Love VS Self-Esteem

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Loving someone is a life goal because in the end you will marry someone who has built a relationship with you during the sad and happy times in the journey of the love story that you have lived together. love comes from first sight and falls deep into the heart so that the romance of happiness will lead you to live together.

But love is not easy to understand because often love will be anchored to someone who is not the first love who has touched the heart and shared the love between two different people. when together, happiness is felt with the wrapping and warmth of an intimate hug and kiss, but when the love is gone, the heart feels like it is burning as if it were shattered into pieces.

You may have felt a breakup when you had to part with someone you love, it might be very hard to accept it, but this fact is what you have to face not just words but with self-respect. self-esteem is at stake when you have been left in love, you might think what will you do when you are dumped by your boyfriend?.

  • Are you going to ask him to come back?

  • Are you waiting for him to love you back?

  • Are you going to buy expensive things to get him back?

  • Are you going to keep chasing him even though he doesn't love you anymore?

  • Would you beg with pity that you couldn't live without him?

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All of the questions above are ways that many people do to reverse a love that has gone or have you ever done the same way as the question above? this is the self-esteem gamble that love has created.

  • How much self-worth to you?

  • Is it just because your love will sacrifice your self-esteem?

  • Will your self-esteem be lost when love is gone?

I may not know all of your perspectives on issues like this, but for me self-respect is a fixed price in my life. love can go where it wants but pride will remain in my life because for me love that has gone means he is not my soul mate.

Stay away from people who disappoint you and stop pleasing people who don't appreciate you, the more you stay away from people who have poisoned your soul, the healthier you will appear.

No need to be a beggar of love because it only makes self-esteem will disappear. true love will come when you continue to struggle to find it and forget the love that has left you with an uncertain reason and don't accept it back with a million reasons from him to come back for you because you could be hurt a second time.

Learn to accept reality without having to hate the situation, your love is valuable but does not exceed your worth.

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Always put your happiness first!

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2 years ago

that's the most important thing when we are happy there are certainly many positive ways that we will do for our next life. just let love pass because it is a lesson and don't come back to the same thing. Thank you friend

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2 years ago

"Stop pleasing people who don't appreciate you" this is gold, but I totally agree with you. Why choose to stay for something that put you into misery when we can be just all by ourselves and be happy and by giving our self more value

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2 years ago

My friend's recent words of truth have provided an accurate picture for an appropriate choice. maybe we have felt the bitter thing because we have sacrificed ourselves. right decision, thanks my new friend

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2 years ago

Thanks too for this amazing article

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2 years ago

only a positive rating from someone for an article that they think is useful, thank you for reading and understanding it may always be successful for you friends

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2 years ago

Yes pajeroz I agree. We can't please everybody. We shouldn't waste our time to the people who only give us pains or heartaches. We should have a self respect. We need to learn to let go and close the doors those people who make us cry and sad. We are the one who will suffer the pain. Don't be blind and don't let yourself prison the love which is not deserving for our love.

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2 years ago

very right thinking, self-respect is the main thing because self-esteem cannot be bought by anything because that's where we will know people who have integrity. thank you my beautiful friend

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2 years ago

Yes my friend. It's a weapon for ourselves. Thank you so much my friend. You're always welcome. ❤️🥰

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2 years ago

thank you also for this very supportive input because this support means a lot to me on this best platform

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You're always welcome my friend. I'm always here to support you. ❤️🥰

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