Rumors, Chismis, Gossips

This April, we've gathered and heard a lot of chismis. Even we don't like to hear about them, sila lang talaga ang kusang lumalapit sa atin. Nowadays, random chismis emerging through mass medias might be talked about betrayals, being in the relationship, scamming, or whatsoever. I don't know why they like to care others just for the sake of attention and likes. Personally, I noticed that some of the influencers admire to create sizzling problems on social medias if they feel that they were losing their popularity. It's not about I'm aiming to point out someone, but it is only based on my observation. You know what I mean, lol.

This article was actually inspired from an Axie Infinity streamer on Facebook where he shared his part on this kind of issue. In his past stream, he amplified that caring other's life without even looking on themselves is just a pure thought of toxicity. Who agree with him? Raise your feet, joke. Therefore, I've been trying to lessen my care about them as wala naman talaga akong mapapala.

Just like what happened on Ricci's proposal on a teen star named Andrea on UAAP, a lot kf netizens talked about this intimate controversy. Based on what I heard from somewhere, the famous basketball player asked her to be his girlfriend by interrogating her to pick one of the shirts with label "Yes" or "No". Watch the video below to be clear on what do I want to say, lol. As usual, she picked the shirt with "Yes".

Since they were in the public place, some of the rumors saying that she's just insisted because of the peer pressure. She was sitted beside of the player's family, and maybe that's the reason she's humiliated to say "No". Additionally, they think that she did that to prevent the chance of getting disappointment from her fans. That's their gossips or chismis, you know.

Rumors are like virus which you can't control when you use your senses to communicate. They also said that their status are like Sevi and Elyse in "Chasing In The Wild" series on Wattpad written by 4reumnct. But for me, I can state some proofs that they are not alike. Anyway, there's a lot of gossips spreading in different forms of communication, and I prefer to limit my interest on those kind of topics because I don't want to be toxic.

In our community, there have these old women who admire to talk someone behind their back which is commonly called as "Marites" in our country. If you are from the other country, I don't know what they are called though. These kinds of women routinely going to the church every weekend to "magpakabanal" on their sins. But after they got outside, their devil horns are beginning to sprout. We all have these kinds of old ladie, are you? In our religion or beliefs, once the ministers or deacon/deaconess found out that there's a conflict between your co-member, then it means that you will be both expelled. Of course, they will comfront you to fix the issue first to exterminate the chance of being expelled.

Probably, there's a lot of chismis revolving around the internet which no one is exempted. Since I'm avoiding to be toxic in my own way, I just decided to make distance from that senseless gossips which just eating my time. Imagine, you hate being complimented with your insecurities and problems in life, and you'll do it to others. For what? To pleasure your toxic self? As what Conficius stated, "Do not impose on others what you do not wish for yourself.".

That's all, thanks for reading.