Perfect Value Vs Convenience

Everyone strives to achieve the best performance to attract the attention of others by prioritizing stunning appearances so as to captivate the audience to witness the sensational action that affects the naked eye to turn right and left following the strains of footsteps so that the mouth produces words of praise for a beautiful and impressive appearance.

Many people say that judgments come from other people maybe this statement has truth because based on rational someone is only able to show something but can't you judge by your own performance? what about the mirror in your room isn't its purpose to be an object of self-assessment?

When you try to show your best, of course you will use various ways so that maximum performance gets perfect ratings from other people. In the world of competition, the most prominent thing is to take the attention of many people so that the value of your life is leveled up.

But sometimes maximum effort by obtaining perfect scores from other people is often not in accordance with the mood, meaning that the actions you take do not bring an atmosphere of comfort.

• When you see a gold ring of course you will use it with the aim of being noticed by others but the ring does not fit your finger or in other words the hole of this ring is smaller than your big finger but because you want to look prominent then you try wear it maybe many people will compliment you with the gold ring that is used.

• But are you comfortable with the torment of your finger because of the pain you feel?

• You want to look fashionable about the way you dress so decide to wear clothes or let's say super tight jeans and you wear them maybe when many people see your look they compliment the fashionable clothes you wear.

• But are you comfortable with super tight pants that make you torture to sit, legs and thighs feel tight and difficult to move?

• You want to have a boyfriend who is handsome or beautiful so you try to date him but in this relationship you spend so much when he asks you to buy all the necessities in his life, you may feel very pressured by the situation but on the other hand you like to show off your girlfriend to so many people that they praise you for having a beautiful or handsome boyfriend.

• Are you comfortable with this?

• When you go camping, your friends force you to walk with them for tens of kilometers, but actually you are not able to walk, but because you want to show that you are capable and do not want to be labeled as someone who is weak, you are forced to do it.

• How about this, does pretending make you comfortable?

• When you are asked by your parents to go take part in social activities by helping other people affected by disasters while you don't like doing this activity because you are not familiar with the social environment then you tell them not to follow it but apparently the community leader came over to ask you follow it because you feel embarrassed by the arrival of the leader so you follow the social service.

• Do you feel disturbed by this so that your heart is not comfortable doing social activities?

Those are some examples that often occur in life, sometimes life feels tormented by circumstances, but because you want to look tough, the pain and discomfort force yourself to smile when in fact you have been holding back the feeling to come out in a depressed state.

The element of compulsion often makes life tormented just because it wants to reap praise from others so that routine activities do not feel the wisdom because they have lied to themselves.