"It's okay for not being okay sometimes".

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2 years ago
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Article #92

September 21, 2022

Today is Wednesday and I am at this point of disappointment for so many reasons.I don't even think clearly when it started to feel like I am useless for all I've been doing I thought it was never enough for me to be happy and at peace of mind.

What should I need to do?

I am not like this before,positibo akong tao na lage kong ini angat ang sarili ko sa Lahat ng bagay. Though, sometimes it's very hard to pretend that I am strong and fine even though I was about to lose control. Im not usually a friendly person, I am contented with my life seems so boring sometimes. I have a family to look after rather than waste my time doing things useless to me like hanging out with other personalities. having such a feeling that I am all alone.

I have nothing but only myself, Kahit may mga mabibigat na problem sin solo ko lang mahirap pala pag wala kang mapagsasabihan ng mga hinanakit sa Puso. because you are afraid might get misunderstood.

You wake up one morning with a heavy heart and mind because you are still not getting over the heartaches you've been suffering and you have no choice but to let go of those pain because it kills you slowly and deliberately.

How do forget the pain?

Process everything slowly and intentionally by forgiving especially yourself. Every time we get to encounter some serious problem, we get easily blaming ourselves which is not good and unhealthy for our mindset that leads us to being bothered. Forgive first yourself and then you will find at peace you needed. I believe that pain is not easy to carry out because whether we like it or not this will be part of our life and its up to us on how to handle everything to live out on the dark side of the corner.

I am just pour out my emotions!

Sorry for being so silly at this time, Oww! by the way dont worry my dearest virtual friends,I am completely okay and in clear mind๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜“ feeling ko lang mag emote today palabas lang ng sama ng loob. Alam nyo na walang perpektong buhay and Im just carried away to burst out my worries. I dont want time will come I will explode like a bomb and out of control.

"Let's smile the problem and let the problem,problem our problem".๐Ÿ˜…

Im getting bored na mga friends while I was writing this article,nasa gilid ako ng kalsada kaninang alas 8 pa ng umaga sinundo yung anak ko nasa skwelahan tapos mag alas onse na wala pa,di man lang nag abiso ng maaga ang guro hayss.alanganin pang umuwi ehh malayo pa naman bahay namin. 6 am to 8:00 am is supposedly the time scheduled every Wednesday.

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Smile unto your problems and let things get settled with a clear and positive mind's. Life is indeed full of struggles and challenges, yet we have to keep going. Laban lang talaga tayo sis.

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2 years ago

Love the attitude! Hirap ng buhay pero wag na nating gawing mas mahirap pa. At the end of the day, sarili pa rin natin ang tutulong sa atin kaya laban lang.

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2 years ago

Oo nga sir,minsan naiisip ko rin yan,kung lging iisipin mga problema para kasi akong nalulunod.nagdadasal nlang ako pag feeling ko mabigat na.

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2 years ago

Sometimes it's okay to admit on yourself that you are not okay. Even we avoid to, there's a point in life that we feel that ourselves is not good enough or we are so tired because of endless problems. Pero laban lang Ng laban ate, I know malalampasan po lahat ng problema

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2 years ago

Don't be so hard on yourself sis. Kung di lng siguro ako friendly at wla akong mga totoong kaibigan siguro nabaliw na ako. Dami ko probz non at tanging sila lng kakampi aside sa family ko.

Lisod sd mgvoice out sa di nato suod ky lisod jud majudged pud. Mao jud na ako huna huna mao extra careful ko mgshare share.

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2 years ago

Don't try too hard to pretend something you are not, let all the emotions of yours flow like river only then you will feel better. The more you will try to forget the pain the more you will suffer, so instead of focusing on the pain again and again try to focus on something which is more important. It's okay to feel not okay sometimes, it's totally natural as we all feel like this sometimes.

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2 years ago

Dili jud nato malikayan nga naay mga higayon nga muagi gyud ta sa stage nga lutuson ta sa pagsuway sa kinabuhi sis. Bisan unsaon pag-ingon nga dapat "go with the flow" lang ta, lisod uie, samut na ug kan.on naka's kabalaka, kaaligotgot sa mga panghitabon sa palibot.

Naay times nga ihilak nalang naho ang bation nahong kadismaya or kasuko sa sitwasyon nga ahung giatubang. Tas dagdag pa na naay mu.pressure or unsa pa na diha. Naa sa'y times nga mu.question nako Nijaโ˜๏ธ nganong ing.ane pero way laing choice kundi ipadayun lang ang kinabuhi. Tiwala lang! Kapit lang!

As for forgiveness bitaw, tinuoray nga dako na ug tabang para jud mas mahapsay pa ang atung utok sa mga butang-butang ug makahuna.huna ta'g tarung unsaon pagsulbad sa mga problema.

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2 years ago

Yes jud sis ,agree ko anang forgiveness kay makahat na natog peace of mind jud. We are all facing different problems in our lives bast no matter what problems came ,always believe that there is God who is watching amd guide us all the time.

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2 years ago

Yes it's okay to not be okay, it's just not okay to stay that way. Though we might feel bad most of the times, but we must do what makes us happy, problems are just problems, never let your problem eats you, but slowly solve them and later on you will find situation okay. I'm not okay tho, yet I'm doing the thing that makes me feel good and okay. Be brave to face this kind of situation, we all going through this, we just need to be brave and strong enough to face problems. Go hang out with your friends, tell your situation to your family they are a great help. I understand you because I've been there, were on the same page.

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2 years ago

Lahat tayo sis ganyan minsan. Minsan may problema tayo na talagang tayo lang nakakaalam, sinusubukan natin isolve muna then pag di na kaya, ask tayo ng help. Okay lang yan, dumadaan talaga sa buhay natin yan mga ganyan sis. Pero alam ko matatag ka at malalagpasan mo rin yan.

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2 years ago

Mas mararmdaman natin ang kirot kapag nag iisa tayo. Kung pwede lang sissy na pigilang ang isip sa pag iisip ng mga negatibong bagay at kung maaari lang na wag ng magpapansin ang pusong nasaktan. Time heals, sis. Circle of good friends at pagbabasa ng mga positibing bagay ay pwedeng makatulong sayo.

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2 years ago

Grabe napaka brave mo pala sis kasi hinarap mo mag isa yung mga challenges noon at yan talaga ang tama. Wag tayong matakot. Matuto tayong lumaban.

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2 years ago

Dapat din tayo masanay sis na walang aasahan kundi yung sarili natin di maiiwasan may mga mabibigat na problema pero kapit lang talaga kay Lord yun lang talaga mahalaga

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2 years ago

Oo sis tama. Laban lang tayo na andyan din si God sa heart natin.

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