Jealousy is an emotion that exists in everyone, the times of emergence are different. When it is exposed, it can harm both the person and the environment.
It is a cliche phrase used in the first days of jealousy;
"I trust you but I don't trust those around you"
However, even in this case, the person he tries to keep under surveillance with the emotional intensity created by the damaged trust and jealousy is the person he is "jealous". This is just the beginning.
Since it is in the beginning stage, it does not reveal itself yet,
His answer to the question "Are you jealous of me?" is only one.
"Of course not, where did the room come from?"
Now the jealousy starts to reach such a level that if you are 5 minutes late to the house, it will eat you up. He sets up many scenarios in his head, and even a few seasons of series can be shot from these scenarios.
Is jealousy a sign of love?
"Man is only jealous of the one he loves."
"The person who is not jealous does not love."
I have written above only two of the few sentences in which society has come to general evidence when it comes to jealousy.
These are short sentences established to create perception in societies and individuals, the end of jealousy is a short way to many doors. Further, it can lead you to some diagnosed mental illnesses. In other words, it is one of the dangerous emotions, it involves risk according to the extent that you take the risk or control the feeling of jealousy.
Once it gets out of control, it can destroy you, your relationship, and your environment. That's why jealousy is not and has never been a show of affection.
Although it often manifests itself in relationships, it also has varying arms such as success, ownership, and opportunities. You should have very strong arguments to be jealous of someone you already have, because it's a little pointless to be jealous of what you already have and what's yours.
Being jealous of a successful person is different from jealousy in relationships.
"He succeeded, why can't I?"
"If I Can't Do It, Nobody Can"
In fact, every success is about raising the cheetah and motivating those behind. This thought always applies to those who aim to do better, while those who are jealous are only trapped in the question of "why is he". They will never realize what is missing in them, and when you try to make them see it, they will part ways with you.
"If it's not mine, no one else"
This way of thinking has caused many people to go to prison or the grave, some words do not just stay as they are written and can turn into action. You don't want to be the target of someone in a jealousy fit when it turns into action.
Concentrating on the effects of jealousy on relationships, the person you are jealous of may be your boyfriend or girlfriend, perhaps your spouse.
You should ask yourself,
"Why did he choose me?" Yes, the answer to this question may take you away from the point of envy. The person you are jealous of could have chosen someone else instead of using his preference for you, he could still choose, but with you.
The feeling of being cheated on is another emotion that triggers jealousy and it can happen to anyone. Increasing your level of jealousy can help this possibility occur. Maybe you pushed the person you have into someone else's arms with your own hands with this bad habit of yours.
"Isn't that odds worse?"
Of course, if you are a very rich person and the person you are with is in a relationship with you only for your money and the opportunities you offer, then you need to be afraid and think. You are right to have all kinds of jealousy crises, but you are the one who brought this result out again. Instead of envying, restraining and limiting such people, it is recommended to get rid of them immediately. Make sure to part ways and stay away from road crossings again.
Do not limit the person you love,
don't take away his right to breathe,
Do not imprison in your own lines!
Every time you do these things, the distance between you will increase and become irreparable.
Don't say that you do all this because you love, to love someone is to leave yourself vulnerable to them. Love takes effort, don't destroy your labor.
Thank you for reading.
So cute and funny this line "i trust you but not the people around" which is true. I also told this line to my boyfriend before. 💖