Now they always say 'Congratulations!'

Today, I decided to share the reason of my absences. I don't have anything to write so I decided to share what happened within the last 2 weeks. So yeah, I have a girlfriend and she was pregnant. Actually she's also here in read.cash but we don't interact with each other here because we want to keep it private. Well there are few friends who know us here tho. I guess you already have a clue who's she. She's pregnant and she gave birth last month. I was shocked and scared because her EDD will be this month so we were not prepared. It was October 19 at 10 PM when she kept complaining about her aching back and abdomen. I asked her if the pain was bearable and she said yes so I didn't mind those signs and continued sleeping. While I was asleep, she was writing her article on read.cash and did some chats with her close friends. I told her to sleep so the pain will not be felt which she did. A minute later, she woke me up again and asked me to accompany her in the comfort room for she's afraid she might let the baby out there. I was really sleepy that time and I got pissed a little lol because it was her 5th time going back and forth to the comfort room. Well, I cannot complain. She let me in the comfort room too as she let everything out. She took a tissue and wipe it on you know already. It had a little blood stain so I panicked a bit but I didn't let her know it.

We went back to our room and I told her she should change sleeping position. She did several times but the pain keeps hurting her. She told me I should let my parents know because she might give birth as of that moment. I woke my mom and dad and my mom woke my aunties too. They did some rituals there I don't know what's that called. They gathered some leaves and rub it on my girlfriend's tummy and back. I can see that my girlfriend is really in pain. I know she can tolerate pain but this time, it's different. It seems like she wants to kill me for getting her pregnant. Was it my fault? I am planning to have a baby boy next time but I guess I should forget it. So yeah, she's been complaining about the pain but she's too relaxed. She kept on walking around the house and refused to sit. She asked me to pack our things but I got nervous and kept on asking her about everything. She got irritated and gave me that killer look again.

Because of her, experiencing too much pain, we decided to go to the hospital. It was a 40-minute travel and she told us she already wanted to push but we told her to hold on for we are near. Holding it gave her much pain but still, she didn't shed a tear. Only her face got disarranged lol. It was 3:30 when we arrived at the hospital. My girlfriend wanted to enter the hospital already but we can't since we need to go to the triage. We went there and there was a lady who asked several questions which made my girlfriend irritated. She told the nurse that she already had a record there so they must let her enter. At the entrance, the guard asked for our QR codes and face shields which took us longer to enter. We searched for the QR codes and bought face shields. I got a little bit angry too since the guard won't allow us to use the wheel chair. I told him my girlfriend is in pain and she can't bear it anymore. If there's something that will happen to her and the baby, I will really sue the hospital. Because of that, one hospital employee came with the wheelchair and let my girlfriend sit on it. I was not allowed to enter the delivery room so I was left outside with a pounding heart.

I think it was after 10 minutes our baby was out already and I was like why is it that quick unlike from movies? Never mind. She gave birth at 3:52 AM. I was really happy that moment and couldn't wait to see our baby. But I admit during that time, I was afraid something might happened. I really prayed hard to God for the safe delivery and my girlfriend's safety.

I wasn't able to see her gave birth but I am sure she has done so much and she felt the most painful feeling in the world. She's brave. All mothers are brave. We should celebrate them in all ways we can - in all times. Nothing can equate their sacrifices so we must love them, care for them and let them feel that they are valued because those are what they deserve.

I posted a photo of our baby on my Facebook story and now they always say 'Congratulations!'

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