Not my usual kind of topic but...

July 12, 2022

Anyone who sees the all time favorite movie "Titanic" would surely cry watching one of the most heartbreaking scenes ever. The time when Rose let's go of Jack's hand to fulfill her promise and that is to live longer. For the GenZ I know some of you hadn't known that such movie existed. I've been crying buckets every time I watched this scene for the nth time.

Come back, come back, come back

Well, the scene is what's on my mind all day after seeing some clips on tiktok on how Rose did find courage to live in spite having no Jack in her life anymore and I somehow wants to connect it in my article.

This movie came to mind also as I and my co-worker were talking about standards. He said he wants a woman who have the same passion as his and also the one he can easily depend to, so I told him you should just love your Mum instead for you're still depending on her, I meant that as a joke but then he said his standard is his mom. Well, I can't argue with that as my Papz is also my standard.

Seriously, I'm at this age and all but I just didn't have the chance to meet the man with such standard personally. Not that standards matters why I'm still single, I'm single by choice and no doubt I have zero plans on upgrading my relationship status lol!!

He then ask me, if given the chance what are my standards when it comes to dating a man. Hmmmmmm. I can point on bits of it like

Loves Music and knows how to play instruments

I am mostly drawn to a person who knows how to play the guitar, Kim Young-so from the band Hoppipolla is one of them. I love how he strums his guitar and you can see how is such a pro. Mostly girls are drawn to guys who strums their guitar and can even sing. I, on the other side, just love watching them pluck their finger and you can feel how much emotions they put on the music their playing.

As I am a music lover, plus points for me if we have the same taste in music, like the genres and the singer and all.

God Fearing

Different religion don't matter to me as I mostly believe that we are all praising One God and there is no other. I am attracted to a person who have faith and worship God making Him the center of their life.

Family First

Of course, as a woman, we mostly prefer a man who loves and respects his family. I go mostly to those men whom are afraid of conflicts and respects his parents especially their mothers. A good brother to his siblings and to relatives.

Has sense of humor but also sweet

The one who can make me laugh even in simple gestures. I don't have humor in my system so at least one of us can lift the mood and can make the atmosphere lighter hehe.

Being clingy and sweet is fine for me as I'm like that whenever I'm at ease to the person I am with.

Knows EXO and like my bias as well

Knows EXO at least. I once had a fling and he knows kpop but loves another group and then we ended up fighting over whose best and whose more popular and wholesome and all. So when talking about it I want someone who knows my fave at least and just support me on my obsession over KAI. lol!!!

Bookworm

Or even just someone who loves reading any kind of books and can connect with me over some author even the non classifies ones. I like people who loves reading and would give reviews on some books and authors that they encountered the works at least.

Loves Harry and Dumbledore and A Hupplepuff

I admit that if I have the chance to study at Hogwartz I would love to be in the House of Hupplepuff. I admire Gryffindor because of Harry but that House seems to be popular and prone to be a mess same with the House of Slytherin and I'm a wizard who loves silence and peace. So if my imaginary man loves to be in that House too then we surely click hehehe.

Man, if he loves Harry Potter and Dumbledore more than I do then we surely would get along well.

Introvert/Ambivert

I am an introvert myself but I would love to have a companion who loves being isolated and also who loves being in the crows, but not the adventurous and aggressive type.

Surely this topic made me think for like hours on how I can finish it lol!!

It's really hard when you know yourself you're not looking for the standards but you can easily pinpoint some hahaha.

Anyways, thank you for reading!
@mommykim