@minimaus 26 October 2020 more from that month

Do you have phobias and from what? Do you have **phobias** and from what? We all know what a **phobia** is, these are fears that happen to us in early childhood. Even when we get scared at an age, fear can also occur. How to deal with that fear? I will write you my experience of how I got that fear, how I managed to overcome it? It was summer when I went with my sister, mother's parents, ie grandparents, with my uncle to the **river** ***Južna Morava***, to wash sheep's wool. When we finished that job, my grandparents went to the garden, my sister and I stayed with my uncle to swim in the river for a while, and he would fish a little higher.

I was small then, I was 7 years old, my sister was 10 years old. There were two of us left. to drown, watching my sister grow farther and farther away, I suddenly disappeared. At that moment I thought that she might not call for help, but I felt that my life was over, that my life was coming to an end, I felt the bottom of the river, all the stone. I will never forget that feeling, when you meet death, I saw it as a dark tunnel, where I pass and stood in front of some light, waiting for the door to open. At that moment I hear Branka,Brankica's uncle waking up, I feel some pressure on my chest, my uncle gave me help, artificial respiration and heart massage to make me vomit. I clearly remember that he called me, where my sister was crying, they called me , then I threw out all the **water**, I don't know where that water got in the body at all. I coughed a lot, my uncle and sister hugged me, they cry with happiness that I woke up, they thank God. not to mention, but simply to be forgotten. But I didn't forget, we just said last year, that my parents were in shock. From that moment, I was instilled with fear of water, especially by crossing bridges. To pass a car, the bridge to vibrate, my knees kneel. The only swim in the pool can come into play, like this river, lake no way, even if you went to the sea, I think you would just frolic in the shallows. My fear was crossing the bridge over the water, when I walk, I immediately start shaking, trembling that it’s something amazing. When we moved here in the new city, where there are bridges, pedestrian bridges. To go to the center or anywhere, I have to cross the bridge. Let's go, my husband and children, now we cross the pedestrian bridge, which is very small, very vibrating. Alas, I stood in the middle of the bridge and cried, crying. The children and the husband are dying of laughter, they think I'm fooling around. I barely got off, came home, cried. Since I needed to sort something out around some papers, I have to cross bridges, whatever. I realized I had to cross over. Maybe I'll stay here to live for the rest of my life. I have to adjust to this new way of life, no running away. So mic by mic, I realized it wasn’t that passionate, that bridges are bridges. So always look at some things, life is like a bridge. Everything happens, it vibrates, you tremble with fear, so I realized that as a person who is always worried, I am constantly thinking. Do not tear down bridges in yourself, towards life, health, towards loved ones, you never know what we will need that bridge for. That **life** has no replay, breathe with full lungs. Here, after 28 years, during my life, I come to some conclusions, some I only now understand, even now as I write this to you. For now, I am left with small phobias from heights and mice. I will write about it another time, because the atmosphere is a bit funny and funny. Because it was not for the price of my life. This phobia of water almost cost me **my life**, but on the same day and the same year, my cousin who was the same age as me, drowned in the river ****Južna Morava****, only about 10 km away from where we were. He knew how to swim, but he jumped off the bridge. There was his father, a neighbor. So when I heard it, I was very scared of the **water** and the bridges, of my drowning. So when I'm in trouble, a problem, I remember how my life ended. So I say to myself, God gave me life with reason, to fight, there is nothing unsolvable from death. I hope you enjoyed **my story**, which is really instinctive, nothing is made up. **Do you have a phobia, similar to my story?**

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