Love VS Self-Esteem
Loving someone is a life goal because in the end you will marry someone who has built a relationship with you during the sad and happy times in the journey of the love story that you have lived together. love comes from first sight and falls deep into the heart so that the romance of happiness will lead you to live together.
But love is not easy to understand because often love will be anchored to someone who is not the first love who has touched the heart and shared the love between two different people. when together, happiness is felt with the wrapping and warmth of an intimate hug and kiss, but when the love is gone, the heart feels like it is burning as if it were shattered into pieces.
You may have felt a breakup when you had to part with someone you love, it might be very hard to accept it, but this fact is what you have to face not just words but with self-respect. self-esteem is at stake when you have been left in love, you might think what will you do when you are dumped by your boyfriend?.
Are you going to ask him to come back?
Are you waiting for him to love you back?
Are you going to buy expensive things to get him back?
Are you going to keep chasing him even though he doesn't love you anymore?
Would you beg with pity that you couldn't live without him?
All of the questions above are ways that many people do to reverse a love that has gone or have you ever done the same way as the question above? this is the self-esteem gamble that love has created.
How much self-worth to you?
Is it just because your love will sacrifice your self-esteem?
Will your self-esteem be lost when love is gone?
I may not know all of your perspectives on issues like this, but for me self-respect is a fixed price in my life. love can go where it wants but pride will remain in my life because for me love that has gone means he is not my soul mate.
Stay away from people who disappoint you and stop pleasing people who don't appreciate you, the more you stay away from people who have poisoned your soul, the healthier you will appear.
No need to be a beggar of love because it only makes self-esteem will disappear. true love will come when you continue to struggle to find it and forget the love that has left you with an uncertain reason and don't accept it back with a million reasons from him to come back for you because you could be hurt a second time.
Learn to accept reality without having to hate the situation, your love is valuable but does not exceed your worth.
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Always put your happiness first!