympathy tends to lead to a deep sense of compassion because of the attitude you once did, but to hope more for his love don't use sympathy as a weapon to conquer his heart.

sympathy for someone is a good action because it can make other people become enthusiastic or can change a person's attitude to be positive or also lift the confidence of others. but don't let the sympathy you give other people make them misunderstand it because they may think it is the love you are starting to give.

Not everyone is sensitive to things like this, only people who have experienced it will understand more than those who have not experienced it.

Dream higher when you receive sympathy from others then you will fall into a deep ocean. sympathy does not mean love.