Each sheep with its mate or different being

Very often or better expressed almost always we let ourselves be carried away by the appearance of people so that through our eyes we can establish contact with them.

Our eyes are the first filter that we use to realize if a person meets the minimum requirements for us to approach him or her or not.

Why do human beings tend to be so complicated in their relationships with their environment?..... Most of the time I notice how a person changes their behavior towards me after a long time of talking to them and somehow the comment comes out that I am a professional.

If we are in a public place conversing with people who are strangers to us, why should I change my way of treating another stranger just by knowing that this individual is a professional? Because we don't treat people for their friendliness or their respectful way of conversing or any other attractiveness other than physical attractiveness, I mean.

In many cases, I have seen how the conversation is directed towards physically attractive people or people that from the beginning of the conversation already express that they are professionals in a common subject, and from that point on everyone would focus their eyes on that person and the others go to the background.

Sometimes I enjoy this fact. I let the conversation turn to people who arouse curiosity because of their physical attributes and those who want to be recognized as influential people because of their title as a professional.

I am not a narcissistic or self-centered woman, I do not like to draw attention to myself in public places because I do not want to be approached by people so that their comments are directed toward me and my title as a professional. I want to be taken into account as a person who comments or issues a personal opinion as an ordinary human being.

We are in a world that is becoming more and more frivolous, with a lack of empathy, with minimal feelings of detachment. We meet people every day who go out into the world only to say later in their privacy that they are successful people because they ate the world with their actions.

I am sorry to have to discern whether I am happier when I get home than when I left. By the fact that people recognized me as an important being as a professional or if, on the contrary, I returned gratefully that they knew me as a pleasant person to deal with.

I have never been attracted to places where people are selected for their appearance and not for being pleasant to deal with. I prefer and will always be grateful to people in public places who treat me in a great way as a quality human being.

I like interacting on platforms because we make a lot of followers who ignore titles and follow us as genuine human beings.

That's my humble opinion. Although in some gatherings where I get a lot of people trying to place themselves among their own I don't join them and usually move to where the funny or nice people with simple conversation are located.

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