Single Coz Why Not?
September 19, 2022It's been a while since I publish my last article here. I am busy these past few days that is why I did not able to make articles. And I spend all my free time to have some rest.
Obviously, this article are for those who are single 😅, so let me start with my article now. 🙃
Yes, I know, you are still single right now. Lots of dating apps have been made and some says that not having a "jowa" is already a sin (lol. Just kidding)
For this time that all your friends are already in a relationship, all your taken friends pressure you to have one.
Being single is not a sin, it is your choice anyway or maybe some has no choice since no one is approaching them if they will gonna be courted.
Being single when you are now on your late 20's or early 30's is not a sin. You know what is more sinful?, from the moment that you entered into a relationship when you are still not ready. It is not right to force someone you love to love you back. It is not right to be in a relationship when you know that they are just having fun, or they just want to be in a relationship just because they just want it to, without any clear purpose about the future.
Everyone must keep in mind or I wish everyone has this on their mind that they should not date someone just because they want to have one but because they want it to last long, they want it to be long term or they can see their future to the person they are dating.
To all the person who is in a relationship that know someone who is single, please stop pressuring them to be in a relationship or stop asking them if why are they still single. You do not know what kind of pressure you are putting unto them with just that simple issue.
Some people may start questioning themselves if why is it that until now, no one still finds them attractive or no one still wants to court them.
Some single person out there will doubt themselves and will start questioning themselves if is there something wrong about them, or are they not beautiful enough to experience the joy of having someone in their life who loves them dearly.
You are what you are right now for a reason, the best way to avoid negativities is to ignore the fact that you are not in a relationship. You are already whole, so that you must not feel who are incomplete. Having a boyfriend / girlfriend will not completely complete you rather you must compliment each other.
There are lots of reason why people are still single and they are not required to explain to you one by one those reasons that they have but let me give you some ideas if why are they single now
1. They got no choice or maybe this is their choice - to stay single.
2. Maybe they've been hurt a lot with their recent relationshio and does not still have the courage to give love another shot.
3. Not yet ready / not their priority. Maybe they are still focused in their career that they want to be successful first before entering into a new relationship.
4. Maybe because their parents are strict enough that they still need to finish school before having a girlfriend / boyfriend (for those teenagers)
5. Some are still single because they still have a lot of responsibilities to be fulfilled in their family, in short they are breadwinner.
6. Some are still single maybe because they still do not know how to love, do the point that they can not aprreciate their own self. Because before you can love someone, you first should love yourself in order to give another person a love.
To all single out there, let's turn our singlehood in to something positive because being single is not negative. Give yourself this time to prepare yourself for the person that the Lord will give to you. Love yourself self, fix yourself, make sure you are whole agan. Your worth as a person should not be define by your singleness.
Stop comparing your single life to other couples. You are just making your situation worst or you will just end up hurting yourself if you continue to compare yourself to others.
Everything has its own perfect timing, learn to wait for your perfect timing.
Good things come to those who patiently waits. Never rush things, it makes waste. Learn to wait, wait and wait.
Taas kamay, selfff. Single ka diba? Hihi! Pero in my case naman, Ate is ready naman ako to be in a relationship coz sa tingin ko kaya ko naman na i-handle ang isang relationship. Sadyang wala lang nagtatangka pa, LOL. Meron pala pero puro palipad-hangin lang.
Di din strict sila Mama kasi they trust me enough naman. As of now, looking ako for jowa na may sasakyan at lisensya para may susundo sa'ken pag may classes. Chars~ para pala may taga-hatid kapag sa main campus ang class. 2-3 kilometers ang need lakarin eh, haha.